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On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:00:31 PM   
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Edited by me to restate the question: 

What precautions are taken in this high risk behavior to protect a female partner?  

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:22:02 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:24:22 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:28:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		U DO'NT KONW THAT SEX WITHOUT A CODNOM IS HIGH RISK?  U NEED TO GET URSELF EDUCATED U CAN GET LIKE AIDES AND DIAHHREA AND STUFF.

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:33:30 PM   
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U DO'NT KONW THAT SEX WITHOUT A CODNOM IS HIGH RISK?  U NEED TO GET URSELF EDUCATED U CAN GET LIKE AIDES AND DIAHHREA AND STUFF.


In the BDSM world there are many high risk behaviours,  I am not sure which one the op is asking about.  BTW how exactly do you get diarrhea from sex without a condom?  LOL

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:37:28 PM   
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which high risk behaviour?

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The initial male to male contact back to the female.  My bother (gay) would "service" heterosexual married men.  I never asked what precautions they took so that the women would be safe in the long run.  I'm not judging.. just asking.

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:41:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

U DO'NT KONW THAT SEX WITHOUT A CODNOM IS HIGH RISK?  U NEED TO GET URSELF EDUCATED U CAN GET LIKE AIDES AND DIAHHREA AND STUFF.


In the BDSM world there are many high risk behaviours,  I am not sure which one the op is asking about.  BTW how exactly do you get diarrhea from sex without a condom?  LOL

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 6:43:46 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:21:34 PM   
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In answer to the OP, I would imagine that in the "safe" sex era, condoms were used. Were I in that situation, they certainly would be. However I personally don't engage in sexual conduct without a barrier method, unless it is a long term, monogamous relationship, and then only after we've both passed STD tests.

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:22:39 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:23:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong


Edited by me to restate the question: 

What precautions are taken in this high risk behavior to protect a female partner?  


um what high risk behavior... Walking across the street?

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:37:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sapphirepleasure

Maybe she's asking for a definition of DL or "down low".  You wanna give it, LotusSong?


Yes I did not know DL was a term used for a high risk behaviour.  I only know it as slang used by todays youth......(omg that sounded like something my Grandmother would have said).

I would love to hear what the definition of DL is

Thanks sapphire

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:38:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sapphirepleasure

Maybe she's asking for a definition of DL or "down low".  You wanna give it, LotusSong?


Wikipedia it... however they limit it to one profile group and I know it goes across all of them.  I just wonder if the participants consider that there is an unknowing female in the mix and what precautions do they take to protect her interests? Do the participants even care?  My brother enjoyed "taking" a  married heterosexual on occasion (LOTS of occasions to hear him tell it) That's my question..   Why not identify as bi-sexual instead?

<<um what high risk behavior... Walking across the street?
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:39:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

TRY IT LONG ENUFF AND UL'L FIND OUT!

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

U DO'NT KONW THAT SEX WITHOUT A CODNOM IS HIGH RISK?  U NEED TO GET URSELF EDUCATED U CAN GET LIKE AIDES AND DIAHHREA AND STUFF.


In the BDSM world there are many high risk behaviours,  I am not sure which one the op is asking about.  BTW how exactly do you get diarrhea from sex without a condom?  LOL

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Yanno lrod I am a RN have been one for many years,  I am an educated female who practises sex without condoms  Yet funnily enough I have never had diarrhea.

If you might in your infinite wisdom please to enlighten me on the pathology of unprotected sex and diarrhea.

Thank you in advance

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:41:36 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:44:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

U DO'NT KONW THAT SEX WITHOUT A CODNOM IS HIGH RISK?  U NEED TO GET URSELF EDUCATED U CAN GET LIKE AIDES AND DIAHHREA AND STUFF.

quote:


In the BDSM world there are many high risk behaviours,  I am not sure which one the op is asking about.  BTW how exactly do you get diarrhea from sex without a condom?  LOL

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Yanno lrod I am a RN have been one for many years,  I am an educated female who practises sex without condoms  Yet funnily enough I have never had diarrhea.

If you might in your infinite wisdom please to enlighten me on the pathology of unprotected sex and diarrhea.

Thank you in advance

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He might have meant UTI..... not diarrhea.  Just guessing.

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:49:29 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:49:55 PM   
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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 7:57:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

TRY IT LONG ENUFF AND UL'L FIND OUT!

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER

U DO'NT KONW THAT SEX WITHOUT A CODNOM IS HIGH RISK?  U NEED TO GET URSELF EDUCATED U CAN GET LIKE AIDES AND DIAHHREA AND STUFF.


In the BDSM world there are many high risk behaviours,  I am not sure which one the op is asking about.  BTW how exactly do you get diarrhea from sex without a condom?  LOL

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ROFL...dying here...LOL  Thanks for the well needed laugh! 

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RE: On the DL - 9/9/2006 8:07:05 PM   
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I wish I could believe that those "straight" guys who are having sex with other men were taking proper precautions to protect themselves and their unwitting female partners, but I think it's unlikely. Because if they start taking precautions, that means that they have to admit that they are actually planning on and intending to do these things with men. And if they do that, they may just have to face the fact that they are not straight, but bi. And they can't face that reality.

It makes me sad, when it doesn't make me angry on behalf of the women who are being exposed to risks they know nothing about. it's also why I believe everyone should engage in safe sex with everyone - even their own long-term partner - unless they have such an open relationship that they know their partner shares everything because there is no reason to hide it.

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