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Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 8:12:17 PM   
CruelAussie


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Status: offline 		I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

I have been lucky over the years that i have had  good success finding such women. Sometimes their husbands knew but did not participate, and while not quite as exciting still verey enjoyable.

It now seems that these women are few and far between. Are all women now getting all they need from their relationships or has times changes so much that they bury their desires rather that act on them in secret.

I would love to hear from Doms with a similar experences, and sub women, especially marred, on their opinion

Thank You for reading my Post
Aussie
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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 8:19:24 PM   
SaphireLynn


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Status: offline 		Why do you want to play with a cheater? Someone that would cheat on thier spouce will probally not be faithful to you...  

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 8:39:07 PM   
Voltare


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From: Santiago, Chile
Status: offline 		Well, pal, I hate to say it but you're going to get an earful on this thread.  I'm not one to usually call out the dogs, but am sure you're used to it, so I won't hold back on the flames.

Perhaps you've not considered that your particular kink likely derives from a profound desire to steal your mother from your father?  Oedipus killed his father to take his place - he didn't weasle her away.  Perhaps you were always the last one picked for the baseball team, and this is your way of getting back at the alpha males who used to steal your lunch money?  The sad thing, really, is that this is the sort of behavior I'd hear about when a girl is dumped, so he invites her out to make her feel special, and then doesn't take no for an answer. 

At any rate, I'm sure the most frustrating aspect must be knowing that every time you borrow a mercedes or a porshe, you'll never own your own - like a valet at some dinner party.  Either way, your lack of success is probably more likely related to the tire that's growing around your belly or forgetting to change your Depends often enough.  I'd suggest growing up, but  I'm afraid your mom would probably get lonely if you stopped living in her basement.

Have a nice day.
Stephan


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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 8:45:27 PM   
zenofeller


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Status: offline 		honestly, i have never been involved with a woman that wasn't in some sort of relationship when we met. not deliberately, it's just how it worked out, historically. i suppose the husband/bf found out eventually, not that i care either way.

all the neurosis about "borrowing a mercedes" strikes me as a bit funny, seeing how i didn't borrow a mercedes. a car doesn't make it's own decissions.

at any rate, the alpha male in this sort of triplet is quite obviously he who leaves with the girl, not he who the girl leaves. other than that, tire or no tire, oedipus or no oedipus, baseball team or no baseball team, you can have it all, i don't see who cares. certainly not whoever left with "your" girl.


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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 8:51:00 PM   
gretchenS


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Status: offline 		CruelAussie,

There's a section on the forums called 'Polls and other random stupidity'. Maybe you should post this hilarious and remarkable statement there.

Best of Luck!
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(Yes, I'm a horrible brat, what can I say)

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:04:17 PM   
Voltare


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Status: offline 		I suppose I didn't elaborate enough - the question isn't that he's involving himself with married women.  That's repugnant to me, sure, but I don't pretend to be the morality police.  The poster indicated that he's not interested in the relationship, but rather in the thrill of a taboo relationship.  He 'borrows' the woman, has his fun, then sends her on her way.  Certainly, the woman has her role to play and responsibility to share, but there's no indication that the guy has any real concern for the woman in the first place and it's obvious that he's never going to be the one to 'leave with the girl.'  More to the point, I don't know any 'Alpha' males who whine about being unable to get laid.  Either way, a prostitute has the choice to move and find a legit job, but that doesn't leave the pimp any less culpable.  That the impact on other people's lives is beyond your concern doesn't make it any less remarkable.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:19:24 PM   
Frank01


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Status: offline 		Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? I bet he gets lots of replies on the other side.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:20:18 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I've always preferred it when it's WITH the husband's knowledge.

quote:

ORIGINAL: CruelAussie

I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:21:18 PM   
zenofeller


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Status: offline 		so i re-read his original post, i still don't see that he's not interested in the relationship part. then again the post is short enough to be readable every which way.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:50:32 PM   
Sunshine119


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quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

so i re-read his original post, i still don't see that he's not interested in the relationship part. then again the post is short enough to be readable every which way.


Ah, but if you read his profile, you will see that he is married to a vanilla woman. Ergo, he probably doesn't want anyone wanting to get into a long term relationship with him either.


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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:58:52 PM   
DomKen


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Status: offline 		You are the sort of pathetic wannabe that gives Doms and men in general a bad name. The next time you sneak into what ever dump you use for your furtive little encounters I hope wondering whether the woman who so skillfully lies to her husband isn't also lying to you about her health status won't keep your one inch cock from getting erect.

< Message edited by DomKen -- 9/29/2006 10:03:55 PM >

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 9:58:57 PM   
zenofeller


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Status: offline 		my superficial research has been exposed :) i yield to superior scholars.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 10:01:11 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		Oh, what a tangled web we weave.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/29/2006 11:44:11 PM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		Was a married sub, now am widowed.  I never played or had a relationship without my vanilla husbands knowledge and permission.  It was ackward even with the knowledge and permission.  I doubt i would have made a very good cheat as guilt would have eaten me alive.  My husbands one wish was that i would find the Dom that i could be happy with and to settle down with that Dom in a committed bdsm relationship.  Not all husbands would have agreed to such an arrangement, however my husband was caring enough of me to allow me to follow my interests. 

I do not believe that there are fewer married subs available.  I think that they (myself included) have enough respect for our husbands and ourselves to be honest and not hide our involvement.  I do NOT condemn anyone for their fullfillment of their needs in regards to being married or not.  I would ask the OP tho since he is married to a vanilla woman if he has informed his wife of his decision to seek outside the relationship and if he has not why is that.  Does that make You less of a man/Dom for being a cheat.  And above all what would a sub get from a relationship with You.  Just asking, flaming not intended.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/30/2006 12:55:18 AM   
Tikkiee


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quote:

You are the sort of pathetic wannabe that gives Doms and men in general a bad name. The next time you sneak into what ever dump you use for your furtive little encounters I hope wondering whether the woman who so skillfully lies to her husband isn't also lying to you about her health status won't keep your one inch cock from getting erect.


while i am not all for the 'hey lets sneak around and cheat' scenario, niether can I sit here and place all blame on just him. There are plenty out there with the same desires as this man lays claim to; many who want nothing more than to cheat on their SO's.
Personally, while I too find it distasteful, at least he's upfront about it; unlike some others.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/30/2006 12:59:38 AM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		That's not my cup of tea.

1. I don't want to be shot.

2. If someone is to be my sub, it's to be FULL TIME. I'm not going to be someones part time dom and number 2 in there life.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/30/2006 5:46:59 AM   
NastyDaddy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CruelAussie
I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

I have been lucky over the years that i have had  good success finding such women...


A Motown classic:  "Who's making love to your ol' lady... while you are out making love?"

It kinda really sorta sounds like she's actually been whoring you out...

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/30/2006 6:42:45 AM   
zenofeller


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Status: offline 		heh it amuses me no end to see exactly how fucking puritan posters here are.

quite frankly, if you imagine being married as an exclusive arrangement, not only are you behind the times, you are also in for a surprise.

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RE: Married Woman Looking For More - 9/30/2006 7:02:11 AM   
raiken


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CruelAussie

I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

I have been lucky over the years that i have had  good success finding such women. Sometimes their husbands knew but did not participate, and while not quite as exciting still verey enjoyable.

It now seems that these women are few and far between. Are all women now getting all they need from their relationships or has times changes so much that they bury their desires rather that act on them in secret.

I would love to hear from Doms with a similar experences, and sub women, especially marred, on their opinion

Thank You for reading my Post
Aussie


Ah shoot! The nillas do it round these parts all the time.  So what makes this any different from the age ole cheater anyway ya know? So the conduit used to cheat in this case is D/s, not much else has changed.  LOL! Cheating will be around for eva.  Anyway, i believe that the women who play around are perhaps being a bit more choosey now, for several reasons that come to mind....what with STD's and the like, it can mean life or slow tortorous death to cheat these days.  Also, many women who do cheat (just goin by what i see in my area) are a bit more wealthier, and may be in better financial shape then they were years ago, so it will be a bit more expensive, and they won't settle for the no tell motel any longer, now they may want the Ritz.  i know of some women who are in business convenient marraiges, who stay for the long term investment payoffs, so for them, it is not viewed as cheating per se, but rather more out of seeking temporary fulfillment while they wait for the payoff.  Cheating is just a part of the social norm these days, what is immoral for one, may be deeply fulfilling (in the moment) for another.  Just thinking...

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RE: Married Women - 9/30/2006 7:02:21 AM   
amayos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CruelAussie

I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

I would love to hear from Doms with a similar experences, and sub women, especially marred, on their opinions.


I refuse to dominate a married female without her husband's knowledge. Not only is it dishonorable, debasing and limited, but it can make enemies for you. Oscar Wilde once wrote that the one charm of marriage was that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties. That may have been true in his time, but I feel—or have deluded myself into thinking—that many modern marriages in general have evolved, somewhat. Being honest and open, while sometimes a somewhat less traveled upon path, is far more rewarding in the end.



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