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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 2:58:49 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Yang, yeah, that must have been tough!
Female students, part of your "Benefits Package?"
Did they wear uniforms? That's Really Hot!!!

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 3:07:32 PM   
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Yang, yeah, that must have been tough!
Female students, part of your "Benefits Package?"
Did they wear uniforms? That's Really Hot!!!


No uniforms, but plenty of tight jeans and skimpy tops.
It was especially hard *wink* when one of the girls would ask for extra help after class.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 3:11:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh Man! You poor guy! That WAS part of your Benefits Package, wasn't it?
No wonder people go into Teaching!!!

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 5:03:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		mstrjx: Re: High heels...probably. We also used to unbutton, our white, 3/4 sleeve cotton shirts and tie them just under the bustline. It made the nuns furious! hehe.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:28:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, you have sparked the most intelligent and personal thread I have seen on this site.  Congrats.
 
If some of your fantasies involve being embarassed or humiliated in semi-public places, they are congruent with mine.......which my Mistress/girlfriend acts upon.  It is intensely erotic to be objectified, be led through a crowded restaurant with your slacks tented, and then attacked by a voracious woman in the car while still in the parking lot....gotta love her!
 
Mirror-image that, or (as a switch) imagine doing that.  Ms. L is always thinking of where she might stimulate me, or take it out.......I never know what's coming up, lol
 
We don't do pain, so I don't have any thought for you on that........but objectification and public (attempts at) humiliation, I know.
 
What about your Master sharing you with his friends?
 
MM

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:33:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well MM, as a submissive (and probably as a Switch, too) I do appreciate begging . I am also humbled by, and appreciate your complement about this thread topic.

The parking lot thing does sound hot! And as a Switch (and even as a submissive), I'm interested in hearing about it (and maybe sometime working it into a future scene). Right now, I don't have a Master, and I am not seeking one, but am in counselling and trying to get my head on straight, due to having lost my husband to cancer this past February. Around October, though I am going to start being active in bdsm again, and I appreciate the thought, and am flattered. It was nice of you to mention. Your Mistress sounds adventurous and fun, too.

I am not meaning to be flirtatious (truly) But sometimes, reading these message boards, my emotions get the better of me. I am really wanting to know how people handle their fantasies and what they do with them (and have recevied some great and helpful answers, including yours). Thank you.

- Susan 

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:39:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		"Unbutton our white cotton shirts and tie them just under our bustlines."
(Popeye- FANNING HIMSELF to cool off!)

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:45:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh there is alot of fantasies and imaginations of mines where I did some crazy or wish I had before turning 18 just for the experience whether it would be negative or positive. Alot of this comes from feeling like I had an innocent dull lonely teens, especially when I hear the stories of others and all their crazy stunts before turning 18, when become charged as an adult. Some of them I was really tempted to do during my very depressive days like getting the police to chase after me, get arrested at protests for doing crazy stunts, go nutz and put in the mental hospital, and so on.  I even have dreams about some of those things occasionally, mainly because I still feel I would like to experience it, but of course reality, rationality and common sense won't let me, but at least to can have some crazy fun with my crazy friends. :)

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:47:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, I'm sorry for your loss........it must be very hard for you.
 
Let me plant one bdsm idea with you.  Mistress bought a small, remote-control vibe that fits around my cock.  Every once in a while, she gets me to wear it when we go out.  So, out of nowhere, I start getting these wonderful sensations and, of course, get hard.  That's when she calls me her "bitch in heat" because I'm so eager........indeed, crazed for release or, more likely, to please her.
 
You could do this either way, as they also make them for women.  Your future Master makes you wear it, and turns it on at the most inopportune time.  OR, you use one on a submale.  Take your choice, lol

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:52:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		popeye: I do mean the top part was still buttoned, but it was more like a mid-riff blouse look, with the bottom part un-buttoned and tied under the bustline. (I hope to God that's what it sounded like I was saying. Wow, I am making a mess of trying to explain)...

- Susan

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:54:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		MM: Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love your suggestion! I am filing this away in my memory bank. I appreciate hearing about it. This one is going in my note-book. P.S. Things are getting better. My counsellor, and this site, have helped me a LOT.

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 7/26/2006 7:00:19 PM >

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 6:59:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, mellian, I can identify. I was a pretty shy, "good girl" kind of teen, and at times it seemed like a lot of other people were having more fun. I had plenty of friends, but not many boyfriends, at least not in high school. In college, I got a bit wilder, but those years got kind of screwed up for other reasons (I did have several bleak, severe depressive episodes, and finally found a medication that works. It's for unipolar depression, and I will be taking it for  life - but I live a completely normal life). In college, I did have a hot boyfriend , who really did act like he cared about me, and I think he really did. I think if he'd known about bdsm, he'd have classified himself as a Dominant (we did have some rough sex, but never put a name on it). 

I guess maybe I feel like I've always been submissive, but have saved it up for the latter part of my life, because I didn't start acting on any of my feelings , in any direct context, until about 2 years ago.

- Susan

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/26/2006 7:47:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, you did just fine, thankyou very much!
I'm picturing a bunch of Catholic School girls with bare midrifs, white shirts tied like "Daisey May", and plaid skirts weraing high heels!
Glad I have central air conditioning!

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 3:16:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Iwas trying to think of a new topic to post about, but am having trouble - so I resurrected this one. Of oucrse, most have alredy seen it. If so, just pass it by...

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 6:24:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		The timing of my reading this thread is amazing! I was talking with a kinky friend last night who had been offering support to one of her kinky friends who had recently lived out one of her wildest fantasies. (She didn't share what it was.) During the acting out part, she was really enjoying it, but afterwards when she had to face the people involved, she found that she couldn't handle it mentally or emotionally. For her, she regretted having lived the fantasy. 

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 6:40:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		All people have some form or another of the thoughts you mention here. I for example fantasize about, and think all types of anal play is hot to see, but I totally hate any anal penetration myself. I have huge fantasies of being gang raped and double penetrated, but again I know if this happened for real it would be tramatic. It's very common to think things are hot as hell, but you'd never want to try them.
I'd also say don't get in such a tizzy about the pain level you play at. Everyone is unique. Some sub's 10's are other sub's 2's, some can take being hung by hooks, but can't take nipple clamps. Pain tolerance levels or lack there of does not affect how good of a submissive you are. Some Dom's like playing with light weights so they don't have to work so hard to get you where you have to go to reach your sub space. I'd say follow the journey that fits you and don't worry how you compare with others. Stay true to your kinks & sensations you do enjoy or want to try for yourself and the Dom you're with what others do really has no bearing on your play. If you want your Dom to test your personal limits and see how far you can go ask him to help you with that. Both of you could have fun pushing the bar higher than it's been before. Just set up a system of safe words like green - go ahead, yellow- back up some, and red- stop now. That will help you with feeling like things won't get out of control.

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 6:49:45 AM   
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Now "Catholic School Girl" is one of my, and I'm sure many others *Big Time* fantasies! There are other sites that I've seen devoted exclusively to it.
There are *so many* scenes that can be played out if you like Role Play!
We could, I'm sure start more than a few threads about it.
I can think of a couple of dozen scenes right off the top of my head right now!
A LOT of potential there!


Exactly!
1.  A Catholic school girl...chained to the wall (to borrow Susan's fantasy)...while the blouse's buttons were "popped" off....hmmmmmmmm, with a sharp knife edge maybe...and then the skirt raised and tucked into it's own waistband while the knife handle went exploring

2.  The Catholic school girl tied to the St. Andrews Cross...how appropriate!  Hot Cross Buns, Hot Cross Buns...


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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 7:06:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Your guys really are truly evil...Keep up the  good work!!


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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 7:14:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		I must admit. My son's name is Wilder. He's 15. So acting out my Wilder fantasies would consist of taking all of his belongings, throwing them out the window and telling him not to even think about coming back till hes maybe 18.

Sometimes my Wilder fantasies consist of choking some sense into his Pea brain. Or sending him to boarding school. 

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RE: Do You Always Want to Act On Your Wilder Fantasies? - 7/27/2006 7:16:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Uhoh sophia....looks like I hit a sore spot. I have  sixteen year old nephew, and I know my sister says he's not always great, either..

Okay - think of Dominant or Master fantasies, then?

- Susan

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