LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: respectmen The average woman on this site doesn't even have to try. She isn't expected to make super intelligent and interesting emails, she doesn't have to make super intelligent and interesting profiles, she just has to simply exist as a woman and it all works out. Why? Because men are a 1000 times less shallow than women. Men are more open minded, more accepting, less discriminating. less judgemental, less shallow, than women ever will be. The average woman on here thinks that most of the male populatuion on this site isn't good enough for her. That's why the average woman keeps rejecting a 100 guys a day. Trimmed by me. Has nothing to do with any of that. Especially if you are going to keep making your comparison about "on here," which I assume you mean CM/CS. The more realistic theory is that males greatly outnumber females here, so there isn't a 50/50 ratio. (If folks are going to complain about how many 'fake' female profiles there are, how many women are only interested in the financial aspects, etc, the conclusion is that there are less women who are interested in play, sex, etc.) That means women are going to be interested in the men that they feel are better dating material and for each man that she finds interesting, she'll be rejecting a number of others. So, while women's standards get higher, men's standards actually lower, because the best women go to the very upper percentage of the men, and with the imbalance, the cycle repeats and repeats. Doesn't have anything to do with gender, really. It's more about how many people are seeking those in a certain category, as opposed to those being sought having choices. If you don't think so, look at the most imbalanced ratio. Couples seeking a third (poly). Couples who have more to offer are going to do better than those that don't, (depending on what the potential third's *think* of as 'more') and many couples will never find what they are hoping for. Those who are most sought after will pick from couples who have financial stability, good relationship potential, poly experience, etc are going to get the best candidates of those willing to serve a couple, and those tons of other couples will recycle again and again. PS, knock off the elementary insults to Shifty and others. It makes you look juvenile.
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