NorthernGent
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ORIGINAL: bbwcraves i've been reading this thread and i have to say i wasn't going to post. i'm sure i will get criticized and perhaps get an eye roll or two but i will put my two sense worth in. For what it is worth i guess. First off, i am a military wife, and damn proud of my husband. He's served his country, he's looked the angel of death in the eye and come out of it...nightmares, scars and all, but alive. i've waited, worried, cried, and worried some more that he wouldn't return from a deployment, that i wouldn't get that phone call that he was okay after a mission. i sat and cried and pucked my guts up when i was called and said his plane was lost and wept in relief when given the call that he was safe. Sometime i wonder if the people who fight like i see on this forum really know what it is like to be in his shoes...sometimes it makes me shake my head and sigh in sadness. He may not agree with what is being asked of him, but he does it, because to do other wise would be dishonoring what others before him have honored. Does he get discouraged? Yes, he does, i'm sure others in this war and the waste of this world we live in do. People talk out thier asses about how wrong we are for doing what is being done, and for all the talk is worth the bottom line is....our men and women are there, fighting and dying, worrying, crying, missing home. In my humble opinion, we should support them more, show them how much thier courage means, even if we disagree that they have to be there. i admire them. i also send a thanks to the other wives and spouse out there who keep them hopeful and keep the home front for their return. It isn't an easy job, but we do it. I'm sure this applies to any soldier that has fought a war anywhere in the world. To be living in fear of your life on a daily basis miles from home is not a way to live life for anyone. I think what some are trying to say is that it is wrong for the Government to place young men and women in this position and the only way to prevent it in the future is to stand up and say it is wrong. Otherwise, in 10 years time it will be more of the same in another part of the world - more fighting and dying, worrying and crying. If the argument is that the soldier is duty bound to follow the Government into war then I accept this. I fully accept that walking away from the army is not like leaving a civilian job. However, the paradox here is that while Americans seem deeply suspicious of Government they have no such reservations when it comes to following orders from the Government in the respect of invading a foreign country. You can fight and bicker here, on this forum where you aren't dodging bullets or where you can't be called to task for your words, but its fruitless. i appauld the ones that are trying to do something, i really do. But what would matter most to the ones that are out there fighting the war you people are fighting over here is just simple support. Even if it is a word of thanks, even if you didn't agree. Yyour safe on your computers while they are out there doing what they have too. As for immigration, well i happen to think that should be cut back. i do agree with that. i also think it should be a requirement that everyone speak english, but hey that's a whole new ball of wax. Ignore what i say as you wish, tear it apart i'm sure you will. But i happen to live with someone who jumps at the sound of a gun, who has the nightmares and the sweats. i held him when he cried, and i hate it when people want to fight more then they want to stand up and say, Hey thanks, even if i don't agree with it, i do thank you. Anyway, its off my chest, be well all.
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I have the courage to be a coward - but not beyond my limits. Sooner or later, the man who wins is the man who thinks he can.
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