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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:12:41 PM   
SusanofO


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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:15:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, LMAO!
Both my parents went to Catholic school.
One summer my younger brother would have stayed back in second grade if he didn't complete "Summer School".
So,...my mother sent him to "Summer School" at St. Charles Parochial School where both her and my father went! lol
"Those Nuns will beat it into him!"
On the last day of summer school I was with my mother when we picked him up form that school.
He said; "Boy! I'm NEVER going back to that school!" "Those Nuns are Monsters!"
He never had any problems with his grades in public school after that!

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:18:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you, BillsGalSusan. I am not seeking right now, but plan to do it in a few months. When I do, my Dominant will be (hopefully) pleased to see I have some of my fantasies written in a notebook(s) that he will be more than welcome to peruse.

- Susan 

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:24:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nuns can be tough. The nun who taught the class that I (fortunately) was not in (I was in the other classroom) for first grade, would lift kids out of their little chairs, and hang them by the back of their shirts and sweaters on the coat hooks in the coat room closet, if they did not learn their Phonics (reading related excercises) lessons properly. She scared the holy _rap out of most of them. When they got to second grade, most of them were near perfect readers.

Basically, the nuns could discipline any way they wanted to do it, because it was a private school and their bottom-line rejoinder to any complaining parent was usually akin to: "Well, then send your child to public school, if you don't appreciate our "methods" "(of discipline).

- Susan  

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:31:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes........London can be rather a lot of fun and I enjoy trolling around China Town, Camden and Soho and generally playing.......but, of course, the usual *sights* aren't such a draw when you live here.

The *real* UK lies much further out...the small towns, the villages.....like most countries .......but as it's such a small island, it's easy to experience it all, at least a little of it all, in a short space of time.

To Popeye.......You'll find that in most large cities, here in the UK or in Ireland.......lol.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:32:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, that's true!
I've heard all the stories from my parents!
My father only had 8 years in Catholic school because that was as far as the boys could go. My mother told me that he "cruised right through high school" because he already had all the subjects they were teaching in Catholic school.
One time my parents were talking about Catholic school and the Nuns and my father said; "Man, my ears are STILL ringing from St. Charles!"
(Hmmm, I wonder how I can get my hands on a Preist's Collar?)

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:41:57 PM   
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quote:

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You guys are truly evil. LOL!

- Susan


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"Lord knows I've got to change my evil ways...baby"   Santana

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:48:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		You guys should both be priests for next Hallowe'en. Then go to a bdsm local group or munch costume party, and pick out some gal wearing a nun costume (you know there will be one there), and steal her ruler and paddle her ass with it really hard, just for me (and popeye's relatives) - for revenge! Ha! LOL!

agirl: I want to go back to the UK and see the areas outside of London. I know there is a lot more to see, and what I saw was so charming I can't wait to go to the UK again.
- Susan

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:49:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Now "Catholic School Girl" is one of my, and I'm sure many others *Big Time* fantasies! There are other sites that I've seen devoted exclusively to it.
There are *so many* scenes that can be played out if you like Role Play!
We could, I'm sure start more than a few threads about it.
I can think of a couple of dozen scenes right off the top of my head right now!
A LOT of potential there!

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 12:53:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan! That's a Great Idea! A Costume Shop! lolol
My father had one Nun that he really hated in school.
He called her; "Sister Mary Suffering Bastard!"
My mother would say, "Tommy! That's not nice!"

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 1:22:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, I'm still trying to fathom that Dom telling you that the intensity level of your scenes were only 2-6. Ha, if anyone ever asks me that, what we are doing is 10+.

Answering your question about fantasies, I think it is a way of thinking about things. Somethings would be sexy and we would like to do them, but there is a degree of harm that would happen to us or someone, so we avoid it. We have learned over the years that we can take certain risks safely and we weigh risks/rewards of activities. This may sound confusing, but what I'm saying is that there are fantasies I have that I would never consider acting on because they are harmful.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 1:26:01 PM   
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Susan! That's a Great Idea! A Costume Shop! lolol
My father had one Nun that he really hated in school.
He called her; "Sister Mary Suffering Bastard!"
My mother would say, "Tommy! That's not nice!"


A good source of costumes is a place like The Party Store the day after halloween.  I've gotten monk's robes, nun's outfits, cheerleader outfits and french maid outfits in a number of different sizes for half price.  They really add to roleplay.  One of my most treasured memories is watching Smiler, dressed as a nun, given oral sex to Rio, who was in the french maid outfit and "dusting" Smiler's back with a feather duster.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 1:32:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, ExSteel, I think my past Dom was actually perhaps trying to manipulate me into believing I should "go further" than I felt comfortable with doing, by rating some things we did as a "2" (although on the whole, he was extremely trustworthy. Plus, it didn't work, and he didn't push things much further either, except once or twice, that I recall). Thanks for the reply. Some things I have thought about, I know will probably remain a fantasy forever.

- Susan

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 1:34:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		John Warren, Thanks! That's a great idea!
I've always liked Role Play!
"Teacher/student" is another of my favorite areas of Role Play as well which of course would cross over into "Preist/ schoolgirl."
There's just so many different scenes you can do with those characters.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 1:47:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I figured out about 10 years ago that what separates me (and I suspect many of the people who post on these boards) from the rest of the herd is that we act on our fantasies.   When I was in my 20s and I started exploring my sexuality, I found that things that aroused me on paper or on line were even better in real life. 

I think that it is perfectly natural to have "extreme" fantasies that you really don't want enacted.  The classic in this area is of course rape fantasies; I've known many people who had them, I've never known anyone who actually wanted to be raped (and the rape victims I know surely do not want to repeat that experience).  Susan, I think this is normal sexual exploration. 

Now I'm not saying I have a fleeting thought one moment when watching Bull Durham for the 40th time that "Gee...that Susan Sarandon is one hot AARP member!" and go out and stalk her (I'm better controlled than that, and besides I did that last year...), but generally I don't have many fantasies that are unfulfilled.

Among the ones that are, and will stay unfulfilled:  Fantasies involving friends/coworkers/etc.  (I would love to bend my law partner X over my desk and give her "a full measure of justice", but this would be highly inappropriate).

Fantasies involving celebrities and government officials.  (Except that hottie, Madeline Albright...RoooooooWWWW!).

Dark evil fantasies.  They may become realities, but I'll never tell.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 1:53:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		That is encouraging to hear, Emperor. Truly.
As for the celebrities - for me the list gets pretty long, too. That must be partly why they make all that money...

- Susan 

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 2:04:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		The best advice I can give is if you really want to try some of these fantasies, verbalize this to your Top, and see if they think it or something near it is feasible and safe.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 2:24:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Emporer, lol @ "full measure of justice".
Ah,...Madeleine Albright??? What's THAT all about? For me it's Helen Mirren and Jamie Lee Curtiss and a bunch of others.
I agree with all the above.
I like to live out fantasies too. Maybe I won't get to do all of them but it sure would be fun to do a lot of them and more than once too!
That's one reason why I really enjoy Role Play. It lends itself very easily to the B&D lifestyle and I enjoy the props, costumes, settings and dialogue. And I seem to be able to easily slide right into character as well.
(Maybe I should have been an actor.)
I think everyone has had those "Kidnap Fantasies"  that seems to be a common theme.
About 4 or 5 months ago in Holland on the news there were two men who kidnapped a woman and were seen and pulled over by the Police and when questioned it was foundout that it was all Role Play! lol So you do have to be carefull!

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 2:50:24 PM   
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quote:

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"Teacher/student" is another of my favorite areas of Role Play...


I once taught at a local university and as luck would have it, I always had several female students that popped up in my fantasies... "Sir, I'll do anything to pass!"

Since I wanted to keep that job, the fantasies remained just that.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 2:58:42 PM   
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But then again, I am a Catholic. I went to a Catholic all-girls high school, too, complete with the plaid skirt, and saddle shoes, and knee socks school uniform, which I kept - and it still fits, and which I have available for use, when the time comes...hehe.

- Susan


I'm just catching up on this thread again and enjoying it immensely.  Um, Susan, do you think heels would work with that outfit? 

Must.....stop......fantasizing......now.

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