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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 2:39:04 PM   
mnottertail


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The worse is that even a woman with only one brain cell can easily dominate me.


This is a clumsy sentence, nonetheless, lets look at it.

I am a dominant man. I have no desire to enthrall a stump.
I cannot believe that there is a plethora of dominant women that 'use feminine logic' and wish to own a stump.

Therein is our first hurdle............

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 2:43:31 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If you click on LP's profile and send her a note, you do know her name. It's the one on the profile. Being too lazy to address her by her screen name does not show you to be a desirable partner.

When you tell people that you can't handle a rejection from a stranger, it says that you have enormous issues that you need to work on. Go to therapy, go to self help groups. Or do nothing and be shocked when nothing changes.

And who the hell do you think you are to tell us that we have no right to do whatever we feel is necessary to protect ourselves? There's not a woman on earth who doesn't feel uncomfortable or afraid at the hands of strange men. Online death threats aren't as bad as real life ones, but they're still bad enough that we have no responsibility to court more of them. Moreover, men who refuse to accept a woman's need to protect herself, in exactly the manner that you have done, are the ones most likely to send those very unpleasant emails.

Please note that anyone who is interested in you can read this forum post and is going to decide that you aren't someone she wants to know. Because you cross limits repeatedly. You disregard what women say, what they want and need, and nobody wants a partner who marginalizes and diminishes them.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 2:52:17 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

FUCK YOU YOU FAT WHORE, YOU ARE A FAKE, YOU ARE NOT A DOMINATE, GET THE FUCK OFF THIS SIGHT!!!........

And because some men react in this way, better assume that all men are morons?



10% of guys will respond to a rejection letter with abuse.
8% of them will respond by arguing with the women about how she's wrong for rejecting them, to the tune of several additional mails sent.
10% will thank her for sending them the rejection letter (which also waste her time, considering that she's already got more emails to deal with than she's got time for.

So in a full 28% of cases, when a woman sends a rejection letter, she's going to spend more time wasted on a guy she's not interested in, giving her less time to spend on guys she's interested in, and in 10% of cases they're going to verbally abuse her (potentially chasing her off the site).

So, for you, as a guy, there are two options here:

- Either you want a woman to handle her mail in the way that is most pleasant to her. This includes deleting mails unread, or not replying to them, as doing this both shelters her from abusive replies, as well as optimizes her time spent on the site (giving her more time to communicate with men she IS interested in). Making this site more pleasant for women increases the likelihood that more women will stay on the site, which will make more women available, which increases your chances on finding a woman who is interested in you, AND increases your chances that when you DO find a woman who is interested in you, she will have more time available to talk to you.

- Or you want a woman to do the polite thing, and read/reply to ever mail she gets. This wastes her time and makes her time on the site more unpleasant because she's confronted with abusive emails. The fact that the site is unpleasant for her increases the odds of her leaving. This means that there are now less available women on the site, which decreases your chances of finding a woman who will be interested in talking to you. If by some chance, the woman who is interested in you has not yet left the site, and you manage to find her, she will also have far less time available to actually talk to you, and get to know you, because part of the limited time she's got available every day to spend on this site, she'll be spending on reading mail from, and replying to mail from, men she isn't interested in. So after you have found her, and are attempting to build a relationship with her online, of the two hours or so she's got every day to spend on this site, she'll have to spend about half on mails from guys she's not interested in, instead of actually talking to you.

If I was a guy, I know what my preference would be for sure...

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I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner
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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:03:44 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

FUCK YOU YOU FAT WHORE, YOU ARE A FAKE, YOU ARE NOT A DOMINATE, GET THE FUCK OFF THIS SIGHT!!!........

And because some men react in this way, better assume that all men are morons?




It's not some men....it's most men.

I always find it interesting that men like blaming the women for how other men taught us to behave. We have learned that 90% of the men will abuse us if we reply. But, yet....I don't see you calling out the guys that act like assholes. Only the women that choose avoid potential interactions with those assholes.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:06:39 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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No, don't care, I only do so with comments that comprise very genuine feminine logic.

define feminine logic.

There are a lot of definitions of feminine logic.

Example 1

He caught me cheating. It's his fault for spying on me.

Example 2

She doesn't want guys to stare at her ass. She wears shorts with words printed on them.

Example 3

You’re supposed to pull my chair out, hold the door open for me, pay for me and be nice to me no matter what. While treating me like an equal.

Example 4

Day One: “I want you to take charge sexually. I want you to ‘want’ me. I want you to be dominant and ‘have your way with me.'”

Day Two: “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Three (still trying): “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Four (giving up, but last hope): “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Five (given up): “Why don’t you think I’m sexy? Why aren’t you trying to have sex with me? Why do I always have to start things? Why are you looking at me like that? Oh, now you’re mad at me?”


I can give you more definitions if you want.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:12:22 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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And because some men react in this way, better assume that all men are morons?

Yes, because that "some" is actually a surprisingly large number.

Thank you for telling me. I really thought it was only a minority. I already realized that, even at my age, I can learn a lot from you.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:24:57 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: Danemora

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: Danemora

I think you give random strangers way too much fucking power over you.

I'm afraid you are right, but I cannot avoid it.



Thats bullshit. You CAN avoid it by not getting all torn up inside over stupid insignificant shit.

While we are talking about shit: perhaps Collarspace can provide for the following. When a lady replies to my message and I click on the link, it doesn't open a message, but an .mp3 file to have me hear the lady farting at me.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:29:45 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I cannot in the leastwise agree with your sentiments, you see?

Yes, I see. I didn't know that sentiments could be agreed with. I thought sentiments happen and can be understood.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:30:19 PM   
smartsub10


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst


quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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No, don't care, I only do so with comments that comprise very genuine feminine logic.

define feminine logic.

There are a lot of definitions of feminine logic.

Example 1

He caught me cheating. It's his fault for spying on me.

Example 2

She doesn't want guys to stare at her ass. She wears shorts with words printed on them.

Example 3

You’re supposed to pull my chair out, hold the door open for me, pay for me and be nice to me no matter what. While treating me like an equal.

Example 4

Day One: “I want you to take charge sexually. I want you to ‘want’ me. I want you to be dominant and ‘have your way with me.'”

Day Two: “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Three (still trying): “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Four (giving up, but last hope): “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Five (given up): “Why don’t you think I’m sexy? Why aren’t you trying to have sex with me? Why do I always have to start things? Why are you looking at me like that? Oh, now you’re mad at me?”


I can give you more definitions if you want.


Do I detect a tinge of bitter disillusionment?

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:37:42 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst


quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

quote:

No, don't care, I only do so with comments that comprise very genuine feminine logic.

define feminine logic.

There are a lot of definitions of feminine logic.

Example 1

He caught me cheating. It's his fault for spying on me.

Example 2

She doesn't want guys to stare at her ass. She wears shorts with words printed on them.

Example 3

You’re supposed to pull my chair out, hold the door open for me, pay for me and be nice to me no matter what. While treating me like an equal.

Example 4

Day One: “I want you to take charge sexually. I want you to ‘want’ me. I want you to be dominant and ‘have your way with me.'”

Day Two: “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Three (still trying): “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Four (giving up, but last hope): “Stop! I don’t want to have sex tonight!”

Day Five (given up): “Why don’t you think I’m sexy? Why aren’t you trying to have sex with me? Why do I always have to start things? Why are you looking at me like that? Oh, now you’re mad at me?”


I can give you more definitions if you want.

Well that's a whole load of sexist bullshit.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:39:14 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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I already realized that, even at my age, I can learn a lot from you

I know dear, the list of things you can learn from me goes on and on.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 3:44:45 PM   
AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

LOL and that is why you are moaning at women.

The worse is that even a woman with only one brain cell can easily dominate me.



The worse?

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:01:42 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst
Oh but when "Dear lady" is OK to you, then he can better play with you.

No, and you are being presumptuous.

It would still have to have the content of something along the examples that I gave. There is no "better play with you" because that's not the criteria that I would need for a play partner. Very simply, it was some random examples of questions that I would (and have) answer via email, rather than deleting the message if I used the hover feature.

OMG... I built up shit. I'm so sorry that even with the smiley, I couldn't make clear that it was just a joke ("play on the lotterie" vs "play with you"). And thank you sincerely for drawing my attention to the fact that I was being presumptuous, which I consider to be very impertinent. I feel ashamed about it and sincerely apologize for it.

quote:

I am a <stated age> male submissive living in <country other than I reside>. I am blah, blah, blah ..."

No question. I'd delete that.

I know I am stupid, but could you please explain me why?

quote:

By the way, this absolutely does display that you are not doing to well at not writing to women outside of your age group. If their upper limit is 40, that means they are probably about half of your age. In some cases, people will accept age gaps up to a certain point but I know few exceptionally few Dominant women that would do a thirty year age gap with someone their senior.


I do write to ladies who are younger or older than me (the message I published came from a 25 and a 24 years old), but never if they state an age limit and I fall out of that range (they didn't state an age limit in their profile).

Personally, I have no age limit. But if a lady states in her profile that 60 is the upper limit, I am definitely not the guy who will try because 63 is only 5% more. To me, if a lady says max. 60, it's max. 60, not 61. Just like to me, if a lady says "no", it's "no", not "maybe".

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:07:36 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: smartsub10

Do I detect a tinge of bitter disillusionment?

No, you don't. I'm not the author.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:11:39 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

Well that's a whole load of sexist bullshit.

Only very few examples. If you enter "feminine logic" in Google, it's almost unbelievable how many results it shows.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:15:33 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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I already realized that, even at my age, I can learn a lot from you

I know dear, the list of things you can learn from me goes on and on.

If I only would have you as my teacher... and no, honestly, I'm not fishing for something else.

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:20:44 PM   
Danemora


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: Danemora

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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: Danemora

I think you give random strangers way too much fucking power over you.

I'm afraid you are right, but I cannot avoid it.



Thats bullshit. You CAN avoid it by not getting all torn up inside over stupid insignificant shit.

While we are talking about shit: perhaps Collarspace can provide for the following. When a lady replies to my message and I click on the link, it doesn't open a message, but an .mp3 file to have me hear the lady farting at me.


So which is it...are you drunk, high, batshit insane, or a combination of the three to come up with this nonsense?


< Message edited by Danemora -- 5/9/2016 4:28:06 PM >

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:43:08 PM   
crumpets


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
It's not some men....it's most men.


I find that hard to believe it's "most" men since most men are shooting left and right, at targets 1,000 miles away, at ages 18 to 99, and for women seeking anything (even other women).

How "upset" can a guy be to get a rejection note from someone in India whom he sent a "wanna fuck" message to?

Me?

As a test of your theory, I just sent the same "wanna fuck" missive to EVERY SINGLE WOMAN I find within a 100 mile radius that fits my search criteria, as shown below, and I didn't receive a single rejection letter as a result!

:)

HINT: jk

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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:43:33 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: Danemora

So which is it...are you drunk, high, batshit insane, or a combination of the three to come up with this nonsense?

I prefer batshit insane, as it's again about shit.


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RE: Deleted unread - 5/9/2016 4:47:35 PM   
QualityFirst


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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix


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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

LOL and that is why you are moaning at women.

The worse is that even a woman with only one brain cell can easily dominate me.



The worse?

The worse for me, an advantage for the dommes.

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