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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

Person 1. I’m attracted to her, because she is nice and curvy and has large breasts.
Person 2. I don’t like her, because she is overweight.
Person 3. I like that one over there, because she is so slender in her nice tight clothes.
Person 4. Her, she is all skin and bones and has no boobs. I don't like her.

Person 1. I think that person is hot, they have pretty eyes.
Person 2. Those are contacts.
Person 3. Yeah, those are contacts, but did you see the rack on her?
Person 4. Those are implants … not much better than an inflatable girl.

When you read the above, doesn’t it all strike you as shallow?

Thick/Thin … it’s probably how you were born, and it still doesn’t reflect what kind of person you are inside.

Hot/Not, it’s so subjective … I think if I ran into a groups of twenty people, five would think I was hot, five would think I was not, and ten would be largely indifferent … but no matter, none of that reflects on the person inside.

Thick/Thin, Hot/Not … people are born with what they have, and that’s that.

So, what is with all this talk on the board lately, insisting and insinuating that some people are stupid? I don’t understand how people that think themselves smart, can call other people stupid and think that has any meaning.

People are born with what they have. I’m not a very smart person. I’m a very good student, but that’s due to work ethic more than intelligence. But still … is a poster of average intelligence, ‘stupid’ because they have a point of view that some might not agree with?

Person 1. She can’t wear that red dress, because she is overweight. It looks better on a thinner girl like her.

Person 2. Yeah, but that thin girl is wearing yellow. She looks like a pencil. She can’t wear yellow.

Person 3. She is also wearing those glasses that would look better on someone hotter. She can’t wear those, she isn’t as hot as the girl in the red dress.

Person 4. Have you talked to the girl in yellow? She isn’t as smart as the girl in red, so can’t have an opinion.

Person 5. They are both stupid, because I once dated a really smart girl. The are just stupid.

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ORIGINAL: toservez


There is a man at work who has a severe thing for large breasts. It is so prevelant that he no longer even tries to hide the fact. He is a spectacular man that everyone looks up to and admires but he is not going to date anyone who does not have D cups fake or real. Does not make him shallow, makes him self aware.

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

Being self aware and shallow are not mutually exclusive characteristics. Yes, he is aware that he'll settle for no less than a big pair of swinging mamories but he is shallow to use this as his measure of women's attraction.

In fact, to unashamedly bring caitlyn's thread into this I'll go as far as to agree with CrappyDom and say he is absolutely 100% stupid as batshit to cut himself off from a whole variety of slinky, curvy, sexy, slightly overweight and down right dirty felines just because they haven't got a pair of tits you could lose a badger in.

I'm trying to put the shoe on the other foot here and I'm wondering if we'd admire a woman who says she'll settle for nothing less than a 10 inch cock. It's not exactly the source of admiration is it.

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ORIGINAL: toservez

Another example like wanting a woman whose a great cook. some would call that shallow but what if the man has grown up in a home that celebrates food that truly enjoys nice meals and knows nothing different. Does that make him shallow and stupid? Personally not in my opinion.