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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:03:45 PM   
Lordandmaster


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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:07:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

As usual, the OP is nowhere to be seen.  All that's left are the Collarme veterans tearing each other apart.


Actually, I think we are all in agreement . (well, almost all)

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:09:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

SS does not mention what the exact cause of her begging release was.  You seem to be assuming that the Dom did or did not do something that he should have.  I think that this is a huge leap to make without having specific details. 


Dang...you beat me to that thought!  We must have been posting at the same time 
 
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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:13:26 PM   
texancutie


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Status: offline 		Oy vey.  Oh to be 18 again like the OP....sigh.  Can't see how getting another year older at that age would upset me...lol.   Glad to see some here do not make assumptions, when there are so many unknown factors.

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:16:41 PM   
adaddysgirl


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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Great minds, you know? 


Well i'd like to think so! 
 
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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:20:08 PM   
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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:21:22 PM   
adaddysgirl


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

As usual, the OP is nowhere to be seen.  All that's left are the Collarme veterans tearing each other apart.


Hey!  Not tearing!  We're just discussing! 
 
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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:31:16 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		I am going to leave all further discussion of this fascinating topic to you lovely women.  I am exhausted and I am going to suffer terribly soon when I need to get up for work. 

Night, all! 

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:31:56 PM   
adaddysgirl


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I agree that would be a little extreme and it is possible that turning a year older might have made her feel unworthy of him. I do have a tendency to stick up for slaves more often than not. Alot of the masters I've talked to don't think a slave's hard work and devotion are worthy of appreciation and treat them worse than dogs no matter how hard they try to please. I guess I just have a soft spot when it comes to birthdays because my old bondage partner forgot mine. Sorry for my bias.


Hey, stuff happens.  i know i've brought past issues into some of my responses before.  Maybe we've all learned a little something here today. 
 
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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:35:06 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

She says in her post that she felt depressed and insecure.  Why would she feel insecure if it had nothing to do with her Dom? Are you saying she could have felt insecure about something totally irrevelant to her relationship and said what she did for no reason? That doesn't even make sense. While it's possible that she might have unfounded trust issues, a birthday is an unlikely day for such an issue to come up unless ...


... unless she happens to recall that it is in fact always someone's birthday when those Hindu guys with the H1b visas sneak across the Rio Grande hidden in a boatload of 10,000 African immigrants!

Uh hunh.

And how is she gonna fulfill her subbily duties when she can't afford baubles and smokes for her dom 'cause the minute she blows out the candles her IT job is gonna be gone like the Mayflower out of Plymouth?

And plus all those nurses are getting laid off so who wouldn't be nervous?.

Isn't that true, mistoferin?




Ze case is SOL-ved.


< Message edited by Noah -- 10/22/2006 11:36:47 PM >

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:38:28 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I dont know what Noah is smoking, but can I have some too?

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/22/2006 11:41:57 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 2:06:44 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		First of all, i stopped having birthdays so that solves that problem!  Second, life is a series of lessons and we are doomed to repeat them until they are learned. 

Third, try walking backward for a while....a whole lot easier to trip and fall and we'll eventually bump into something that is behind us.  Try walking sideways, crab-like (stepping around our issues)  and frankly it's tiring as well as it looks rediculous.  We were designed to walk forward, so in my opinion that is the direction we should go.  

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 2:24:48 AM   
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Why would she feel insecure if it had nothing to do with her Dom?


Because some people are insecure regardless of relationship circumstances.  She may have brought a huge insecurity issue into her relationship, and guess what -- her Dom may be tired of dealing with it and tired of helping her with it.  We can make all sorts of assumptions about this.  None of it matters, she should've realized what could happen when she set this in motion.  She asked for release and now she's upset because she's getting it.


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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 3:30:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		You made a decision. It might look wrong after the fact because you are now looking at the consequences. There are probably a wide range of pros and cons to what you decided to ask for.You are young and no one can know if it is the best thing to do .However, as you said you are depressed (unhappy?). Take time and look at your situation and yourself   and think,is this what you want. 

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 3:34:47 AM   
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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 3:56:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

The lesson here is:  be careful what you ask for.




 Yes, someone *not so far away from me* says that..... adding *because you may JUST get it*...lol

I've done the very same thing that the OP has and spent a VERY unhappy few days, a long time ago.  The cost of having a collar re-enstated in this relationship is incredibly high and not something I'd want to repeat. Having said that, I doubt that my reasons for taking mine off were weighty enough at all. Having a rather sensible, pragmatic Master, he'd expect to have my wishes confirmed over a matter of days, not just a statement in a fit of pique or depression. Even so, the cost of *taking back* my statement would be the same. It tends to make me think twice about about making rash statements.

The OP is only 18,...Lord, at that age I was a loose cannon in that regard. It's all very well at 49, with a touch more self control ( ok Master, I know you're going to laugh at that comment.....lol).

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 11:30:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

Most people who attempt suicide do it as a cry for attention, she did the same thing by begging for release.

Both of them are better off without each other.


i mean no disrespect but if i was so desperate for attention i would have asked for it, and stomping my foot and rejecting His collar would not be my way of dealing with Him saying no if that was the case.i don't know what the F**k happened i should have been so happy to see Him it would have been my first time seeing him in two months and then suddenly i got scared and uncomfortable about the idea of spending the weekend with him and i just flipped, and although i forget sometimes that He has an emtional attachment to me like i have for Him and i realise that i have completely broken his trust not to mention reject Him in such a horrible way and i dont know what to do, he has been so supportive to me since then also he just wont discuss our future for now...  

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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 12:16:58 PM   
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also he just wont discuss our future for now...


That is understandable.  He doesn't know what you want.  How can you expect him to be eager to enter into a discussion with someone who rejected him?


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RE: stupid girl! - 10/23/2006 12:18:20 PM   
MissAzzeee


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Status: offline 		I'd have to agree..... Be carefull what you wish for as wishes do, at times, come true.

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