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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:27:20 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		i'm a salamander cos i've no clue about differential equations.  Must be math related!

What i WANT to know is why you all are getting so up in arms about this?  Has ONE person's opionon really created that much issue?  I cant even keep up to posts in this one.  gooood looooooord. 

i hate to say it - but its all twicehappy's fault cos she mentioned the truth thing today....

but you all are creating the drama - and me thinks you all enjoy it.  If the post was ignored.. who'd be getting upset?  Would we have 3 pages?  nooooooooooo  So in my perspective you all need Mr wanna bee john travolta cos what would you be able to get so up in arms about?  hmmmm  Obviously!

AND - i think you should all be contemplating the chemicals of love and not the retardation of whether pro domm's are prostitutes or what this thread is becomeing about. 

the chemical's of love is so much more interesting.  I have a MISSION for you all!  Instead of flaming and going back and forth, go research the chemicals. 

and i have 4 minutes to leave for my biology class!  Who wants to tutor me???

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:29:35 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: gypsylee

Michael... methinks you just wanna attract the wrath of the pro Dommes (or just fems in general) cos you can't afford it atm.


That's what I was thinking because the guys who complain the most are always broke and expecting someone to give them the world in return for nothing.

Love makes the world go around??? well yes it does but I like presents too!

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:32:25 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

What personal proof do you have the Pro Dommes aren't happy. Have you been one? Sex isn't always a part of the session. Most prostitutes are prostitutes because of drug addictions they have to feed. Pretty sure that isn't the case for Pro Dommes. I think most men are threatened by a woman in authority and power and this is where the insults come into play.


I'm sorry but this isn't true.

The sex industry is just that “sex industry” regardless if you are a dominatrix or call girl. Is it all a form of prostitution? Sure it is, however most prodoms won’t appreciate being called one.
 
I personally find nothing wrong with prostitution and the sex industry. I have plenty of friends in both. FYI although there are some hookers and even prodoms who do it to feed a drug habit, MOST are professionals and this is a job like any other. I know call girls who make roughly 5-8k per month who have investments, raise families and all sorts of things. It’s their choice of profession.
 




I am pretty sure I didn't say all of them. I didn't generalize them all as you said.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:33:52 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		It is always the same ones creating drama. Maybe they cant get through the day without a crisis. I am moving on. This is getting ridiculous.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:38:04 AM   
Couple4you77


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Status: offline 		"I would get more sexual satisfaction out of fixing her car or her plumbing than
have her do something for me sexual primarily for money.  That is insulting to
me, and is insulting to her. "

Oh boy!    Can I have him??  Please?? My car needs a few things taken care of, and ....who can' t use a good  plumber these days???
Honestly, this spouting of judgemental crap is really a turnoff.  Men have needs, Women have needs, We all have needs.  My needs aren't her needs, your needs aren't the same as his.  Can't we all just get along without trying to psychoanalize each others needs???? If making judgements about other people is what you are all about, sweetie, that isn't gonna get you very far.  Find what makes YOU tick, then follow it.  Life is too short to be concerned about being "holier than thou", plus- no one really gives a flying hoot anyhow other than a cursory rolling of the eyes......

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:45:03 AM   
Mistrix


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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip
I just feel sorry for most Pro Dommes.   You have my pity.    I really do
feel sadness and sorrow for you.


And if they don't want your pity, does that make it non-consentual bdsm?

I think you should get off your high horse, you're not the messiah, you're a very very naughty boy...

Iskander...




And I like naughty naughy boys.  he so deserves it, what do you think girls?  Any PRO Dommes wanna do him PRO BONO???


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:46:46 AM   
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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 8:49:46 AM   
LadyEllen


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 9:15:54 AM   
michaelGA2


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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

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ORIGINAL: gypsylee

Michael... methinks you just wanna attract the wrath of the pro Dommes (or just fems in general) cos you can't afford it atm.


That's what I was thinking because the guys who complain the most are always broke and expecting someone to give them the world in return for nothing.

Love makes the world go around??? well yes it does but I like presents too!


even if i could afford one, i wouldn't waste my money...i prefer someone that wants a sub for who they are, not what's in their wallets.


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 9:29:35 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

quote:

ORIGINAL: gypsylee

Michael... methinks you just wanna attract the wrath of the pro Dommes (or just fems in general) cos you can't afford it atm.


That's what I was thinking because the guys who complain the most are always broke and expecting someone to give them the world in return for nothing.

Love makes the world go around??? well yes it does but I like presents too!


even if i could afford one, i wouldn't waste my money...i prefer someone that wants a sub for who they are, not what's in their wallets.



Michael we are all well aware of your views on this. Its not JUST about this.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 9:35:01 AM   
gypsylee


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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

even if i could afford one, i wouldn't waste my money...i prefer someone that wants a sub for who they are, not what's in their wallets.


yeah okay, but we're talking about pro's. they provide a service. then they walk away. and lotsa guys (and girls) actually pay for them to walk away.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 9:39:47 AM   
michaelGA2


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 10:04:40 AM   
sublizzie


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Has anyone even realized that WTH hasn't said anything here in pages?

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 10:22:20 AM   
LadyEllen


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ORIGINAL: sublizzie

~fast reply~

Has anyone even realized that WTH hasn't said anything here in pages?


I expect he finished (what he had to say of course) before we got this far

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 10:36:37 AM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

Why don't most prostitutes and Pro-Dommes want to be in a loving relationship?

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 10:39:38 AM   
Iskander


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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 10:54:44 AM   
stef


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Stef - can you post some evidential links please, that salamanders know nothing about differential equations? Thats a way OTT generalisation youre making!

It would be if that's what I said.  I was very careful in my wording so as not to run afoul of the ASLU (American Salamander Liberties Union.)

~stef

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 10:57:11 AM   
LadyEllen


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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Stef - can you post some evidential links please, that salamanders know nothing about differential equations? Thats a way OTT generalisation youre making!

It would be if that's what I said.  I was very careful in my wording so as not to run afoul of the ASLU (American Salamander Liberties Union.)

~stef


Yeah? well tough! I'm gonna rant and rave for a few pages now about what I perceived you meant from my poor comprehension of what you actually wrote! OK!?

I think thats how it works, anyway

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 11:53:27 AM   
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Most masochists get pleasure by giving pleasure.  


No, most masochists get pleasure by having pain inflicted upon various body parts. Whether the inflictor providing pain is having a good time or not is irrelevant. (If they are, bully for them, but it's hardly a requirement for a masochist to be having fun!) I think you are confusing a masochist with someone else who endures for the sake of another and their pleasure. That's two different sets of folks though.

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RE: Pro-Dommes, Prostitution, and sexual burnout. - 10/17/2006 12:01:11 PM   
MistressTexas


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Status: offline 		Ahh yes... I'm so miserable, I'm so unloved and unwilling to love, with no close friends and no enjoyment for my work....  Oh wait... hmmm noooo.. I love what I do. Pro Dommes do provide a service, and (making a huge generalisation here) I'm willing to bet almost every Pro has run into a sub that, for whatever reason, no "non Pro" would touch. Maybe they top from the bottom, maybe they're just a little bit out to lunch, maybe whatever. Regardless of the reason, if these men are seeing Pro Dommes, they aren't hassiling and annoying the living hell out of the non Pro's. I'll say it again. I love what I do. There aren't many jobs a 20 yr old can have that A: allow me to release stress B: learn a singularly unique skill set C: pay my own university tuition, and D: not have to fuck around with a 20-40 hour a week job just to scrape by with my bills. Even though I love and enjoy what I do, you're right about "prostitution" in the sense that I wouldn't play with some of these subs if I weren't being paid. But guess what, they're seeing me because no one else will either. Whip I won't stoop so low as to attack you personally, as you have attacked my profession generally. What I will say though, is you need to get over whatever the mean old unexperienced Pro did to you, and understand that there are good Pro's who provide a good service.

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