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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 10:35:20 AM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		I just figured out what I would NOT like. I would NOT like to witness this when this happens to 1969slave,

"my face is slapped in public as a humiliation. be it at the food court of a mall or a restaurant. its not done cause i said something wrong it just makes me feel like i want hide.   m"

You know, its one thing when everybody's talking about what they like in Private. Its another to force your particular good time upon people who have no idea that this is consensual. I must say Ive plenty on my plate in my personal life and I don't need someone to come along and upset me for no reason.

YES. I would be very upset to be witness to this. To the point where I might race in and put my hands on people to stop what I would see as abuse. Seriously. You need to realize you're not alone in this world. Keep this behavior to yourself thank you very much. Geeez.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 11:34:12 AM   
Aileen1968


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All of these old threads being revived.
I love face slapping. I get slapped when he walks in the door. I get slapped when he leaves.
I get slapped when I'm bound. I get slapped whenever he feels like it. It always turns me on. Even when it makes the world go a little fuzzy.
I've had ringing ears, I've seen stars and I've been a bit dazed at times. I know exactly the risk I take and I know that if I asked for it to stop because of that risk then he would.
I don't see myself doing that at the moment. No clue about the future.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 12:00:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sophia37

I just figured out what I would NOT like. I would NOT like to witness this when this happens to 1969slave,

"my face is slapped in public as a humiliation. be it at the food court of a mall or a restaurant. its not done cause i said something wrong it just makes me feel like i want hide.   m"

You know, its one thing when everybody's talking about what they like in Private. Its another to force your particular good time upon people who have no idea that this is consensual. I must say Ive plenty on my plate in my personal life and I don't need someone to come along and upset me for no reason.

YES. I would be very upset to be witness to this. To the point where I might race in and put my hands on people to stop what I would see as abuse. Seriously. You need to realize you're not alone in this world. Keep this behavior to yourself thank you very much. Geeez.

this bears repeating.


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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 12:48:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love having my face slapped.  I used to get it randomly all the time when we were together and it kept me basking in subspace whether we were "in scene" or just hanging out.  It makes me feel very submissive and tingly.  Once, it even made me orgasm.  Now that we have wee ones about, slapping happens less frequently, but is wonderful when it does.  When we were still getting used to the oh we are parents now deal He once slapped me in view of his daughter She was probably 10 months or less.  I looked over and laughed and then she laughed.  Ooops!  We have been very careful since then, as we don't want the wee ones getting the idea that they should hit!  Now I only get slapped actually in scene, when only adults are present or after the munchkins are in bed!

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 3:07:28 PM   
Acer49


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I've seen this on many profiles in here.
I've never done it before and if a submissive wanted me to do it we'd have to sit down and talk about it.
For those of you who like having your face slapped how hard do you like it slapped?
Do you like to be "surprised" by it or "plan" for it?
How does it make you feel?
For how long do you like to have your face slapped, an hour, a few minutes?


I have been asked a few times to do it, it is just not comfortable I am with

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 3:10:50 PM   
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I have been asked a few times to do it, it is just not comfortable I am with

Yoda?


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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 3:27:23 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

I have been asked a few times to do it, it is just not comfortable I am with

Yoda?



Funny that was.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 3:52:59 PM   
Icarys


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Funny that was.

Thought so you did? Glad I am.


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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 8:18:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Getting slapped across the face used to be a hard limit for me. Then I met and played with a fellow who worked hard to bring me around to it. He never did it without a signal, it started out lightly, just a tap. Then progressed to hard enough to make my cheek flush. When he would do it he'd either whisper "close your eyes" or lightly brush his fingertips over my eyelids. It never failed to make me catch my breath, to speed up my heart and to get me excited.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/3/2009 8:39:24 PM   
mentalpatient


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Status: offline 		I prefer to know when slapping is coming and only want a female to slap me but a male is welcome to be behind me holding me in place or just to show force and let me know that if I resist or try and leave, he will keep me there....I wear glasses to I have to remove my glasses and like to be slapped on Fridays so by Monday when I go to work, my face is hopefully back to normal....actually the slap does not have to be hard to be erotic and forehand or back hand is good....I had a past g/f that used to slap me as a roleplay and to get her to stop she drove me to an ATM and made me get money for her and would have me in passenger seat and slap me some more in parking lot and sometimes make be get in back seat on the way and keep down in back seat with my face in the middle area where the console was and slap me on the way and threaten me with various actions, one being driving me to an emergency room and telling them that I was having nervous breakdown and to keep me for observation as she knew that just being near doctors makes me have anxiety attacks so she could have pulled that off.....watch movie hush hush sweet charolotte if you want to see great slapping scene involving a young female cousing slapping her elderly female cousin and the plot was to drive the old lady insane to commit her...excellent movie that I saw when I was about 8yrs old and it was one of the beginning influences that got me into abuse....

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/5/2009 7:03:04 AM   
eroticinnocence


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Status: offline 		Personally, I like it to be a surprise. I put that control in my Dom's hands. If he feels I deserve it or even if he just wants to hear the crack of his hand when it contacts my skin, it still pleases me. He can slap me as hard or as soft as he wants. Being a sub, i take whatever comes my way because i respect my Dom.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/5/2009 7:58:55 PM   
jackod


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RE: Face Slapping. - 11/7/2009 1:34:26 AM   
choccywoc


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Status: offline 		A mistress i see quite often, likes to give me the occaisional slap, not the best side of our relationship
yet i'm quite happy to tolerate such things, if it makes her happy.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 4:19:02 PM   
FetishHound


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Status: offline 		I love having a pretty lady slap my face.I love spanking a lady but I have never slapped one before.This is something I'd have to work on to be able to do.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 4:30:16 PM   
Hierodule


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Status: offline 		I get slapped regularly. He keeps my head  still by grabbing a handful of hair right at the nape of my neck. This keeps me from moving when I flinch  and prevents whip-lash.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 4:54:20 PM   
MistressAutumnLA


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Status: offline 		Funny, I was just finishing my personal blog when this thread popped up.  First, I'll share from my blog & then I'll go further into it.  Names & some spiritual rants have been removed.

"The beast has stopped the dance.  Heart beats loudly in the prey.  The music is over.  Silence is powerful.  The prey breaths a sigh of releif, it is still alive somehow.  With the might of Samson pulling the columns down, I find the stremgth to let my voice squeek in humble inquiry "Did you like the music?"  In a moment feet melt away into inches and his eyes, directly in front of me. I want I want I want I want.  I want him to hit me so hard that my face is bloody and broken.  I remember that was a limit...really, when meeting new sadists and going over what they were allowed to do, I never wanted my face harmed and a slap that wouldn't leave bruising or cause too much pain was my limit.  I can't explain why the thought of him hurting me so rudely in such a completely disrespectful manner doesn't just turn me on but makes me want to do anything to reach that nirvana with him.  I searched his eyes.  I opened myself completely to his energy.  Fucking witch!  Consealing his intentions.  I don't know if he is going to do it this time or just be a fucking tease building my want for him to where...I am helpless.

I die.  It comes.  The beast in force backhands me.  I hear my jaw make the most painful of creaks and crunches.  I don't stop to think about the pain.  I don't dare let this moment slip away.  I have to look up...daringly, bold though most certainly not above, I look up into his beautiful blue eyes and smile the most radiant of cheshire cat grins.  I need him to know...it was ok.  It's Alright Sir.  You will never frighten me off.  I know the power, and I submit my stregth and endurance completely to it, to you, for this, for these stolen moments in this lifetime where you are my god and I worship you.

Again.  Death, pain...its too much...beg for it to stop, no I won't I'll hold my tongue I WANT.  One more full backhand to my jaw and I will break.  I am trembling.  I am Beaming.  With extacy I look into His eyes.  His power over me is complete.  My hand is exploring my wounds.  He strikes again.  My wrist takes the majority of his force.  Pain shoots through my arm and the tip of my chin.  I know if my hand wasn't there, I would have acheived my fantasy in totality.  He held me close, tight.  I am swooning.  Dancing lightly on the threads of conciousness, I know I would have been knocked out if I would have been a good girl and not had my hand up and although I had received a busted lip twice over from the previous two blows to the other side, this one would have been a doozie.

Am I in heaven...the temperal bliss we find when our souls merge in the well before returning to learn, and experience again?  Where knowledge and experiences are shared and understood.  We aren't one with the universe...we are the universe.  Our souls are the sun and the elements that come together to spark life, male and female, intertwinded, the energies blissful and agonizing.  So much pain and suffering and death must always be the balance for life and beauty and peace and joy and birth.  *sigh* Yes, my love.  I am ok.  Thank you.  Oh thank you.  You've given me everything I could ever want.  The bliss of life eternal is that you appreciate the moments for the eternity that they are.  Tales of might and victory passed down through the lives that are lived to gleem the wonder therein.  I am god and the goddess, they are within my flesh and a part of my spirit divine.

Mmmmm...back into this physical reality completely.  No more ebbs of energy illuminating from Him.  Blobs of light and spirits have faded and my eyes see clearly the tangible world before me."

My lover and I have been building up the intensity of our facial brutality play.  It in its own right is becoming its own passion by pushing the limits.

However, the feeling of being slapped, brings you back to the innocence of childhood and the shock of being hurt by the ones that love you.  Most of us, even if it was once or twice, receive a slap first from one of our parents.  I was 15, my cousin had just gotten pregnant.  I asked why she was going to marry the dad since he would have to move in with her parents.  Couldn't they just sleep together and let her live with her parents?  I was knocked out of the dinning room chair I was sitting in as my father thought that sinful idea meritted his rare use of physical punishment.

It is powerful to resurface moments of emotion like that and it endears you to the one giving you the pain/pleasure.  As I most certainly was given permission to orgasm completely & fully for as long as I could as I laid in bliss in his arms.

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 7:29:15 PM   
CaringandReal


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Status: offline 		Huzzah! The face-slapping thread is back. I love this activity. :)

Splendid post, MistressAutumnLA. A plesaure to read...it might even inspire me to write something of my own on this subject soon. But not tonight... I'm recovering from relief-braindeath. ;)

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 7:40:20 PM   
QuirkyAnne


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Status: offline 		My ex did it lightly a couple of times and it triggered a chain reaction in emotions starting with surprise, then anger, and then intensely increased arousal.  I would definitely be willing to do it again once I trusted a person enough.

Anne

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 7:53:30 PM   
Elizabeth666


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Status: offline 		Sir slapped my face for the first time during play a couple of weeks ago. I had mentioned it in passing and we gave it a try. He did it whne i was giving Him head, if i started to choke and pull away, He would slap me. It wasn't hard enough to jerk my head around or leave a mark, but hard enough lol

Would i try it again? I don't know lol

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RE: Face Slapping. - 12/6/2009 7:55:45 PM   
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I love it when he yanks my hair out of nowhere, says nothing, stares at me, and gives me a solid hard slap. So frigging hot. Usually followed by a deep wet kiss. Yum.

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