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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 3:46:25 PM

windchymes

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caitlyn, I think you are one of the wisest people I've had the pleasure of reading posts from.

(See, if I was smart, I'd have worded that "from which I've had the pleasure of reading posts"....but it sounds weird that way!)

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 3:54:54 PM

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This is how I read that:

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Blah...blah..blah...huge pair of tits...Blah...blah..blah...giant tits...Blah...blah..blah...

Er, what then...?

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 4:10:59 PM

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If I was a betting man, CG, I'd say you just want to see the words "tits" on this screen again and you're setting the trap for me to do the honours.......right or wrong?

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 4:17:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Blah...blah..blah..."tits"...Blah...blah..blah...

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 4:19:15 PM

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In truth, I think beauty comes in all sizes. I'm just feeling silly.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 4:44:16 PM

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Like it or not, physical attraction plays a very important role with how two people meet. That is just the way our brains are programmed to be. They could be the nicest person in the world, but if I can not invision myself having sex with that person, they are not going to end up in a relationship with Me, that is all there is to it. I am not going to date that 300 pounder because I can not envision Myself climbing on her, even in the dark. I will be friends with them. We can do coffee and chat all day, but I will never date them. Because I am not attracted to that sort of thing. I have to envision Myself spending the rest of My life with them, and not only being mentally attracted (which is very important also), but physically attracted as well. Do you realize what kind of role a sex life plays in a marriage? A huge one. It is probably the number one cause of disagreements between two partners.

The next guy might take a look at the exact same woman and go "Wow! That is a whole lot of loving!" and offer to take her back to his place. Everyone's taste is different.

I am not attracted to very overweight women. I am not attracted to skinny women either. That does not make Me shallow. That makes Me human and frankly perfectly normal.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 5:24:29 PM

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SirKenin, I agree.
Different people like different things.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 5:27:55 PM

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Attraction gets me there, personality keeps me there.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 6:22:53 PM

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thinking in my next life i'll ask to be skinny and smaller boobs but then again someone else will find something they won't approve of in me people have just different preferences i dont think its shallow at all unless thats the only soul purpose of being with that person as well as opinions are like assholes everyone has one just my half cent

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/3/2006 8:26:20 PM

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My assessment of someone being stupid has nothing to do with their level of agreement or disagreement with me. I WISH it were that easy, I'd be able to ignore a lot of people I dislike and disagree with :)

Females unfortunately have a much higher tendency to equate agreement with liking and disagreement with disliking and that can cause a lot of strife in the communication process.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 12:04:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

caitlyn, I think you are one of the wisest people I've had the pleasure of reading posts from.

(See, if I was smart, I'd have worded that "from which I've had the pleasure of reading posts"....but it sounds weird that way!)

There's a grammatical error in the 2nd one, if you can tell me what it is then I will know you ARE smart ! If you are also tall full figured nice plumptious breasts round butt then............

looking at you

you looking at me

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 12:24:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chaingang

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Blah...blah..blah..."tits"...Blah...blah..blah...

I thought as much, CG. Be honest, you're now dreaming of living in a house where even the chandeliers have nipples

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 12:48:48 AM

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So we should all be the same, even if we are not. We should all like the same thing, even if it is pretending. We should treat everyone equally, in spite of the fact we are all different.

If everyone thought everyone and everything they did was just swell. What would make it the least bit important or meaningfull to be appreciated by anyone, to be loved by anyone. We are all different and seek different things.

This crap about we are all beautiful inside is crap. Don't judge? Don't exclude? Don't choose?

Then we should not be seeking any particular sex, age, weight, cleanliness, and on and on.......

Take whatever happens to be in front of you this moment and be happy. Yeah.......

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 1:19:34 AM

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Every day the wiser the less superficial I am.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 2:36:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

My assessment of someone being stupid has nothing to do with their level of agreement or disagreement with me. I WISH it were that easy, I'd be able to ignore a lot of people I dislike and disagree with :)

Females unfortunately have a much higher tendency to equate agreement with liking and disagreement with disliking and that can cause a lot of strife in the communication process.

Oh YES! I often find it very difficult to have an intellectual arguement with a person ( often female ) who is emotionally close to me ( sometimes not even close ). They seem to equate a difference of opinion as a total judgement on them. I can vigorously argue with others and both of us take no offence or emotional distress. I can love someone, respect them in all ways, and still disagree and challenge them on certain things. But usually it does not reflect any judgement on them as a person I like. I hate it when a woman might actually say that I think she is stupid, just because we are debating on opposite sides. It makes it hard to discuss things. A very dull silence can happen and carry on for a long time. I just avoid bringing up things. This forces me to go elsewhere for mental stimulation. That is sad and frustrating.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 3:39:18 AM

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One's rationale doesn't factor into the determination of a judgment's depth. If the trait being judged is shallow, so's the judgment. Further, if one cares about that trait, when it comes to that trait, the judge in question is shallow (or is being shallow, which is a quibble).

So how do we know what's a shallow trait and what's a deep one (ignoring for a moment the issue of quantification)? If the trait is an intrinsic aspect of its owner's identity, it's deep. Otherwise, it's generally shallow. My fast-and-loose rule is that physical, external traits are shallow. I've got no hard, fast rule for the smart/stupid portion of the topic.

What I think's being assumed in several of the these post is that shallowness is relative, but definitely a bad thing. I'd like to put forth that shallowness is absolute -- it is or it isn't -- but that it's value is dependent on one's point of view. If you really care about tit size, that makes you shallow, but it's up to you to decide if that shallowness is something you don't like. If you're okay with being shallow (at least on that issue), own it. If you're not, do something about it.

There's no need to turn perfectly good carrots into roses. Just decide whether or not you like the way they taste.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 5:12:18 AM

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I think Tobes has a degree in Relative Epiistemology and Pedagogy from the University of Calcutta

Should go far!!.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 5:25:52 AM

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Let's be honest, some people just want a damn good fuck and be damned. Not everyone has to pretend or perform moral acrobatics to justify to themselves why they deserve a good fuck. Not everyone needs the romantic sugar coating so they can look at themselves in the mirror and pretend there's some spiritual blessing behind the damn good fuck they've just experienced.

As for the size of tits, I'm all for a tit fuck but I've never complained when the lady in question didn't have ample attributes to allow such an act to be performed. You just tell her to assume some other position so you can have your wicked way with her. Shallow? Yes but what of it. You don't need a degree to fuck, you don't even need to speak the same language, you don't need permission from the pope.

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 6:44:02 AM

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General response ... I think style I used in the OP, did a poor job of illustrating my point.

None of this is about personal taste, or loving what's on the inside ... it's about how opinions are manifest.

If you like full figured people, would you walk the streets screaming at every skinny person you mean, "Eat a fucking hamburger already!"

If you are used to dating hot people, do you carry around signs that rate everyone 1-10, and insist that everyone sees your ratings?

No ... you wouldn't do that, because it would be mean and make you look like a jerk. People are born, how they are born.

Why should it be any different when someone calls another person stupid? Sure, maybe they're a really smart person ... but aren't others born with the intelligence they were born with?

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RE: Thick/Thin, Hot/Not, Smart/Stupid - 10/4/2006 6:59:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn

Why should it be any different when someone calls another person stupid? Sure, maybe they're a really smart person ... but aren't others born with the intelligence they were born with?

I don't think so or at least that is not entirely the case. It appears and I bow to anyone with better knowledge but intelligence varies throughout ones life depending on how much one uses ones brain. I guess one is born with a potential but whether one achieves that potential is something else.

I guess people should wear signs around their neck saying 'I've achieved my potential' or 'I'm a dumb ass who is too lazy to reach my potential'. People will then know who to call stupid because it's their fault and who one should respect for what they are.

Actually, there are some things even idiots should make themself aware of such as why their country went to war.

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