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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 2:12:25 PM   
Contesaluv


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sorry to hear about your shingles, hope you are back out there on saturday nights soon

Allie


Thanks for the well wishes.  I hope so too!  <Evil Grin...!>

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 2:43:30 PM   
Morrigel


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Status: offline 		I think whatever time and energy a person is able to invest in their own wellbeing is good, and will lead to a better life in general.  Sex and play is only one small part of that better life.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 3:24:01 PM   
subsa


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Status: offline 		as others have said exercise helps build stamina, it improves sex, it helps you to live a longer, healthier life.  most forms of exercise will accomplish these goals.  my exercise of choice is yoga.  yoga has the added benefit of encouraging energy flow.  energy flow is a lot of what this lifestyle is all about, no?  yoga is specifically designed to open up the energy channels in the body which (imo) allows for a greater enjoyment of the scene for all parties involved.  learn a simple sun salutaion and perform it a couple of times before your next scene.  see if it works for you. 

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 3:39:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have had a personal trainer for about 8 months now. I am doing taekwondo, kickboxing and sparring with some weapons use.  I just started the treadmill and wieghts in my garage.  My reasons for doing this were as follows: 1. My health.  2. my Dom  3.  my Dom's pride   4. my ability to get "kinky".  I  feel "sexy" comes from the inside..and will ooze through your pores if you feel it, regardless of your looks and your size.  For me, my desire to have my Dom be proud and to be desirable is a drving force.  I also know that my strength and stamina have kicked into overdrive, and I am curious about it excelerating in the bedroom.  Personally, I think its how you feel about yourself and how your Dom sees you.  Anorexic is not something anyone should strive for.  True beauty comes from within, and if it is exerted outward, it will shine regardless of your wieght, hieghth, or anything else that makes you feel less than desirable.  It is a personal choice.....

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/16/2006 4:03:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't really think of anything in life that isn't more pleasant when you are in shape.  You have more energy, are more flexible, and your endurance level is up.  I know I can tell a big difference in just everyday activities when I am exercising and when I am not.  I also find that my sex drive goes up (if that is possible), and I just crave so many more sensations in general.
 
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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 6:17:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm most certain that is possible for your sex drive to go up.  I remember when I was working out shortly after my divorce and it seemed the slimmer I got the more sex I wanted...lol!  For several reasons I'm sure one of which includes a mental lift in self esteem and then the sensations are heightened.

Also, CONGRATS!  On being collared.  I hope  you both fulfill each other in ways that will bring you bliss from now until...

Naturally,
Contesa

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 6:22:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've noticed when I am working on staying in shape it gives me more energy and I am able to enjoy EVERYTHING better.  Usually when I'm in a work out routine I have more motivation to do things around the house, get extra work done, and things like that. 

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 6:35:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		i have been obese and i have been very fit and at a healthy weight.  My physical responses are the same in both states.  However, i have so much more energy and i feel so much better about myself when i am fit that it does make a big difference.  But you have to take care of your health and fitness for yourself, if you try to do it to please someone else it just doesn't work.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 7:00:24 AM   
MzTlaz


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Status: offline 		OK....as a Dominant I have to be in shape to dish out what I do.  There are rigors on the other side of the whip! 

I did an onstage Domme thing for a Goth Night a couple of years ago and I worked it all night.....every muscle in my body was sore for the next week because I wasn't working out at the time!  Staying in shape helps keep the pain where it belongs....with the submissive!

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

However, I believe it's more important for the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape (versus a dominant) due to the rigors of play that are (often) visited upon the body of the sub/slave. 

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 9:02:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think my emotional health is more important to my sex life or my BDSM than my physical health.

It does not matter how skinny, how low the blood pressure is or how sexy others think I am if I don't feel in the mood myself.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 9:24:48 AM   
servantforuse


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Status: offline 		As a submissive male, i feel that i have to be in good shape. Some of the things that i am required to do as a slave ( being caged for hours, etc. ) would be impossible if i were over weight and out of shape.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 10:17:00 AM   
behindmirrors


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Status: offline 		I'm in good shape, but I don't exercise in the "treadmills and weight-lifting" sense. I dance. Every day, I dance. It makes me beyond happy. I learn a new skill that way, too, and have something fun to show my Dom when he comes home. Starting next week, I'm going to take pole dancing lessons. That should be a fun way to get in some exercise, feel sexy, and have a new skill for my Dom to use to his liking. :)

With that said, I think when you feel good, you look good. And when you feel good, everything is just a bit better. Even sex and scening.

behindmirrors.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 10:32:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm going to have to disagree with everyone here.  It's MUCH sexier when you start wheezing after 90 seconds of strenuous activity and your partner is worried you're about to have an infarction.  Oh, and when the pudge hangs down over your crotch so it interferes with your erection--that makes for one hell of a blowjob, let me tell ya.  "No, honey, that's my bellybutton, not my frenulum."

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 10:42:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Oh, and when the pudge hangs down over your crotch so it interferes with your erection--that makes for one hell of a blowjob, let me tell ya.  "No, honey, that's my bellybutton, not my frenulum."


EEEWWWWWWW

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 1:07:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzTlaz

OK....as a Dominant I have to be in shape to dish out what I do.  There are rigors on the other side of the whip! 

I did an onstage Domme thing for a Goth Night a couple of years ago and I worked it all night.....every muscle in my body was sore for the next week because I wasn't working out at the time!  Staying in shape helps keep the pain where it belongs....with the submissive!

quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

However, I believe it's more important for the sub/slave to keep themselves in good shape (versus a dominant) due to the rigors of play that are (often) visited upon the body of the sub/slave. 




I agree completely and didn't mean to suggest that the dominant isn't working in a scene. 

No question that being in shape helps both the sub/slave and the dominant. 



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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 2:00:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I second that emotion!  EEEEWWWW

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 2:06:09 PM   
demistress


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Oh, and when the pudge hangs down over your crotch so it interferes with your erection--that makes for one hell of a blowjob, let me tell ya.  "No, honey, that's my bellybutton, not my frenulum."


EEEWWWWWWW


And thus the need for pros....... many of my clients would typically fall into the "EWWW" category, they're still human, they still have needs and wants to fill.

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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 2:06:17 PM   
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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 2:39:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: devotion4u

I have had a personal trainer for about 8 months now. I am doing taekwondo, kickboxing and sparring with some weapons use.  I just started the treadmill and wieghts in my garage.  My reasons for doing this were as follows: 1. My health.  2. my Dom  3.  my Dom's pride   4. my ability to get "kinky".  I  feel "sexy" comes from the inside..and will ooze through your pores if you feel it, regardless of your looks and your size.  For me, my desire to have my Dom be proud and to be desirable is a drving force.  I also know that my strength and stamina have kicked into overdrive, and I am curious about it excelerating in the bedroom.  Personally, I think its how you feel about yourself and how your Dom sees you.  Anorexic is not something anyone should strive for.  True beauty comes from within, and if it is exerted outward, it will shine regardless of your wieght, hieghth, or anything else that makes you feel less than desirable.  It is a personal choice.....


  You definitely sound like you're on the right track, devotion4u.  The only part I disagree with... is when people stipulate their motivation factor as being someone else -  The power rests in you ;  it's all about you , and will remain that way forever .


JMHO


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RE: Do you think that staying in shape makes better sce... - 10/17/2006 3:06:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I'm going to have to disagree with everyone here.  It's MUCH sexier when you start wheezing after 90 seconds of strenuous activity and your partner is worried you're about to have an infarction.  Oh, and when the pudge hangs down over your crotch so it interferes with your erection--that makes for one hell of a blowjob, let me tell ya.  "No, honey, that's my bellybutton, not my frenulum."


I was at a Munch one time and there was this guy there who was so obese that the fat from his lower abdomen (not his stomach) was hanging between his legs when he sat down which was most of the time.
Triple "EWWWWWWWWWWW"
That's why I don't like going to "Munches", too many obese people at them. And sooooooooo much food!
I'd like to go to a get together that doesn't revolve around food.
Like just have dinner before you go or something then drinks only or something like that.
Hey, how about Munches for non-obese people only?
We're in the minority these days anyway.
Walking and bicycling is great excercise!
Nothing like a 5 mile walk along the beach!
Staying in shape makes everything better!


< Message edited by popeye1250 -- 10/17/2006 3:16:08 PM >

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