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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 7:57:14 AM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

There are plenty of men with no money and no power.  In the United States,
there are plenty of women with more power and money than most men.
 



Got some stats for me there, fella?

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 7:58:08 AM   
gypsylee


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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessBych

He seems to know alot about abused & mistreated women... perhaps he saw quite a bit of this a child in his home? Maybe it is YOU  that is damaged goods.. You obviously have a serious perception problem. I cannot imagine you having much luck or success in this world with these types of generalizations coming out of your mouth. Let me guess..you also think that all southerners are stupid and sleep with their sister and all black people are "ghetto"? and all hispanics are Mexicans? LOL It sounds like some exposure & culture would do you good..


nah, he's just a nerd. he says so in his profile. i liked that bit.

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** Fyi...insults have been thrown at pro dommes forever by men who cannot afford to visit one and think this is a GREAT way to get free humiliation to get their little rocks off.. hate to tell ya..all these women saw right through it..its been done a MILLION times on this board***


yeah. it's just the silly little subs like myself who fall for it ;)

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:07:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessBych

He seems to know alot about abused & mistreated women... perhaps he saw quite a bit of this a child in his home? Maybe it is YOU  that is damaged goods.. You obviously have a serious perception problem. I cannot imagine you having much luck or success in this world with these types of generalizations coming out of your mouth. Let me guess..you also think that all southerners are stupid and sleep with their sister and all black people are "ghetto"? and all hispanics are Mexicans? LOL It sounds like some exposure & culture would do you good..

btw...Ive been loved & Ive been rich..If I had a choice now Id choose rich everytime LOL...because you can always find love when you're rich. (go ahead and attack that..it was a bit of sarcasm.)
** Fyi...insults have been thrown at pro dommes forever by men who cannot afford to visit one and think this is a GREAT way to get free humiliation to get their little rocks off.. hate to tell ya..all these women saw right through it..its been done a MILLION times on this board***

 
You have my prayers.  My parents worshipped each other.  I never said anyone was "damaged goods."  I never used the term "damaged goods" at all.  Methinks you have a guilty conscience.  Do people often call ***YOU***  "damaged goods"?
 
> You obviously have a serious perception problem.
 
Perhaps.  Perhaps, you have the serious perception problem.  Of course, that can't be.  What was I thinking?
 
> I cannot imagine you having much luck or success in this world with these types of generalizations coming out of your mouth.
 
People with limited imagination often can't imagine the truth.
 
> Let me guess..you also think that all southerners are stupid and sleep with their sister
 
Guess again.
 
> all black people are "ghetto"? and all hispanics are Mexicans?
 
Don't quit your day job, you are not a very good guesser.
 
> btw...Ive been loved & Ive been rich..If I had a choice now Id
> choose rich everytime LOL...because you can always find
> love when you're rich
 
If you say so.
 
>  LOL It sounds like some exposure & culture would do you good.
 
Sounds like I hit a raw nerve.
 
> Fyi...insults have been thrown at pro dommes forever by men who
> cannot afford to visit one
 
I have not insulted Pro Dommes. 
 
> this is a GREAT way to get free humiliation to get their little rocks off.
 
I just feel sorry for most Pro Dommes.   You have my pity.    I really do
feel sadness and sorrow for you.
 








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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:11:04 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		oooooo i can add something to the hilarity here!  I was actually reading about something similiar the other day and god knows what it was or how i got there! 

But i just found something similiar

quote:

Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that a consistent number of chemicals are present in the brain when people testify to feeling love. These chemicals include; Testosterone, Oestrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin. More specifically, higher levels of Testosterone and Oestrogen are present during the lustful phase of a relationship. Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and Seretonin are more commonly found during the attraction phase of a relationship. Oxytocin, and Vasopressin seemed to be more closely linked to long term bonding and relationships characterized by strong attachments.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love

Here's another good site similiar to what i was reading the other day

http://www.cyberparent.com/love/love-being-in-love-1.htm

quote:

But scientists tell us love is all in our mind or brain. And fueled by chemicals and chemistry.


quote:

Only about three percent of mammals are monogamous, mating and bonding with one partner for life. Unfortunately, scientists tell us humans are not one of these naturally monogamous mammals. Maybe a few injections of vasopressin would help us. It has been called the monogamy chemical.

quote:

The chemical oxytocin has been termed the cuddling chemical. Linked to milk production in women, oxytocin makes women and men calmer and more sensitive to the feelings of others.The longer two people have been married, the more likely it is that they'll stay married. In part, they become addicted to the endorphins and marital serenity.

here's some back up reference..... (as my first two sites where what was easily found)

http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1175/is_5_37/ai_n6332395

heres a good science site you can go search it out on if you want

http://www.sciencemag.org/index.dtl

cos i'm tired of looking and if yall want to prove or disprove i'm sure its not hard





< Message edited by RiotGirl -- 10/17/2006 8:13:03 AM >

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:11:37 AM   
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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:12:51 AM   
sublizzie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip
 
I have not insulted Pro Dommes. 



I think you need to realize that if someone says you've insulted them, you have. That's when you say, "I'm sorry. I didn't mean to insult you. How can I ensure that I do not make the same mistake again?"

Also, I am curious why you always make sure your posts are in bolded, large print? It tends to remind me of when I used to cyber when the "Doms" would have to make sure that what they said was bigger and "better" than the print I used.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:12:59 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Hmmmm. So if your perception is at variance with everyone else, then its them that have the perception problem?

You havent insulted pro-dommes? Well, to be honest youre probably right with this. I think you'll find theyre more bored than insulted by daft and arrogant posts like the ones youre posting.

But then, I have a perception problem, obviously.

E

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:13:30 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		What personal proof do you have the Pro Dommes aren't happy? Have you been one? Sex isn't always a part of the session. Most prostitutes are prostitutes because of drug addictions they have to feed. Pretty sure that isn't the case for Pro Dommes. I think most men are threatened by a woman in authority and power and this is where the insults come into play.

< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 10/17/2006 8:20:30 AM >

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:15:38 AM   
Kalira


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

quote:

ORIGINAL: ThePrincessBych

He seems to know alot about abused & mistreated women... perhaps he saw quite a bit of this a child in his home? Maybe it is YOU  that is damaged goods.. You obviously have a serious perception problem. I cannot imagine you having much luck or success in this world with these types of generalizations coming out of your mouth. Let me guess..you also think that all southerners are stupid and sleep with their sister and all black people are "ghetto"? and all hispanics are Mexicans? LOL It sounds like some exposure & culture would do you good..

btw...Ive been loved & Ive been rich..If I had a choice now Id choose rich everytime LOL...because you can always find love when you're rich. (go ahead and attack that..it was a bit of sarcasm.)
** Fyi...insults have been thrown at pro dommes forever by men who cannot afford to visit one and think this is a GREAT way to get free humiliation to get their little rocks off.. hate to tell ya..all these women saw right through it..its been done a MILLION times on this board***

 
You have my prayers.  My parents worshipped each other.  I never said anyone was "damaged goods."  I never used the term "damaged goods" at all.  Methinks you have a guilty conscience.  Do people often call ***YOU***  "damaged goods"?
 
> You obviously have a serious perception problem.
 
Perhaps.  Perhaps, you have the serious perception problem.  Of course, that can't be.  What was I thinking?
 
> I cannot imagine you having much luck or success in this world with these types of generalizations coming out of your mouth.
 
People with limited imagination often can't imagine the truth.
 
> Let me guess..you also think that all southerners are stupid and sleep with their sister
 
Guess again.
 
> all black people are "ghetto"? and all hispanics are Mexicans?
 
Don't quit your day job, you are not a very good guesser.
 
> btw...Ive been loved & Ive been rich..If I had a choice now Id
> choose rich everytime LOL...because you can always find
> love when you're rich
 
If you say so.
 
>  LOL It sounds like some exposure & culture would do you good.
 
Sounds like I hit a raw nerve.
 
> Fyi...insults have been thrown at pro dommes forever by men who
> cannot afford to visit one
 
I have not insulted Pro Dommes. 
 
> this is a GREAT way to get free humiliation to get their little rocks off.
 
I just feel sorry for most Pro Dommes.   You have my pity.    I really do
feel sadness and sorrow for you.
 








Ohh someone is becoming quite defensive here.

BTW, still waiting for some links or stats to back up your generalizations here

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:16:34 AM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		1. You are such a twit!
2. Pro dommes ARE prostitutes...they both provide a sexual service in exchange for money.
3. You don't know a fucking thing about pro dommes or prostitutes
4. The exception does NOT prove the rule in the sense of showing the rule is correct idiot! The term uses the word prove in the sense of "to test", so what it means is the exception tests the rule. And in this case the exception tests and disproves your rule.


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:18:53 AM   
Iskander


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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip
I just feel sorry for most Pro Dommes.   You have my pity.    I really do
feel sadness and sorrow for you.


And if they don't want your pity, does that make it non-consentual bdsm?

I think you should get off your high horse, you're not the messiah, you're a very very naughty boy...

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:19:32 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		damnit Kalira - i POSTED links and stats

course it was on what iskander was saying about the chemicals of love

but <snif sniff> i posted some!

Which i say its a 900% truth that the chemicals of love is much more interesting then the guy who looks like a young travolta in a very bad pic.  You know i always wondered if that was like "stolen"


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:20:16 AM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

I have not insulted Pro Dommes. 

Oh really?

"They all just cared about money, and nothing else, unless they had a drug or alcohol addiction.  They all had selfish, miserable personalities"
 
"They are just women looking to make a fast buck from men's sexual needs."

That's from just one of your brilliant posts.  You appear to know as much about pros (and women in general I suspect) as a salamander knows about differential equations.

~stef

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:21:57 AM   
gypsylee


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ORIGINAL: Kalira

Ohh someone is becoming quite defensive here.


well yeah but no matter what Whip said, i reckon it's below the belt to bring up someone's childhood. i know he made assumptions about the backgrounds of pro dommes and pro's in general, but that's a bit different to directing it at a particular person. and two wrongs don't make a right.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:22:00 AM   
Kalira


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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

damnit Kalira - i POSTED links and stats

course it was on what iskander was saying about the chemicals of love

but <snif sniff> i posted some!

Which i say its a 900% truth that the chemicals of love is much more interesting then the guy who looks like a young travolta in a very bad pic.  You know i always wondered if that was like "stolen"


/pats Riot on the back and hands her a tissue

I know, and YOUR links were most appreciated.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:22:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

What personal proof do you have the Pro Dommes aren't happy. Have you been one? Sex isn't always a part of the session. Most prostitutes are prostitutes because of drug addictions they have to feed. Pretty sure that isn't the case for Pro Dommes. I think most men are threatened by a woman in authority and power and this is where the insults come into play.


I'm sorry but this isn't true.

The sex industry is just that “sex industry” regardless if you are a dominatrix or call girl. Is it all a form of prostitution? Sure it is, however most prodoms won’t appreciate being called one.
 
I personally find nothing wrong with prostitution and the sex industry. I have plenty of friends in both. FYI although there are some hookers and even prodoms who do it to feed a drug habit, MOST are professionals and this is a job like any other. I know call girls who make roughly 5-8k per month who have investments, raise families and all sorts of things. It’s their choice of profession.
 


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:23:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Stef - can you post some evidential links please, that salamanders know nothing about differential equations? Thats a way OTT generalisation youre making!
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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:24:51 AM   
Kalira


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quote:

That's from just one of your brilliant posts.  You appear to know as much about pros (and women in general I suspect) as a salamander knows about differential equations.

~stef

LMFAO

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:26:00 AM   
DiannaVesta


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Status: offline 		Oh yeah... I'm not unhappy. Look at my pictures and you’ll almost always see me smiling. I love my life and what I do. Who wouldn’t love slave at your beck and call buying you gifts, literally throwing money at you and still cleaning your house?
 
Call me what you want but don’t call this Goddess unhappy! lol


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:26:57 AM   
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Looks like the "mods" are going to run out of ink for thier "pending approval" stamps.

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