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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/16/2016 2:36:31 PM   
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I'm wondering if this might be analogous to different sects of Christianity. I've known some people who are agnostics/atheists but might consider themselves "christians" with a small "c." That is, they believe in the moral aspects of Christianity, such as "turn the other cheek," "love thy neighbor," doing good works, giving alms, etc., but they don't believe in the supernatural aspects, such as Immaculate Conception or the Resurrection, nor do they really believe in any "God." Some might argue that they might still be accepted into the "Kingdom of God" if they do good works and live a moral life, since "God" sees inside their heart - or something like that. (Although, fundamentalists are a bit more rigid than that and insist that only by believing in the supernatural aspects will one be "saved.")

Just like any other belief system, there are different factions and offshoots - and many claiming that they are the "true believers" while others are not.

I've had discussions with believers who might reduce it to a belief in some undefined "higher power" or "intelligent designer," to simplify it as something very vague - when they're presenting it to non-believers. They might say "If you believe in any kind of higher power, then you believe in God," and it might even seem halfway reasonable and harmless. Yet once you cross that line and say "I believe," then they start presenting even more detailed beliefs and sets of rules to follow and so on. It's no longer the simple thing of an undefined "higher power," but an entire belief system with many rules and specific principles to follow.


Interesting. I've never thought to compare it with anything religious.

I suppose that at bottom, feminism has now had such an impact that most women, most people, in fact, have absorbed the central tenets and take them as read - common sense, ordinary, run of the mill.

Most of us, I think, would call any ordinary churchgoer a 'Christian', so long as the church that he/she goes to is a Christian church. Anybody would still be called a Christian, I dare say, if he/she only ever went to church at Christmas, or Easter, or to get married ... so long as he/she didn't buy into another religion as well. Myself, I've sometimes put down on official forms that I'm Christian - mainly because the moral precepts, the vague idea of God, etc, etc - were what I was brought up with. I'm not religious, in fact. But sometimes I've felt that what's being asked is about my background culture and certain things, as opposed to other things (of other religions) that I take for granted.

However, with feminism - and not a few other 'isms' - like socialism, for instance - a big stack of old propagandising is involved. That's just in the nature of politics and political terms, I'm afraid. The oldest trick in the book is to make out that if any person buys into any version of belief x, then that person is the 'same as'/'in cahoots with/at bottom (in some usually unspecified way) a believer in the most extreme version and undesirable version of x. Thus, anyone who believes in a national health service is 'by definition' not just into a form of social health, but a socialist. And if he's a socialist, why, of course he must be a communist. Like Stalin ....

It's got to the screwy stage now, re feminism particularly, whereby the propagandising has been so relentless, so extreme, and for so long ... that many people won't even call themselves feminists *unless* they consider themselves to be extreme feminists - manhaters, even.

It was ever thus, with feminism. Way, way back, in the days of the suffragettes, ordinary, quite prim and proper women who merely announced that they thought women should have the vote, would be cast as the sorts of 'monsters' who'd punch policemen. It still does. It's still possible to get someone to believe that if she (or he) buys into a full-blooded equality of the sexes - but that, and only that - then she must, ipso facto, be a man-hater. Yet, underneath all that, feminism has been phenomenally successful, from what I've seen. It's radically changed things so, so quickly - and, apparently, permanently. I mean, think of it: how long did it take for universal suffrage to be achieved? The suffragette movement kicked off here in the UK in the 1880s and within just a few decades it had *achieved* female suffrage.

But the acid test is always the same: how long before a set of precepts are accepted as axiomatic and unproblematic, and by the majority of people? Seriously, given the definition of feminism that I've quoted (again and again) - who here, really, would want to argue that he or she is *not* a feminist? I've seen no takers so far in this thread. I mean, even your average femsub, who wants to see her male partner as superior in some (or even all) ways, I think has some tacit understanding that, in the old days, how she *wanted* to see males didn't matter. She had no conscious choice, back then. She's chosen to go for a relationship of inequality - but she's only been able to make that choice from a position that she has a *right* and the *freedom* to make that choice - the *equal* right and freedom of anyone else, including any man.




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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/16/2016 2:52:10 PM   
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Dammit. I hate it when you're right.


It's lovely to see how rarely you feel any sense of hatred for your BF, Kaliko.


Husband. It's lovely to see how rarely I feel any sense of hatred for my husband.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/16/2016 2:56:39 PM   
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Husband. It's lovely to see how rarely I feel any sense of hatred for my husband.


You can be utterly sure that I will henceforth never forget that he's your husband.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/16/2016 5:44:39 PM   
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As previously mentioned, and I think now on many occasions, old boy, I don't need to name any feminist individual or group.
No, it's not that you don't need to, it's that you can't.

Really, this evasion of yours is pathetic. You claim anyone who doesn't hew to your dictionary definition isn't a feminist. In that case dear boy, none of them are and you're spouting nonsense about a group that simply does not exist.

The truth of course, is that feminism is essentially a militant man-hating creed that forever seeks advantages for women. That is how you know an individual or organisation is a feminist one - because they're engaged in anti-male rhetoric. NOW self-identifies as a feminist and by my test of feminism IS one. By YOUR test of feminism they can't possibly be one. Yet... I somehow think they know whether they're feminist a bit better than you do.

Your dictionary definition is a quaint little sham. An attempt to hide the true face of hatred that is feminism. I realise it's been indoctrinated into you, but repeating it ad nauseam just emphasises both your intellectual dishonesty and your complete inability to examine the illogic of your position.

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All *you* need to do is find a person - woman or man - who agrees with 'the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes'.
Now you're changing your defintion. First you say it's about people who believe in equality, now you're adding in 'advocacy'. Tsk, tsk Peon, your manifest dishonesty grows with every post you make.

Of course, it's nonsense. To be a feminist you can't just believe the sexes should be treated "equally" you have to believe they should be treated the same and that gender differences are social constructions. Oh, and that men oppress women. Yes, musn't forget that bit.

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You're demanding, and insisting, that I name a given individual because you take it as read that a 'feminist' just *must* be someone who belongs to a small, extreme, group. Feminists aren't extremists, Awareness. They're ordinary people. They're everywhere. It's only extreme anti feminists who want to box feminists up as and *only* as extreme.
Oh no, it's quite simple. You've painted yourself into a corner. You're trapped by your own illogic.

You claim that anybody who engages in anti-male advocacy is not a feminist. You also claim that feminists are defined by your dictionary definition. You dare not name any public example of a feminist group or individual because all I have to do is demonstrate that they're engaged in anti-male advocacy - as indeed feminists are - and suddenly - by your logic - they're both a feminist and not a feminist.

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And for the nth time, this is how anyone who knows anything about the subject identifies feminism and feminists. It's not how you and frothing MRA identify it, and them ... but you *really will* just have to get used to the fact that your extremist version is just that - extremist.
Dear boy, your POSITION is extreme. Who in the hell do you think you are to co-opt women who have absolutely no desire to be part of your ideology of male hatred?

Young women aren't feminists. They don't want to be and those with sexual power or competence don't need to be. They have no desire to be lumped in with an ideology of hatred. And the standard party line you're trotting out about anyone who believes in gender equality being a feminist is a desperate reaction from a gasping ideology that is being soundly rejected by women in droves.

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So, again, if you want to name a feminist: go outside, approach a woman (don't be too aggressive, if at all possible) and ask her, 'would you argue that the sexes are equal' ... and you will have met a feminist. Simple as that.
No Peon, that's simply not true. Feminism is not a belief in equality. Feminism is a belief in a world dominated and make toxic by the monstrosities that are men. Your attempt to grab people who want nothing to do with your ideology of hatred and co-opt them into your madness is pathetic - and it's not going to work. Young women are still rejecting you.

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Can you do that, Awareness, for me? Can you go out and ask a woman that question, while arranging not to look too rolling-eyed and berserker-ish in the process? You don't need to ask a woman who looks like she's a monster; still less do you need to ask one who looks like a mystic of some sort. Just any woman.
Peon, you feminists are so desperate you're beginning to sound and act insane. You do realise that, right? Nobody persists in this denial of reality so blindly unless they have colossal issues.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/16/2016 7:57:08 PM   
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However, with feminism - and not a few other 'isms' - like socialism, for instance - a big stack of old propagandising is involved. That's just in the nature of politics and political terms, I'm afraid. The oldest trick in the book is to make out that if any person buys into any version of belief x, then that person is the 'same as'/'in cahoots with/at bottom (in some usually unspecified way) a believer in the most extreme version and undesirable version of x. Thus, anyone who believes in a national health service is 'by definition' not just into a form of social health, but a socialist. And if he's a socialist, why, of course he must be a communist. Like Stalin ....


This might be part of where the confusion might come in, since a dictionary definition is often insufficient to define most words ending in "-ism" (at least when it refers to a philosophy or ideology). There was once a time when "nationalism" meant something more positive in people's minds, but now it's viewed as mostly negative and malignant. It was the same with "socialism."

But whole volumes can be written and have been written about nationalism, socialism, feminism, liberalism, progressivism, conservatism, etc. Even terms like "right-wing" and "left-wing" can be interpreted all sorts of ways.

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It's got to the screwy stage now, re feminism particularly, whereby the propagandising has been so relentless, so extreme, and for so long ... that many people won't even call themselves feminists *unless* they consider themselves to be extreme feminists - manhaters, even.


It may not necessarily be a reflection on "feminism" in general, although what I've noticed is a compartmentalization of feminism, which is different from what I remember feminism (or "women's lib" as it was called back then) used to be. Feminism was a part of a greater whole of mainly progressive causes including civil rights, fighting poverty/classism/racism, anti-war, etc. Now, all of these causes which were once together have branched off into their own little niche where they're focused solely on one issue and one issue alone. There's no real "big picture" focus anymore; it's all just a bunch of little pictures, unrelated and disconnected from each other.

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It was ever thus, with feminism. Way, way back, in the days of the suffragettes, ordinary, quite prim and proper women who merely announced that they thought women should have the vote, would be cast as the sorts of 'monsters' who'd punch policemen. It still does. It's still possible to get someone to believe that if she (or he) buys into a full-blooded equality of the sexes - but that, and only that - then she must, ipso facto, be a man-hater. Yet, underneath all that, feminism has been phenomenally successful, from what I've seen. It's radically changed things so, so quickly - and, apparently, permanently. I mean, think of it: how long did it take for universal suffrage to be achieved? The suffragette movement kicked off here in the UK in the 1880s and within just a few decades it had *achieved* female suffrage.


It was about the same here in the US. Some states allowed women to vote long before the 19th Amendment was ratified. I don't think it was always thought of as man-hating, though. Personally, I always thought the idea that feminists are "man-haters" was irrelevant anyway. If they are, so what? If someone hates me merely because I'm a man, that's their loss, not mine. I'm not going to lose any sleep over it.

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But the acid test is always the same: how long before a set of precepts are accepted as axiomatic and unproblematic, and by the majority of people? Seriously, given the definition of feminism that I've quoted (again and again) - who here, really, would want to argue that he or she is *not* a feminist? I've seen no takers so far in this thread.


I think if we're looking at the bare bones definition relating to the principle of "equal rights before the law," then this would mean the basic goals of feminism were already achieved decades ago. Even before the 1960s, women had the right to vote, the right to own property, the right to education - at least on paper. The Civil Rights Act of 1964 outlawed discrimination on the basis of race, religion, sex, etc.

A lot of what feminism became after that was not so much about changing the law, since that had already been done. It was more about changing public perceptions. For example, instead of "chairman" it became "chairperson" - that sort of stuff. I still remember back when hurricanes were given only female names, and yet, this was something that feminists ostensibly complained about, prompting the change to giving hurricanes alternating male and female names.

The central theme was total equality in the belief that a woman can do anything a man can do, whether it's firefighter, working in a hardhat occupation, or any other previously male-dominated occupation. Most of these barriers had already been broken decades ago, so some might question whether feminism is even relevant anymore.

I'm not necessarily going to argue that I'm *not* a feminist. As a counter-example, I might say that if I lived during the 19th century, I would be an abolitionist. I am still very much anti-slavery, but since the passage of the 13th Amendment, saying "I'm an Abolitionist" just wouldn't make any sense nowadays. I wouldn't argue that I'm *not* an abolitionist, but it just doesn't seem like something I would argue either way.

Or it may be like the word "liberal," which is another one of those terms which gets tossed and twisted about. Technically, anyone who believes in freedom of speech, freedom of religion, the right to vote, etc. would be a "liberal," yet in common parlance, it often gets used differently. If someone is against "liberals," then they're against freedom - if we want to use a basic dictionary definition. Usually, when pressed on it, most on the right who lambaste and rail against "liberals" will concede that, yes, they are liberals too when using the basic definition. They'll admit to that, but only within that narrow context.


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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/17/2016 3:11:56 AM   
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Dammit. I hate it when you're right.


It's lovely to see how rarely you feel any sense of hatred for your BF, Kaliko.


Husband. It's lovely to see how rarely I feel any sense of hatred for my husband.


You must have found a good one.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/17/2016 8:32:53 AM   
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Oh, you've got to ask Peon who the "true" feminists are. Apparently a great deal of those feminist organisations and individuals aren't "true" feminists.

I've yet to see him identify one "true" feminist.


Jesus Christ on a giraffe. Well, I'll just have to cite it yet again, so it seems. I don't know why you keep doing this, Awareness .... Why in god's name do you find it so difficult? Oh well.

"the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes"

- Anybody who supports that, per the definition of feminism that you find at the top of the page if you Google 'feminism defined', will help you identify a 'true feminist'. God knows, even your GF might be a feminist, given that. Ask her. But, please, don't get as gobshitey and fuckety fucking aggressive with her as you do with everyone you argue with on this forum on this subject.

The truth is that you, personally, just *must* see 'feminism' in terms of high theory, bogeywoman rantings. If it's not that, then it *cannot* be feminism, in your terms. But feminism went beyond that many, many years ago. Its principles have seeped into the consciousness of millions the world over and have been accepted as true and right so much that even many of those who pronounce themselves non- or even anti- feminists nonetheless utterly accept and live by feminist principles.

Hell's bells ... I honestly do *not* get you, Awareness. You're not an idiot on most subjects. But on this one - of feminism - you somehow get overwhelmed by total cretinism. Really, you should try to stop being a tit on this.


I'm wondering if this might be analogous to different sects of Christianity.
Just like any other belief system, there are different factions and offshoots - and many claiming that they are the "true believers" while others are not.

This is a pretty fair way of looking at feminisms. There are a multitude of individual streams of feminism that range from liberal feminism to the strident radical feminism that Awareness and Nicki seem to believe is representative of all feminisms. Beyond agreeing in gender equality and advancing the interests of women, there are a multitude of points on which they diverge and sometimes conflict.

So there is no singular feminism that is the standard. Nor is there any organisation or individual that either represents all feminists or speaks on behalf of all feminists. The tactics used by ignorant critics of feminism here - take one isolated quote or action by someone who calls themselves a feminist and claim that their position is representative of all feminisms and feminists are cheap and devious. It's like claiming IS represents all Muslims or the KKK represents all whites.

If you want an example of what an average feminist might look like, then she is likely to be interested in ensuring gender equality in the workplace and home, with stopping violence against women and children, with ensuring women control their fertility and so on. There are likely hundreds of millions if not billions of such women in the world, many of whom might prefer, like me, not to adopt the label 'feminist' for themselves. I think Peon is correct to point out that these precepts have become more or less universally accepted in most of the Western world, which is possibly why people forget that these issues are the core of feminism for many women.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/17/2016 8:35:09 AM   
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are cheap and devious.

Cheap yes, but hardly devious, as one would have to be rather slow witted to not see the fallacy in the argument.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/17/2016 9:54:35 AM   
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today is the 31st anniversary of meeting my husband.
He was a blind date, set up about an hour and a half before I actually met him by a mutual friend.
I was a feminist then, I was an activist, I was 23.

31 years later, Im still with my husband, he and I raised three kids TOGETHER. He worked, and I worked. He is now retired, I am still working.
Im still a feminist. In fact, Im more strident now, because shit attitudes like nick and awareness ideology abounds more today than it did in the 80s.
Its sickening.
I dont believe in radical anything. its an area of mental health that is very unpleasant.

The fallacies that people like Nick and Awareness have is their complete intellectual ability to see graduations.
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Feminism is a belief in a world dominated and make toxic by the monstrosities that are men.

What utter fucking rot, not even worth defending with facts, its puerile bullshit disguised as ego stroking.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/17/2016 11:10:01 AM   
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31 years Lucylastic smiles and gives you a standing ovation. Wicked looking, as always handsome, in slipper with a cheeky glint of infinity in his swoony (that a word bloody is now) eyes. I made it to 11 years married the last 4-6 of that relationship from very very long time ago.Oh, new age dawns, is that why women will not date me nowadays because I have no idea how long i was married to creature utter wretch ( i deem her more evil than good so the comment is a fair one)

Ah yes the custody thing - this is something that I have always wondered about, or the primary custody holder of sprog, or sropggette. I have always, truly, felt it should be with the least unhinged parent, and often with neither of the twain

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/17/2016 9:50:37 PM   
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today is the 31st anniversary of meeting my husband.
He was a blind date, set up about an hour and a half before I actually met him by a mutual friend.
I was a feminist then, I was an activist, I was 23.

31 years later, Im still with my husband, he and I raised three kids TOGETHER. He worked, and I worked. He is now retired, I am still working.
Im still a feminist. In fact, Im more strident now, because shit attitudes like nick and awareness ideology abounds more today than it did in the 80s.
Its sickening.
I dont believe in radical anything. its an area of mental health that is very unpleasant.

The fallacies that people like Nick and Awareness have is their complete intellectual ability to see graduations.
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Feminism is a belief in a world dominated and make toxic by the monstrosities that are men.

What utter fucking rot, not even worth defending with facts, its puerile bullshit disguised as ego stroking.
Don't be stupid. As a feminist you're completely unfamiliar with facts and evidence is your bete noire. Let's not pretend you have any actual facts to argue with.


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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/18/2016 3:34:20 AM   
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are cheap and devious.

Cheap yes, but hardly devious, as one would have to be rather slow witted to not see the fallacy in the argument.

I stand corrected! However we shouldn't lose sight of the fact the more strident anti-feminists posting here are rather slow witted, and they specialise in drivel that could only impress the slow witted.

It is sad to see people continually resort to these tactics. It is even sadder to see that the same people attempt to set themselves up as experts on feminisms, even though their ignorance of feminisms is glaringly obvious to anyone with a passing familiarity with feminisms. It is even sadder to note that these people probably so deluded that they regard their ignorance and drivel as intelligent perspectives.

OTOH I suppose that I should welcome the fact that these rabid opponents of women's rights are so thoroughly and irredeemably stupid. In politics one's opponents can never be stupid enough - it's preferable by far that opponents of women's rights are steeped in obvious and blatant ignorance, personal and sexual insecurities, stupidity and hate than they might be intelligent enough to mount an informed or rational critique of feminisms.

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/18/2016 4:01:31 AM   
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today is the 31st anniversary of meeting my husband.
He was a blind date, set up about an hour and a half before I actually met him by a mutual friend.
I was a feminist then, I was an activist, I was 23.

31 years later, Im still with my husband, he and I raised three kids TOGETHER. He worked, and I worked. He is now retired, I am still working.
Im still a feminist. In fact, Im more strident now, because shit attitudes like nick and awareness ideology abounds more today than it did in the 80s.
Its sickening.
I dont believe in radical anything. its an area of mental health that is very unpleasant.

The fallacies that people like Nick and Awareness have is their complete intellectual ability to see graduations.
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Feminism is a belief in a world dominated and make toxic by the monstrosities that are men.

What utter fucking rot, not even worth defending with facts, its puerile bullshit disguised as ego stroking.
Don't be stupid. As a feminist you're completely unfamiliar with facts and evidence is your bete noire. Let's not pretend you have any actual facts to argue with.


Here's one simple fact that is impossible to reconcile with your absurd claims. The overwhelming majority of feminists are heterosexual in orientation and have loving relationships with men, usually with a few children involved.

Please feel free to attempt to reconcile this fact with your claim that feminists regard men as "toxic monstrosities", though it might be advisable to refrain from further parading your ignorance and/or otherwise embarrassing yourself.

FYI: the stream of lesbian separatist feminism, aka radical lesbian feminism, whose excesses you and poor little nicki are so fond of focussing on, and misrepresenting as mainstream feminism, was never a dominant stream with the women's movement. It reached the height of its limited influence in the 1970s and 80s and has been in rapid and terminal decline ever since. Nowadays this stream of feminism doesn't even reflect the views of a majority of lesbians, who abandoned separatism for coalition with gay men and other queers decades ago. A lot of feminists, probably a majority of feminists regard this particular stream of feminism as little more than an embarrassment, in much the same manner as most American whites regard the KKK as an anachronistic embarrassment, or most Muslims regard IS as a tragic embarrassment.

And last but certainly not least, congratulations to Lucy on 31 years of happiness, and all the best to both of you, and all yours, for the future

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Here's one simple fact that is impossible to reconcile with your absurd claims. The overwhelming majority of feminists are heterosexual in orientation and have loving relationships with men, usually with a few children involved.
Citation! Evidence for your absurd claim. Oh... wait... as a feminist you don't believe in evidence do you. You prefer.... "feelings" to facts.

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Please feel free to attempt to reconcile this fact with your claim that feminists regard men as "toxic monstrosities", though it might be advisable to refrain from further parading your ignorance and/or otherwise embarrassing yourself.
It's not a fact, it's speculation on your part. You have no evidence to support it whatsoever. None.

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FYI: the stream of lesbian separatist feminism, aka radical lesbian feminism, whose excesses you and poor little nicki are so fond of focussing on, and misrepresenting as mainstream feminism, was never a dominant stream with the women's movement. It reached the height of its limited influence in the 1970s and 80s and has been in rapid and terminal decline ever since. .
Incorrect! My statements are about mainstream feminism, not the radfems. Their particular breed of nuttiness lives on in the Duluth model and other misandrist approaches to dealing with the world. Nonetheless, mainstream feminism doesn't mind adopting their creed when it turns out to be useful.

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Nowadays this stream of feminism doesn't even reflect the views of a majority of lesbians, who abandoned separatism for coalition with gay men and other queers decades ago.
No, that's disingenuous. Germaine Greer is still as anti-trans as she ever was and she's hardly a lesbian radfem.

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A lot of feminists, probably a majority of feminists regard this particular stream of feminism as little more than an embarrassment, in much the same manner as most American whites regard the KKK as an anachronistic embarrassment, or most Muslims regard IS as a tragic embarrassment.
What's fascinating is watching third wave feminists pretend to give a shit while pursuing their goal of assembling a coalition of anti-white-male "victims". They started to embrace the trans community when they realised they could be victim-allies together.


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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/18/2016 8:30:07 AM   
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are cheap and devious.

Cheap yes, but hardly devious, as one would have to be rather slow witted to not see the fallacy in the argument.

I stand corrected! However we shouldn't lose sight of the fact the more strident anti-feminists posting here are rather slow witted, and they specialise in drivel that could only impress the slow witted.

It is sad to see people continually resort to these tactics. It is even sadder to see that the same people attempt to set themselves up as experts on feminisms, even though their ignorance of feminisms is glaringly obvious to anyone with a passing familiarity with feminisms. It is even sadder to note that these people probably so deluded that they regard their ignorance and drivel as intelligent perspectives.

OTOH I suppose that I should welcome the fact that these rabid opponents of women's rights are so thoroughly and irredeemably stupid. In politics one's opponents can never be stupid enough - it's preferable by far that opponents of women's rights are steeped in obvious and blatant ignorance, personal and sexual insecurities, stupidity and hate than they might be intelligent enough to mount an informed or rational critique of feminisms.

Wow, a pretencious pot discussing kettles.

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So did you get this from a gender biased misandrist site where the girls all spin victimhood tales from the womb or a racial bias western culture hating site where they all sit around and share victimhood tales of micro aggression while pining for a safe space?

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/18/2016 10:53:33 PM   
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Regardless if the child is more bonded with one parent over another, or if one parent works longer hours, or if the parent has emotional or substance abuse issues — there will be an equal split.

How is this in the child's best interest?
You know, my girlfriend works as an air stewardess, and her x-husband works as a lawyer.
In that situation, her husband won 100% custody, because he argues that his wife's job makes her unable to be around for the kids and he has his parents and himself to help take care of the kids and be there for them every day.

So he won. This benefits men as well, IF they are in the better position to care for the kids, they should get 100% custody instead of the woman.

I mean, this is how it should work. I mean she may be my friend and she's upset about it, but in real reality, she's never in Singapore, ever! She's in Singapore maybe one week every 3 months, she CANNOT possibly take care of her own children with her job scope. Her kids are below 10 yr old and they are not independent.

I don't agree with equal split of custody.

It needs to be 101% based on the best interest of the child. I know house husbands who won 100% custody too, because his wife is too busy with work, and he gets alimony, as his sacrificed his job for the kids and the kids are more bonded to him. He got a pretty good alimony of 12k per month.

This new law is gonna say, there is gonna be equal custody EVEN if one parents was completely unfit, even if that parent was suffering from drugs abuse?

That's horrible!!! EVERYBODY should be against this bill! And this isn't a woman's right issue. It's trespassing man's right too! It's totally not in the best interest of the child involve. It's horrible!

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RE: Women's rights groups to rally against equal custod... - 4/19/2016 3:26:53 AM   
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This quote is from the article posted.

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Regardless if the child is more bonded with one parent over another, or if one parent works longer hours, or if the parent has emotional or substance abuse issues — there will be an equal split.

How is this in the child's best interest?



Greta, the bill doesn't say that. The article says it does. But it does not.

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This new law is gonna say, there is gonna be equal custody EVEN if one parents was completely unfit, even if that parent was suffering from drugs abuse?



No, that's not what the bill says at all. I'm sure you could Google it just as I did and read the long list of factors taken into consideration when considering custody. What the bill did was presume equal custody at the start of determination, and then consider the specific circumstances surrounding that child and the parents to determine custody.

Honestly, when I was reading the bill, I was a little disappointed that we even had to put something like that into law. It's just common sense.


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