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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/13/2006 7:42:50 AM

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At some point, however, you are indeed correct - it's time to converse on the phone or there is simply not enough trust to continue. My Master gave me his number in a week. I called him and did not block my ID. Thank God we are both still alive! :)

Just wait until he brings out the fava beans and a nice chianti.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/13/2006 8:07:45 AM

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At some point, however, you are indeed correct - it's time to converse on the phone or there is simply not enough trust to continue. My Master gave me his number in a week. I called him and did not block my ID. Thank God we are both still alive! :)

Just wait until he brings out the fava beans and a nice chianti.

Or on the beach the suntan lotion smells suspiciously like soy sauce...

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/13/2006 9:01:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

At some point, however, you are indeed correct - it's time to converse on the phone or there is simply not enough trust to continue. My Master gave me his number in a week. I called him and did not block my ID. Thank God we are both still alive! :)

Just wait until he brings out the fava beans and a nice chianti.

Or on the beach the suntan lotion smells suspiciously like soy sauce...

LOL Cute, you two, cute.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/13/2006 11:18:11 AM

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as big of a guy as I am I do not give out my home phone number to just anyone . I got a cell phone to hear my voice first . and I neverrecommend any young lady give out theres either .. if it prgresses to a meet I will give you my phone number and my full name and address . but trust and time have been built up by then .... and safe calls are always made .. minimum of 3 ... one when you get to our meet .. at least oneduring the meet . and one when you have safely arrived at home ..... but thats just how I work things

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/13/2006 6:30:23 PM

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I refuse to let anyone make me feel threatened or feel I need to fear them. I will not let the losers of the world make me hide.

I give out business cards all the time at gun shows with my numbers on them. I see no difference in giving out my number to anyone that would like to talk to me.

But then I have always been rather adventurous and kind of a risk taker.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/13/2006 7:47:23 PM

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i agree with you juliaoceania. If someone wants to meet me, they better be prepared to give up some personal info. my personal safety comes first if the other person has a problem with that, then we are not going to get along in any event.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/14/2006 12:37:19 PM

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If your desperate to talk I suggest getting a second line on your mobile. Don't register it to your name that way your not exposing your self to the loonies on the net. A second pay as you go sim costs about a tenner

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/14/2006 2:34:06 PM

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i've checked my cell phone(the only one i've given out)on google and whitepages, it only comes up as a private number in texas so mine doesn't give much away unles you pay to reserach it. i personally being intersted in phonesex have given my number away to fellow partners many a time! you don't quite think about anything when your in the moment. personally i think it's to each your own how open you are or not.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/14/2006 2:48:34 PM

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When i get asked for my number i ask to have theirs so i can call them instead. This way i can block my own number. If they refuse to give me theirs, after asking me first to give them mine, i would have to be an idiot to give it out.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/14/2006 4:21:29 PM

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I give out My cell phone number 1st.Its a Trac-Fone so if I start getting harrassed
I can go get another phone with a different number,it might have that option on the newer one I have.Have never had to change it.

I will call them back as My home phone number is blocked from coming up on Caller ID's.

I have on occasion given out My home phone right away I have no worries about it.I'm sure if someone wants to find Me they would somehow.Whether they have the number or not.

I can say that if someone comes in here uninvited...they wont be walking out.
Been a victim to a burglar and been raped....No One is hurting Myself or My family if I can help it.I'm a lil overboard when it comes to having safety measures.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/14/2006 7:03:25 PM

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What amazes me is people who refuse to give out their own numbers, and yet also refuse to meet people who won't give them one. How does that make sense?

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/14/2006 9:22:06 PM

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with mine it always comes up privte! it's just how my parents set all 4 of the phones under the same plan as. so i never have to worry about it.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 4:44:22 AM

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What amazes me is people who refuse to give out their own numbers, and yet also refuse to meet people who won't give them one. How does that make sense?

LS

My thoughts exactly. It can be hard to tell the difference between some being very security concious and someone who is just a paranoid psycho.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 4:57:53 AM

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i have given out phone number and cell phone but only after the Dom has shared his with me and i have rang it like i am meeting a Dom tommorrow i ecven have his car reg number and so my safe calls has his home address tel and car reg so if i dont come home they can find me

dont see a problem as long as you hace been talking a bit and he has shared personal info infact how many of us will give mobile to a guy we snogged on a saturday night in a club a few i bet or take his number after the kissing bit not before

just a thought nihad

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 4:58:33 AM

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I find to many women that give their phone numbers out to freely. They dont seem to want to take the time to get to know the person they are chatting with first. They have no patience. Im not saying to take forever to exchange phone numbers but not on the first chat.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 5:00:55 AM

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Bethane what if he gave you a phony name and stole the car.

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 5:02:37 AM

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I find to many women that give their phone numbers out to freely. They dont seem to want to take the time to get to know the person they are chatting with first. They have no patience. Im not saying to take forever to exchange phone numbers but not on the first chat.

this slave went with gut instinct and gave Master her phone number on the second chat that we had; of course, this was after Master gave her his and asked that she call.
this slave understands the importance of safety, but there are times that something just 'feels' right and you have to run with it

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 5:35:49 AM

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They dont seem to want to take the time to get to know the person they are chatting with first. They have no patience. Im not saying to take forever to exchange phone numbers but not on the first chat.

Uhmm maybe some of us "take the time to get to know the other person" VIA THE PHONE? Patience has nothing to do with it. Believe it or not, there are other ways to communicate with people besides IMs and emails. <looking for my horse and buggy to run to the store for bread and milk>

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 5:48:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I find to many women that give their phone numbers out to freely. They dont seem to want to take the time to get to know the person they are chatting with first. They have no patience. Im not saying to take forever to exchange phone numbers but not on the first chat.

And if their number is private and untracable, what's the problem with giving it out freely? Perhaps they have no attention for IMs and wish to hear the person's voice right away?

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RE: Giving out your phone number - 9/15/2006 6:03:06 AM

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I´ve rarely given out my number, but then I´ve called people abroad..few times but then I use hidden number, but my mobile number is untraceable so I´m not that very worried and even if i t was traceable..I barely ever give out my phonenumber unless I'm pretty sure that I can trust the person and I can trace the person back if needed.

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