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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/29/2006 7:30:50 PM

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The Declaration of Independence is shorter than that.

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/29/2006 7:51:34 PM

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You sound very well trained.

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/29/2006 8:24:25 PM

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Well, I did ask for opinions, and you have given them to me quite freely. For that I thank each and everyone of you. I need to agree with most of you, That this profile is way too long and boring for most people to read. And yes, Most will not read it, But that is okay....I do not really believe that I shall ever find another slave of my dreams, God in his wisdom took one away from me, There is no other for me out there... I was told by my many friends at the dungeon I go to, not to go online and seek anything, I will be made fun of, ridiculed and laughed at, They told me to stay real time and to help those that need my help there...Of course being what and who I am, I did not listen and sure enough they were right. My rules, That I follow, Are not from any website, Nor from a book, This (my rules) are from my heart and my mind. Now someone could have copied and pasted to a site, Its there for all to see, But it is me, The way I believe...I wrote this for a slave, That I was interested in over 36 years ago...After she died, I kept the letter and the words close to my heart.... So you folks believe in what you will, Means nothing to me....Now about clicking on my pic?? I move? Well, I have dial up and it does not move fast enough for me, So you all enjoy yourself..its cool. I think I have answered everyone sufficently here, As to your posts, About my posts...I will of course be called many names, This I expect, People who fear or hate, those that have closed minds or can not believe, will not, Know matter what is said or done. All I will do is help any that want help, I will share what I have learned in the past 45 years, Of being active in this lifestyle. Again thank you all, God Bless and take care....
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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/29/2006 9:09:11 PM

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Lon, be at peace.

There is no need to justify anything to those who cannot see your soul.

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RE: Ettiquette, knowledge and mentors - 7/29/2006 9:21:40 PM

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Greetings Lon,

First of all, welcome to the forums. Regarding your OP, if those are your rules, then all that needs to happen is to find a submissive who agrees with them. The opinions of others, the ways of others really don't matter in the scheme of things. Only those with whom you share your life really count.

The second post which you shared had a lot of general good advice, but there is something in particular which I would suggest you rethink.

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Never touch another Dominant’s property. This goes for
toys, and individuals, if you are unsure if someone is owned….DON’T
TOUCH.

My opinion is that even if you are 'sure' someone is unowned, it still does not give you the right to touch anyone who has not given their permission for you to do so.

Whether owned or unowned, my person should be considered hands off at all times by everyone unless given leave to go further than conversation, or perhaps a handshake upon an introduction.

Other than that, again, if this is what works for you, then all that's left is to find a partner who fits in with your ideals.

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/29/2006 9:59:27 PM

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i had to try that pic thing. . . . that is too funny! oh, and about the post and profile - way too long!

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RE: Ettiquette, knowledge and mentors - 7/29/2006 10:06:14 PM

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celeste, Of course your right, Thanks for pointing that out to me....

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/29/2006 10:29:06 PM

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It's an awfully big leap to go from agreeing that your profile (and the OP) were to long to really maintain most peoples' interests to the assumption that people are going to start namecalling.

You asked for opinions. You garnered those opinions. Now that you've seen those opinions and they weren't what you were possibly hoping for - you say that the opinions you asked for don't matter to you. While I could be wrong (it's been known to happen from time to time - I am human after all) - it seems contradictory to me. Or if not contradictory, then an attempt at preservation of ego via denial. I bring that up because it's rare that someone will ask for Opinions from others - others known, or (as is the case with a message forum) unknown - if those opinions mattered absolutely nothing to them.

I do agree with Celeste's comment about reconsidering how you state things about those who are unowned or whom you aren't certain whether they're owned or unowned. As someone who has no partner - and doesn't give up my right to determine for myself whether someone is allowed to touch me or not even when I DO have a partner - no one has the right to touch me... or order me around.. or make assumptions about what they are or aren't allowed to do with/to me... or anything else - without my express permission.

Even in a couple who have a set dynamic - where one is "owned" by the other - it's a bad idea to rely strictly on the "owner's" feelings in the matter when considering touching/playing with/ordering/etc any individual. Just because a submissive has agreed to obey her partner doesn't mean she's agreed to obey you - and just because her partner has said "go ahead" doesn't mean SHE is going to agree and say "go ahead." Where there are two people that you're dealing with (a couple) - you need the consent of both partners before presuming anything. When there is one person (a single/unowned) you still need that one person's consent before presuming anything.

< Message edited by hizgeorgiapeach -- 7/29/2006 10:38:23 PM >

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RE: Ettiquette, knowledge and mentors - 7/29/2006 10:33:11 PM

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:)

My pleasure.

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RE: Ettiquette, knowledge and mentors - 7/30/2006 2:23:48 AM

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wow.. that's a long profile.. and do deep and long for this redneck girl to understand at one time..
MY ADD kicked in after the 4 sentance..but.....

Good luck to You

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 2:26:15 AM

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Master Lon,

I want to apologize if I hurt your feelings by what I wrote. I feel terrible if this happened, though I imagine it might have. I was not thinking, and hope you can forgive me. I was out of line.

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 7/30/2006 3:11:41 AM >

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RE: Ettiquette, knowledge and mentors - 7/30/2006 2:36:46 AM

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Curious. . . most of the advise seemed to be just good manners, where was the difference in advise between kink life and vanilla life? What was the point?

Sure. . . we should all learn to get along, speak nicely, treat each other with respect, yada yada. . .

But you have not followed your own advise. You constantly state the theme of not assuming and instead asking, but you have come to the CM boards assuming that none of us have a clue about manners. Is there some reason that you believe that we are all oafs that need this type of instruction? Have you looked around this site, read some of the forum posts and questions?

And thank you for using the terms "real" and "fakes" in a post before you have even made 10 posts, however I do note that you neglected the terms, 'wanna-be' and 'one-true-way'. I think I am going to write a dissertation on this. Seriously though, those terms are hot button terms that will get you roasted on the forums.

I also noticed on your profile that you say that you are seeking submissive women and sub-sub couples, but your one-true-way rules deal with slaves. You may want to make some adjustment to this, as it is inconsistant.

As far as name-calling, ridicule, and being laughed at are concerned, this has yet to happen. Yes, there were comments made about your pictures, however, on the plus side, those comments also served to create a larger pool of individuals that did go and look at your profile.

I suggest that you back away from your approach of 'instruction from on high' and do some additional reading and posting on the forums. Please do answer posters questions and give your thoughts and opinions, but currently you just seem like a pompous ass. (No, I am not sure if you are in fact a pompous ass, you have just came across like one to me, and I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.)

I also suggest that you stop saying things such as you will never find another, as it is extremely unattractive, especially in one who claims to have so much to offer. There are so many people here on CM and out in the world searching, that I am sure that there is a special someone for you.

Please feel free to email me on the other side, as I am always open to meeting and getting to know people.

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 5:47:20 AM

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Susan, You have not hurt me, you made a comment and it is respected by me, I certainly do not agree, but I respect you for it. Always be truthful with your comments and say what is in your heart and mind...Thank you...

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RE: Ettiquette, knowledge and mentors - 7/30/2006 6:06:34 AM

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LaMalinche, Thank you for your response. I see you read only what you wanted and ignored the rest, That is fine. You talk about manners and I do not follow my own advise, This seem funny to me as I place this post here for those that I have seen in this site, That come into the chatrooms and those that have emailed me, Showing a complete lack of manners and etiquette, and You think I am speaking to all?? If the shoe fits......as far as being inconsistant is concerned, Yes, I marked submissive women and sub sub couples, As you are well aware of there is no place to mark for female slaves or slave couples. Again thank you for your comments.....

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 6:15:34 AM

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kisshou, you believe in what you will, Gifts or no Gifts, I shall respect that, As I shall believe in my way, We may not agree, But we can respect others thoughts.....Thank you for your response...
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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 6:20:44 AM

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hizgeorgiapeach, You have read, But, You do not see, Nor understand......Thank you for your response..

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 6:29:25 AM

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deltadawn, If one reads and runs then there is a good reason and I pray they run to someone that will care, love and guide them. But for the one that stays and reads, If nothing else out of curiosity...They may learn something, and I may have found a slave indeed, I like it when one that starts something and does not give up, It shows one being persistant. This is a very good quality and virtue to have.. Thank you for your response...
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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 9:01:08 AM

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I will say this much and I hope people will read this.. This Dominant/Man took the time out to place this article here for all to try to understand,I appreciate this time from Him and you A/all to read this but take into consideration what it all means ,To simplify it all He wants all to know He has rules and ways of Old school ways most here will never understand or know about. I know them in so many ways..I am a slave and many here dont even know what being a slave means or worse how to live as one..Many try by what they understand or read on this internet,but as for myself I was raised as a True slave and yes they had white slavery back in 50's ...MasterLon wanted people to try to understand His ways He knows and hopes perhaps one day some of Y/you will pass on this way He professes...I have been online for 9 years ,helping others to stay safe in this way of life,but some did not listen and chose to get hurt,raped,or even hospitalized. This way of life is not a Game it is a Life a way to live as W/we all chose it . Some like to use it for a dating service and some are just kids playing with their computers to get attention.. Let me ask this when was last time a Dom here or anywhere online took all that much time to try to explain the Real ways?? Im not busting chops Im just sick of people hurting others because of lack of knowing,reading,or asking questions. This Lifestyle is REAL dont mistake it for a dating service or playtoy.. smiles thank you and keep up the great work Master Lon.. hugs serenity

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 9:13:36 AM

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Your profile is great, MasterLon. There's just not enough grace or formal protocol left in today's 'in your face' kind of online BDSM.

Keep right on posting. The younger crowd might learn a thing or two from those of us who were trained and indoctrinated with Old School protocols.

By way of contrast, here's a humorously brief profile belonging to a personal friend of Mine (best man at My first wedding, if you can believe that!) who has been active in the lifestyle for as many moons as I have:

http://www.collarme.com/bdsm/v/1010/default.htm

It is the abbreviated antithesis to your eloquent profile, due to his complete frustration with the same issues at hand, but it is nonetheless effective!

All the best,

TexasMaam

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RE: some of the rules I follow - 7/30/2006 11:56:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilserenity

I will say this much and I hope people will read this.. This Dominant/Man took the time out to place this article here for all to try to understand,I appreciate this time from Him and you A/all to read this but take into consideration what it all means ,To simplify it all He wants all to know He has rules and ways of Old school ways most here will never understand or know about. I know them in so many ways..I am a slave and many here dont even know what being a slave means or worse how to live as one..Many try by what they understand or read on this internet,but as for myself I was raised as a True slave and yes they had white slavery back in 50's ...MasterLon wanted people to try to understand His ways He knows and hopes perhaps one day some of Y/you will pass on this way He professes...I have been online for 9 years ,helping others to stay safe in this way of life,but some did not listen and chose to get hurt,raped,or even hospitalized. This way of life is not a Game it is a Life a way to live as W/we all chose it . Some like to use it for a dating service and some are just kids playing with their computers to get attention.. Let me ask this when was last time a Dom here or anywhere online took all that much time to try to explain the Real ways?? Im not busting chops Im just sick of people hurting others because of lack of knowing,reading,or asking questions. This Lifestyle is REAL dont mistake it for a dating service or playtoy.. smiles thank you and keep up the great work Master Lon.. hugs serenity

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