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Do you think that staying in shape makes better scenes? - 10/16/2006 11:42:27 AM

Contesaluv

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Okay, so of course as we get older (which I just did last Tuesday), the state of our health is more of a concern. So, as I sit here fighting off a bout of the shingles that has had me home from work for two and a half weeks now and I see myself putting on weight because I'm not as active as I usually am. I of course start to worry that once I'm well again, I won't be able to actually have a good scene with anyone until I've gotten back into a somewhat normal workout schedule.

(Contesa <--------------------Climbing the walls since she usually goes to a local BDSM play party almost every Saturday night. Has missed scening quite a bit now.)

So, I thought it might be interesting to see how many of you out there are into working out and believe it does make for a better scene? I know there are many who say it makes for better sex for sure. So what do you say?

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:47:18 AM

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For me, working out does make a better scene. This is not a weight issue, but I'm more in tune with my body and its responses. Besides, when I'm working out, I feel better which leads to better everything.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:47:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv
So, I thought it might be interesting to see how many of you out there are into working out and believe it does make for a better scene? I know there are many who say it makes for better sex for sure. So what do you say?

Yes yes yes. When I'm working on all of myself to keep myself in best form, it affects everything. When one part of yourself is out of whack- then everything else is thrown off balance.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:48:08 AM

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I am working on getting into better shape and losing some weight that I gained when on a medication that really screwed up my system. I know that the new Master I am seeing would like to see me do so (he's in excellent shape himself) and has mentioned that I may not be able to handle some of the rope bondage he likes to do until I do so. I just feel better about myself when I am leaner so I'm eating less and walking more and considering joining a gym.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:49:17 AM

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I can only echo what LA has already said.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:50:06 AM

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Being in shape plays a huge part and I am just getting back to that. The feeling of having a fit body is almost as intoxicating as using it :P

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:52:10 AM

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well, i say forget the gym or whatever and spend that time having sex and sceneing. and the money you save you can spend on equipment! sure, you may need to recover from the shingles (ouch) first...

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:52:15 AM

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Good for you sapphire. I know I just hate what the medicine I'm taking now is doing to me too makes me sluggish and very dizzy at times, actually too often, so I can't even go for a nice long walk just to start back to my routine.

Good luck with your progress.

Contesa

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:52:25 AM

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I try to stay in shape because I feel it lends itself to not only good sex, but to a happier life

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 11:56:22 AM

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well, i say forget the gym or whatever and spend that time having sex and sceneing. and the money you save you can spend on equipment! sure, you may need to recover from the shingles (ouch) first...

LOL! I wish! Yeah, I'd definitely have to recover first. However, I do know that scening every Saturday along with whatever else I do during the week (treadmill, walk/jog, etc.) definitely helps in the weight loss process. So, I'm in agreement with you on the benefits of it.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 12:07:24 PM

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Without question. However, I believe it's more important for the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape (versus a dominant) due to the rigors of play that are (often) visited upon the body of the sub/slave. I also feel it's the duty of the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape for the dominant, both for play purposes and the sense of pride it can give as the sub/slave is often viewed as a reflection of the dominant.

In terms of a 'scene' (public or private), I tend to be very visual so of course the 'eye-candy' of a fit dominant definitely helps too!

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 12:08:03 PM

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I was kind of worried about developing a bit of a beergut for a while, but now I'm in a situation where I have had to cut way way back on alcohol consumption it's slowly going away... (Be quicker if I could give up coke though)
I hate excercise for excercise sake, so I'll pass on the gym, but I do ride a pushie regularly, and soon hope to get back into rollerblading which leads to firm butt and legs... So it's IMO more a matter of walking to the corner shop instead of jumping in the car, that kind of thing... (cheaper too)

In answer to the question, 'staying in shape' to me means 2 things, one is the weight thing, and the other is stamina/finess...
The fitness side I think is more important than the weight... I've known stick figures that would be puffed out after a 100 meter jog, as well as people who would be considered overweight that could run a mile and be ready for more...

Iskander...

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 12:26:07 PM

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Without question. However, I believe it's more important for the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape (versus a dominant) due to the rigors of play that are (often) visited upon the body of the sub/slave. I also feel it's the duty of the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape for the dominant, both for play purposes and the sense of pride it can give as the sub/slave is often viewed as a reflection of the dominant.

In terms of a 'scene' (public or private), I tend to be very visual so of course the 'eye-candy' of a fit dominant definitely helps too!

i ain't having some flabby Dom weilding a cat at me. and he'd probably pass out half way through. and then he'd squash me.

i like my Doms to do all the work. why else would i be in this game?!

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 12:43:20 PM

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Being in shape can only help. From a stamina(both sides!), and cardiovascular health issues it is a no brainer. It is also big on the mental condition that being in shape helps one person's overall confidence, stress and many other things that can effect all aspects of a person's life and that includes a scene from both sides.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 12:53:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gypsylee

quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Without question. However, I believe it's more important for the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape (versus a dominant) due to the rigors of play that are (often) visited upon the body of the sub/slave. I also feel it's the duty of the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape for the dominant, both for play purposes and the sense of pride it can give as the sub/slave is often viewed as a reflection of the dominant.

In terms of a 'scene' (public or private), I tend to be very visual so of course the 'eye-candy' of a fit dominant definitely helps too!

i ain't having some flabby Dom weilding a cat at me. and he'd probably pass out half way through. and then he'd squash me.

i like my Doms to do all the work. why else would i be in this game?!

I can't answer that.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 12:57:56 PM

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me either. i guess it's different for male subs though *teehee*

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 1:28:39 PM

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Since i might be 83 years old before W/we'll get down the list as far as fireplay or rape scene or interrogation play, or a lot of other stuff i've wanted to do since i discovered those things exist..

i know for me, getting in better cardio-vascular health means i might live long enough to actually DO some of the stuff i want to try... Damn i wish i got on this stuff at 26!

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 1:47:24 PM

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Working out, is simply a logical rational and realistic conditioning that not only offers better health, increased physical appearance, grants the opportunity to advance self-discipline and foster an over all sense of well being, it also retards the aging process.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 1:55:58 PM

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I've determined that I want to start a good walking regime so I can stay on my feet longer when in service. There's a lot of toting and hauling in my particular "kink". Also a lot of moving around. If I'm going to continue to cater BDSM parties (one of my kinks) then I need to be able to stay on my feet from hours before the party starts until it ends and things are all cleaned up. I can't do that yet, but I'm betting that a good walking program will take care of that.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 2:02:21 PM

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Apart from really enjoying exercise myself, it gives me more energy and my clothes always fit.:)

sorry to hear about your shingles, hope you are back out there on saturday nights soon

Allie

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