FieryOpal
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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul
Not only do most clubs prohibit sex in public areas, they also prohibit others from disturbing scenes. It is considered rude, inappropriate, and even dangerous to distract those within scenes. Most places you get thrown out for that sort of behavior.
So I call BS on this.
I also call total b.s. on this imaginary scenario. I have never been to a swingers' club, but I have not heard of any such goings-on at those either. (Most partner-swapping is done within a closed-loop fluid-bonded system, from what my poly friends have told me.)
I have never heard of this kind of reckless sexual behavior among females in a public venue. In a private setting, men would have to hire sex workers to perform girl-on-girl action.
This sounds more like a page out of a porn shoot. Those actors tend to keep a tight circle amongst themselves for the most part, my ex-porn sub pal tells me.
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ORIGINAL: peppermint
I agree with LilJuly. You won't see that kind of stuff happening at the places where I go. Although people, both male and female may be nude, any sex is limited to private rooms where there are no voyeurs permitted. In the places were there are no private rooms there is no sex happening.
Some submissives like to get naked while scening during public play, but under the protection of their Dominant or designated Top play partners.
Public sex is not allowed anywhere I have been. Private rooms are sectioned off in a separate area without locks (as a fire safety precaution). It is understood that an open door signals others passing by can watch nonsexual play and may get invited to participate nonsexually; a closed door means keep out, no peeking inside allowed.
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ORIGINAL: subbybound
Men had to watch the "scenes" but women were able to participate.
Yet, so many women say they don't have it any easier than men.
(a) How does ease of kink or fetish gratification enter into it? Some kinks & fetishes are more common than others. A male bottom usually wants to get Topped by a female, and finding a female Top willing to practice on a strange male is a relatively scarce proposition, since there is no shortage of male acquaintances she can pick from. Bystanding men do get invited to volunteer for demonstrations and the like by both male & female Tops, sometimes in collaboration with one another.
(b) There are usually many more unpartnered males at these events than females, and this has more to do with the law of averages per sociability and often likeability. Frankly, I notice that there are only a fraction of stag females in contrast to the number of stag males lurking about.
(c) Both male and females bottoms run into a shortage of available Tops. It is up to the Top to determine whom s/he wants to Top on a consensual basis, if anybody other than their usual partner.
(d) You will not find a free-for-all queue for bottoming no matter where you go. Sometimes a group of friends will end up nonsexually service Topping one another at a BDSM event/Dungeon or private fetish party, like a male sub friend of mine does with his female sub buddies.
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