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Slipstreme -> RE: Ideal fantasy top? Ideal fantasy bottom? (8/20/2006 6:09:27 PM)
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Yay more drama on the Collarchat board! :P
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What I mean by that is someone who gets pleasure from
inflicting sexual pain for their own pleasure
Au contraire. I for one, if given the chance, would enjoy thoroughly torturing a hapless victim in any way I so pleased. For one, slowly ripping their flesh apart, perhaps forcing them to deal with certain practices that, although artistic and ritualistic in nature, they avoid doing because they can't stand the thought of having their flesh turned human canvas. Perhaps turning them into a scientific experiment (a little acids and bases anyone?) Irregardless of whether it is sexual or not. Or in another circumstance, eventually lead said victim to believe that their death is inevitable and that there is no escape, to watch them fall apart at the seams, even if I planned on releaseing them physically unharmed. This sadomaso enjoys pain, all pain. Will I ever do it? Of course not. It's illegal.
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(No insult meant to the furries)
None taken. Although we like our sharp teeth and fangs, makes things all the more interesting. :P
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A "real pain slut" may have a night where the pain isn't pleasurable at all, or they just cannot take much. That is why warmup is essential before someone unknown to you starts wailing on you. And even if it is a regular partner
I'm rather strange in that I usually take well to little or no warmup, or a random style. Or at least, a harder warmup than many find comfortable. However, in my case, catch me doing art or school work, and beating me will only get the cold shoulder, and an icy no nonsense stare, a threat, and maybe retaliation.
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Slipstreme agrees with me on this, and I
am sure there are others. It is often used as a "catch-all" term.
I agree that it is often used that way, but I do not like it being used that way, because in my case, it infers that I am also in some way submissive, which I am not.
Expectations of service will only cause trouble between me and the Top/Doms I bottom to. I get defensive and shy away, if not outright complain when there is any attempt to control me. The scene stops there. I have come against two Doms, one who was able to get me over a bit of humilation (something I have been against because of school days, and I know he is trying to help me get over that past), and another, who's attempt was blocked the momment he tried to assert authority. I know this also has to do with my own insecurities because I do often feel that others expect me to be submissive when all Im interested in is the pain so I often feel I need to reiterate that I am a Dom, not a sub.
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By the way, I'm not a Top, a Domme or a Sadist, but you seem to bring all of that out in me. I'm thinking it wouldn't be too hard to find someone who would want to inflict some pain on you....
I'll do it! Hehehehehe.... Granted, I would do it regardless. Inflicting pain is fun, especially if they have their own toys, cause then I don't have to worry about getting their blood on mine (some of mine are only shared between me and my slave z, because said toys have drawn my blood).
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I believe she agreed that it is used as such, but I did not take it that she agreed it was correct to do so.
Thank you catize. I don't like its general use one bit, but for different reasons posted above.
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