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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:06:25 PM

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Google "Brazilian wax job."

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:07:56 PM

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Google "Brazilian wax job."

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:08:52 PM

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Well there's only one way to find out...

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:12:19 PM

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A mirror?

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:14:25 PM

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Sounds good to me. Full report on my desk in the morning.

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:15:12 PM

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Complete with pics.

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:16:36 PM

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i know many ppl drop a few years on sites and i totally understand. while i feel no need to do this, im actually proud of my age, i understand that its a way to get more 'hits', or attention, and that unfortunately, we are judged by age also. many profiles state what they seek partners in this and that age range..
the other day, we had a lady join us, and after my Master left, she admitted to me she was 7yrs older than what was she stated on her profile. at first it didnt do anything to me. but as the day went on, and im thinking of the 3-some we had that morning, (hard to concentrate at the job) it kept coming back to my head.. i was sort of disappointed in her.. i found it dishonest and even sneeky..and sort of turned off. i also found 7yrs a bit too much.
im not one that judges by age, but i do value.. honesty?...
just curious to know how others would feel if after playing with a partner, he or she would admit to you they are much older than the profile.

There are no good lies. It would not only be a turn off but would probably be the last time we spoke. Harsh maybe but still a big probability.

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:38:20 PM

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I feel a famous quote in the offing...............

There are no good lies, only good liars............

Errrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmmm, me!

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:51:06 PM

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I have had women/girls lie both ways to me, adding to it and subtracting from it. So long as I eventually find out the real age, it does not bother me. I am still very good friends with one who shaved years off her age. Maybe because I am so much older anyway. To me it depends on more why they lie than that they did. I have had some say they will not answer unless he is over 40 or 50 and I definitely am but did not hear back from them. Trust in the long run is everything but it is something that must be built. Saying someone is 5 years younger to meet you and then after meeting tells you the truth is no problem for me. If I liked them when they said they were 25, I will like them if they are actually 35. Can I trust them after meeting and do I enjoy being with them is the most important factors. And yes, my age is correct on my profile.

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 6:52:24 PM

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Accurate age isn't a deal breaker, but lying is. As my Master and I have discussed and agreed, less than 100% honesty is 100% dishonesty. Lies by omission or deception are still lies. As you said, Rubyleu, it would be my Master's decision as to whether or not we played with a person who wasn't truthful at the start, and "came clean" after He left.

I am curious as to what your Master has to say about it?

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 7:05:57 PM

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There comes a time in life where you have to pick your battles.

There is something about the OP's angst that leaves me to think there is something more.. Like perhaps she was closer in age to her Master than she and they hit it off.. perhaps a bit more than she expected? I don't know.....just guessing and thinking out loud.

uh... no..
like i said, we dont give a hoot about age. if my Master wanted an older sub, He would get one. and no, they didnt hit it off. we all had a good time. which is another reason why i think one shouldnt lie about age.
and in fact, she was very turned on by me, to the point that i felt my Master was left out. but thats me, im always concerned about my Master's pleasure and dont care about mine. He enjoyed watching us very much.
so you missed the point completely Lotus, but thanks for yr opinion.

No problem :) If I don't ask.. I'll never learn :)

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 7:13:51 PM

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I lied about my age once...but now I tell people; "I'm 48, but people tell me all the time I don't look a day over 47, 10 months, 3 weeks, 4 days, 17 hours".

(It's the eye cream I'm certain).

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 7:24:25 PM

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I have never had anyone say, "You're such a liar, you don't look a THING like 34."

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 7:35:11 PM

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I have never had anyone say, "You're such a liar, you don't look a THING like 34."

You dont look a day over 33 but what really counts is... you fuck like a 20 year old with 14 years experience... smiles

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 7:36:12 PM

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Comments from Peach ought to have one of those "Compensated Endorser" bylines. You know, full legal disclosure and shit.

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 8:06:35 PM

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Accurate age isn't a deal breaker, but lying is. As my Master and I have discussed and agreed, less than 100% honesty is 100% dishonesty. Lies by omission or deception are still lies. As you said, Rubyleu, it would be my Master's decision as to whether or not we played with a person who wasn't truthful at the start, and "came clean" after He left.

I am curious as to what your Master has to say about it?

He didnt seem to be bothered by it. but also, He never knew the age she claimed to be, cos He didnt care i guess. i took the first steps in searching her and introduced her to my Master. They communicated a bit, but i dont think my Master read her profile since He wasnt even aware of her age.
im disappointed at her lying to me, not her age..and her telling me after my Master left. but i understand her also. im not that upset, but still.. i personally wouldnt lie to get to someone..

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 10:15:37 PM

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lol
this is so funny..
I am a 38dd cup myself and always wear underwire..
and you missed my point..
And now I have forgotten it..
just sayin'

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/14/2006 11:27:50 PM

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Dear subjected2006, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I'm waiting for underwire athletic cups for men's saggy balls--We can always call it a "Nut bra."

Plus, twist it and it can be a 'nut keeper' --

To lift and separate.

Respectfully submitted with a lot of 'nutty' humor,
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RE: lying about yr age - 10/15/2006 2:30:24 AM

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To the OP - From what I read, you spoke to this woman a few times to hook up for a no strings attached 3-some, and you are shocked that she didn't give you all the details of her life? I personally don't lie about my age, but if I was just "hooking up" with strangers, I can think of plenty of things I wouldn't share. I think you are making far too much of it. I would be more concerned if she left out other details that might be more pertinent, such as STDs, personality disorders, etc. If you are ok with that stuff, then I wouldn't sweat the age thing.

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RE: lying about yr age - 10/15/2006 6:10:22 AM

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To the OP - From what I read, you spoke to this woman a few times to hook up for a no strings attached 3-some, and you are shocked that she didn't give you all the details of her life? I personally don't lie about my age, but if I was just "hooking up" with strangers, I can think of plenty of things I wouldn't share. I think you are making far too much of it. I would be more concerned if she left out other details that might be more pertinent, such as STDs, personality disorders, etc. If you are ok with that stuff, then I wouldn't sweat the age thing.

this woman is a potential sub for my Master, a potential sister sub for me. at first it may be an NSA meeting. i do not know what will happen next, as its not my decision, but i didnt ask her anything after the scene, she admitted after my Master left the room. i didnt come up with the subject. she, like me, and many of us i guess, have a few profiles on the net, seeking this and that, and the age she put is younger than she is. im not talking a couple of yrs, im talking seven. personally, i think its too much, i would have maybe felt better if she put 45 instead of 43. why? cos its taking ppl for fools, idiots.. its insulting.. but thats my opinion. its like, hey, look at me, im 20, and a bunch of ppl believe you and you turn out to be 28.. the ppl who find out feel like idiots believing.. hmm.. if only i could use nice words like most ppl.. but i think i got my point across.
im not making a big deal out of this, im not 'shocked'. i just wanted to know how others would feel someone admitting they are much older (and to me, thats 'much' older) after you had sex with them. why not say it before.. why even say then.. i dunno.. i liked this girl before, regardless of her age, but the fact that she lied to me just did something to my feelings towards her.
ideally, i would prefer a sister sub who was honest with me from day 1. but we dont live in an ideal world. no one is perfect, no one makes no mistakes, especially me. i also feel that its just an age issue, and that she wont bullshit me about other things.. but you never know... some ppl are comfortable with lying, misleading. if we do meet up again, i definitely have to let her know about my feelings. not good to keep it in. another thing i learnt with old age..lol.. aging is a good thing..

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