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Locking up a cunt - 8/11/2006 11:08:18 PM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		Another thread about rampant pussy power got me thinking of fun past experiences. The enjoyment I got from having a blow job from a woman who hadn't come in weeks.

Who's cunt had been locked behind a tamper proof steel grille. Perfectly able to be washed and cleaned with the shower and a towel pat...........but no sneaky little fingers in those folds..because I had custom made the appliance to prevent that.

The desperate, mounting  need to please, her drives being used against her. Anything to be let out of that belt. Could you deal with being used this way?
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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/11/2006 11:12:07 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Yes.  I pretty much deal with however he uses me.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/11/2006 11:24:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't be happy.  If I don't masturbate regularly, my sleep patterns, dream patterns and other emotional edges get sharpened, I lack focus.  If the dom is willing to help train me through that and compensate for the lack of focus and happiness- then that's fine.

For me it would be like telling me not to read books or newspapers anymore.  What's the point?  My sex is a deep intrinsic part of myself and it is where my energy springs from of myself.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/11/2006 11:43:28 PM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		The point is to redirect the energy.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/11/2006 11:46:44 PM   
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Master enjoys pleasuring me, and watching me pleasure myself. I have no restrictions on how often I cum - in fact I can even go into the bedroom alone if I feel the need.

During my vanilla marriage I might as well have been locked up, because I switched off sexually and emotionally due to emotional abuse. I could go for weeks without even wanting to orgasm at all......something I now realise to be a symptom of depression.

Now that I'm with Master everything has switched back on, and there's no way He would want to restrict me from pleasure. He does use orgasm denial, but only during a scene, and I'm always allowed to cum at the end of it. His philosophy is a happy sub will want to please Him more

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 12:03:37 AM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		I like watching a woman learn to sublimate the tension, and still serve well. And some bright soul will probably venture along and say I am also denying myself. But there is still a mouth and hands to be used for my pleasure.

And the fact that a traditional source of female power is so well controlled, just lights me up with all sorts of warm and fuzzy happy feelings.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 2:28:28 AM   
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The point is to redirect the energy.

You redirect the river, not the source.

Sex (and by sex I mean all sexual energy) is like my wellspring.  The energy FROM the sex is what gets directed.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 2:31:51 AM   
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I like watching a woman learn to sublimate the tension, and still serve well. And some bright soul will probably venture along and say I am also denying myself. But there is still a mouth and hands to be used for my pleasure.

And the fact that a traditional source of female power is so well controlled, just lights me up with all sorts of warm and fuzzy happy feelings.

But that sounds like you're making the classic dom mistake of equating denial/no with control.

Saying YES can be just as much in control and authority.  Encouraging a woman to explore her sexuality and exploit her sexual energy can be just as intensly controlling and being in authority as taking it away. 

I understand the meaning in fasting, I understand its process, its possibilities and motivations.  But there are many paths one can take on this road.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 2:31:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		technically, albatross, nothing has a source, as there's no obvious prime mover. so your river/source example is inadequate. you can redirect the energy from the sex, or the sex itself, or the mind that generates the sex, or whatever. everything's river.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 2:36:15 AM   
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technically, albatross, nothing has a source, as there's no obvious prime mover. so your river/source example is inadequate. you can redirect the energy from the sex, or the sex itself, or the mind that generates the sex, or whatever. everything's river.

Then let's say I'm like a "sex battery"  The energy exists within the battery, but will only work properly in the right position, right polarities and only with certain stimulus.

For me, sex is how you get the juice going.  Sexual energy simply is part of everything I am and everything I do.  Take that away, and you deny me some of who I am.

You don't have to agree with any of my analogies or figures of speech, but I know who I am and how I work best- denying myself of sexual energy would be like denying a sunflower the sun.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 2:47:05 AM   
zenofeller


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Status: offline 		now, bear in mind i have absolutely no intention to be telling you what to do. this discussion is not personal, but abstract.

there's alot the sunflower can find out in the dark. true, it won't produce much seed. so this wouldn't be a great thing to do for a farmed sunflower, one which is judged by it's seed production. that sunflower needs batteries.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 5:22:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suspect that method would backfire if used on me.  First off, I don't masturbate often anyway.  Secondly, if there's no sexual/sensual stimulation to get me going, I pretty much shut off sexually.  There's no tension there, I simply go non-sexual for the most part.  Of course, the opposite is also true... a lot of teasing drives me nuts and I get pretty wild.
 
This is probably one of the reasons I didn't have TOO much trouble waiting until I was 24 and married before having sex.
 
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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 5:55:58 AM   
catize


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Could you deal with being used this way? 


I don't know because it has never happened to me, but I do find the idea intriguing! 
I am not allowed to cum without Master's permission.  We don't live together, and so I find the trust he places in my obedience to be the 'device' that keeps me chaste.  And yes, sometimes it has been weeks at a time, due to our schedules, etc.  The NEED arises but sometimes it is too late at night to call him, or his line is busy and I can't reach him, so I am left frustrated.  I love the frustration, I love knowing that he has that control; the paradox being that I become even more aroused.  There have been times I slept with the vibrator under my pillow, and take comfort in my ability to obey his command. 
<laughs>  Damn, I think I'm going to have to call him this afternoon, it is quite an experience begging over the phone........

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 6:16:55 AM   
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Could you deal with being used this way?


Remember that thread on Dealbreakers? Didn't think of it prior, but yeah - this is something that would classify as a very definate deal breaker for me.  I'd dump him (on his head) for attempting such prior to a commited relationship - and I'd kick him to the curb for attempting it During a commited relationship.
 
I don't get into sexual relationships with the idea that I'm going to be specifically and intentionally denied sexual satisfaction.  If I wanted to put up with a lack of such, I would become a Nun.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 6:35:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		I imagine your slave would be the talk of the locker room at her gym.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 6:43:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Normally I would not even think about it but I do know one young lady that would benefit a great deal from such.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 6:50:46 AM   
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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 6:56:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		The less sex I get the less I need or want, so it wouldn't work for me. I'd end up giving up and just learning to live without it.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 7:37:33 AM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		It's also a good way to weed out sex addicts.

I like things in perspective and moderation, it's not as if I use denial all of the time. And I think it helps a woman to not take things for granted-such as her cunt having any real power over my decisions. And when I bring things like this up-it does filter out the sorts who use that sort of thing VERY quickly, and allows me to move onto someone who may be a better fit.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/12/2006 7:40:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		My outer labia were pierced for my owner a few years ago and so sometimes he locks me shut but generally not for more than a day.  He's not really so much into orgasm control, the locking my rings shut is more about exertion of control.. but either way its really nice, especially if he does it on a day that I have a lot of meetings.

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