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ORIGINAL: amayos

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ORIGINAL: CruelAussie

I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

I would love to hear from Doms with a similar experences, and sub women, especially marred, on their opinions.

I refuse to dominate a married female without her husband's knowledge. Not only is it dishonorable, debasing and limited, but it can make enemies for you. Oscar Wilde once wrote that the one charm of marriage was that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties. That may have been true in his time, but I feel—or have deluded myself into thinking—that many modern marriages in general have evolved, somewhat. Being honest and open, while sometimes a somewhat less traveled upon path, is far more rewarding in the end.

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

That's not my cup of tea.

1. I don't want to be shot.

2. If someone is to be my sub, it's to be FULL TIME. I'm not going to be someones part time dom and number 2 in there life.

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ORIGINAL: raiken

...it is too in grained in human nature....the sneaking, the allure, the excitment of getting over, the challenges cheating presents...those in bored or stale marriages formed from financial convenience...the kids, the community name, etc. so many factors here. Folks live with it, and shut out the guilt of dishonesty, so much so, that they become numb.... those who feel trapped...for them...cheating is their drug. Those who don't know how to commit, for what ever personal issues they have, cheating is their outlet...etc

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ORIGINAL: zumala
I personally don't understand the cheating mindset. I waited a long time to find the right one for a lifetime commited relationship. That's one thing that makes the marriage itself so special. We can talk about anything together, so there's no need to go elsewhere.

Of course the other issues would be STDs and the fact that I trust liars as far as I can throw them. I certainly would never lower myself to the level of being a cheater. The thought makes me cringe. I have more honor than that, not to mention love and respect for my mate.

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ORIGINAL: sophia37

Oh gee! its another "cheating thread!" Boy are you in for it here on this site! The holier than thou brigade loves to jump into this one. We here on collarme can slap each other around, have toilet play, live with 6 lovers at the same time and any number of other off the wall things in the eyes of the mainstream world, but by golly, go get a secret lover and you're doomed. Same old same old.. 

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

at some point your husband was your best friend, at some point he was the world....how can some one hurt some one they loved so passionatly, doe he not deserve the respect of hearing "i am over you" and you moving on? isnt that the classier way to go?

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ORIGINAL: CruelAussie

I am a dom / master who has always had a deep desire to dominate married woman without their husband knowledge.

I have been lucky over the years that i have had  good success finding such women. Sometimes their husbands knew but did not participate, and while not quite as exciting still verey enjoyable.

It now seems that these women are few and far between. Are all women now getting all they need from their relationships or has times changes so much that they bury their desires rather that act on them in secret.

I would love to hear from Doms with a similar experences, and sub women, especially marred, on their opinion

Thank You for reading my Post
Aussie

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ORIGINAL: Kashan

Married people should cheat with married people (or people so involved they are basically married.) It's the only way it can work without people getting hurt, especially where love is involved.