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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 2:52:40 PM

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After three days a woman can turn off the need and desire for sex not making her attentive at all but the opposit, often it physically depressed and irritable....how ever with a man it invigorates him and makes him hyper attentive.

But it was discovered that men too become depressed after about 30 days of sex denial as a genral rule.

Where were these researchers hiding during my marriage? Because they were obviously watching me!

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 3:40:27 PM

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I have absolutely no sex drive so not having sex would be fine with me. infact I choose not to have sex all the time on my own and by choice.

It kind of defeats the purpose to lock her pusy away so she can't touch it if she has no interest in touching with or with out locks

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 4:47:44 PM

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The labia rings are a nice idea and a small lock but with the security at places today a lock is going to set off a metal detector very likely if not just the rings themselves. If you are wanting to secure the lips and cunt then try this remove the rings if you can get some 85 trimmer line and cut to length of about a inch. Incert and make a circle and then heat a knife blade and melt the ends and then fuse together. Or use 90 pound fish line or smaller and lace the lips as in a shoe lacing and then melt the end and fuse them. She can not get out of them with out cutting them loose and would be hard to replace the exact way you had them. Is just a thought I have used it in the past and works great. Will also work for nipple rings if traveling and going thru airport security and will keep the holes open. Also will hold anything in place inside as well. Hope it may be of soom help

Its not an idea, its something we actually do (and have done for the past few years). My rings never set off metal detectors (not even at state buildings), nor have the locks. If we know that we'll be going somewhere that has a metal detector (like flying) then likely he won't lock me. But the rings itself haven't gone off in metal detectors.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 5:50:35 PM

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LuckyAlbatross:
"And I certainly didn't feel like I was using my pussy power to control him."

I totally agree. It is laughable. I do NOT EVER feel my female reproductive organs have specialized, magical powers to be feared and controlled.
Like "The Plague"? Witch hunt... cunt

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Ohhh De Debbils work! Lord have mercy!
Feel the "pussy power - might is right, sisters" March on!
(Waving the Kotex in pride)

No thanks.

PS Talk about pussy whipped! That iron belt knock ya cold out! Boing! Ow.... OP's head!

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 7:44:54 PM

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It's interesting to see how feared this is.

The pussy seems to have the most power over the owners of it.

And they have the nerve to talk of how men are controlled by thier genitals............If you really want to reduce to the pure service level, turn off that sex drive.

And see what is left.

Have any of you considered a relationship in D/s that was NOT driven by hormones?

The spiritually driven are extremely rare, those who can pass through without the depression.

My seeming cruelty and madness DOES have a method to it. This is the point. Hormones and the new relationship energy are transitory. They fade in and out inconsistently. What I want to see is the stable part of the core that is less affected by the body. So how do we do that?

By controlling the body, and seeing what happens. When it's not all about sex-you can do this.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 8:08:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

It's interesting to see how feared this is.

The pussy seems to have the most power over the owners of it.

Yes, the pussy has power. But what has more power is the man or woman who knows how to awaken the power of the pussy. To make it hot and greedy and ready and throbbing. To make the woman crazed with desire and passion, ready to do anything to have the need of her pussy sated. That person has the power, NOT the pussy. If you STOP awakening the pussy and instead put it in a cage and ignore it you lose a source of power.

Go ahead and do what flips your switch, but just don't expect your sub to get anything out of it other than knowing she pleased you.

Isn't that enough?

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 8:57:36 PM

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You are obviously not a monastic sort. Fair enough.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 9:29:50 PM

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i love this whole idea...i have often said that i don't want to be just a bedroom slave, that i wish to serve in other ways, that i enjoy the control that Master has over me...for now, He tells me when i can & when i cannot cum...W/we don't get to be together very often, but when W/we are together, He stimulates me & i beg for permission to cum...sometimes He gives it, other times, i must wait til He's ready for me to cum...i find the idea of a locking device intriguing & would love to try something of that nature...unlike many of the other women on this thread, i cum very easily & don't shut down if i'm told i can't reach orgasm...it simply builds...because i cum so easily, being told when i can & when i can't is delicious.....

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/14/2006 9:36:03 PM

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i love this whole idea...i have often said that i don't want to be just a bedroom slave, that i wish to serve in other ways, that i enjoy the control that Master has over me...for now, He tells me when i can & when i cannot cum...W/we don't get to be together very often, but when W/we are together, He stimulates me & i beg for permission to cum...sometimes He gives it, other times, i must wait til He's ready for me to cum...i find the idea of a locking device intriguing & would love to try something of that nature...unlike many of the other women on this thread, i cum very easily & don't shut down if i'm told i can't reach orgasm...it simply builds...because i cum so easily, being told when i can & when i can't is delicious.....

Yes, it can also be used for amplification. Is it not intriguing that so many equate evil to this immediately, and think this means long term?

I feel that this speaks more to a sense of unbridled hedonism that misunderstnds the nuances of control.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/15/2006 5:42:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

You are obviously not a monastic sort. Fair enough.

No, 20 years was enough of that.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/15/2006 6:34:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: Homestead
It's interesting to see how feared this is.

I haven't perceived any fear.

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Have any of you considered a relationship in D/s that was NOT driven by hormones?

My first 5 years in the scene, my relationships were pretty much completely lacking in sex and sexual interactions. In fact NONE of my owners ever engaged in any regular form of sexual activity with me and the only reason I had so much sex when I was owned previously was because the owner liked controlling my sex by pushing me out to others and encouraging me to embrace my sexuality.

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The spiritually driven are extremely rare, those who can pass through without the depression.

You don't seem to understand how intrinsically my spirituality is connected to my sexuality. One cannot be both? You seem to be going on that same line that somehow sex = banal, crude physical while spirit = lofty, sweet, clean and above the physical

It's a very common construct, but one I reject. I am often at my most spiritual when I am a whore.

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My seeming cruelty and madness DOES have a method to it. This is the point. Hormones and the new relationship energy are transitory. They fade in and out inconsistently. What I want to see is the stable part of the core that is less affected by the body. So how do we do that?

By controlling the body, and seeing what happens. When it's not all about sex-you can do this.

That's one method. Having lots of sex doesn't mean it's all about the sex. Perhaps YOU can't see through the hormones, or other people can't see past them, and thus need to have it completely eliminated- but that doesn't mean it's the necesary path for everyone.

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RE: Locking up a cunt - 8/15/2006 7:02:56 AM

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It's interesting to see how feared this is.

The pussy seems to have the most power over the owners of it.

Much like LA, I don't see where your perception of fear enters here.
To me, the issue is giving that control to my dominant. Before he took that control, I never once ran amok in the streets fucking every hard protruding object in my path.

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If you really want to reduce to the pure service level, turn off that sex drive.

<laughing> Uh, I don't think it would go over well with my dominant if in the middle of play that included sex, I'd stop him to say, "Let's make this TRUE PURE D/s, I'll go wash those dishes now."

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Have any of you considered a relationship in D/s that was NOT driven by hormones?

I've done both, but most of my experience has been that both he and I have hormonal drives and he gets to say if we use that or not.

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The spiritually driven are extremely rare, those who can pass through without the depression.

This Madonna/whore complex has muddied the intent of your original OP.

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My seeming cruelty and madness DOES have a method to it. This is the point. Hormones and the new relationship energy are transitory. They fade in and out inconsistently. What I want to see is the stable part of the core that is less affected by the body. So how do we do that?

This is not news, it happens in all relationships. We do it by committment to the relationship, acceptance of the fact that it is about the all of life, not just the fun and games.

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