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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 6:37:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

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There I am, shopping, cleaning, paying bills, rescuing cats from trees, freeing the world from Aliens, defeating Al Qaeda, working to bring about world peace (whirled peas), etc., while she is locked in a cage to masturbate all day and watch Jerry Springer.

Who is really the Dominant in this picture?

Sinergy


well yanow...

if YOU were the one putting her in the cage and deciding when she could come out.. you would still be the dominant...

you might also be the dominant of a whole harem of willing females at that <wink>

think about it LOL


That is why I am making him an army of Zombie Sex Slaves, so he can have help when he slays the bad guys, who needs a harem when you can have a Zombie Sex Slave Army(ZSSA). Life to to busy in the volcano lair for slackers in cages!

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 7:06:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

There I am, shopping, cleaning, paying bills, rescuing cats from trees, freeing the world from Aliens, defeating Al Qaeda, working to bring about world peace (whirled peas), etc., while she is locked in a cage to masturbate all day and watch Jerry Springer.

Who is really the Dominant in this picture?

Sinergy


well yanow...

if YOU were the one putting her in the cage and deciding when she could come out.. you would still be the dominant...

you might also be the dominant of a whole harem of willing females at that <wink>

think about it LOL


That is why I am making him an army of Zombie Sex Slaves, so he can have help when he slays the bad guys, who needs a harem when you can have a Zombie Sex Slave Army(ZSSA). Life to to busy in the volcano lair for slackers in cages!

LMFAO Julia

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 9:39:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well I already live the lifestyle 24-7 so what's another 2 days of being served by my slave!! But okay I'll take 2 more. ;)

Let's see, 1st when I get up I usually have breakfast in bed. And I like it on time!!

And then my bath has to be ready by the time I'm done eating breakie.

Once my slave's finished bathing me, he has to make my bed and have my clothes for the day all nicely laid out on the bed.

After he dresses me I usually need a chair while I check my emails and train my online slaves.

(Hey stop moving, I'm trying to type here!!)

There's the usual day of training slaves, meeting new ones, reading fan mail, reviewing slave applications from potential slaves, filming fetish movies, and visiting with other Mistresses. Sometimes we go shopping together or out to lunch.

My slave either drives us around town or he stays home to prepare our dinner. If we don't like the dinner he sometimes gets a beating from me or from all of us.

One time he had to go to bed on the floor with an empty tummy.

Until tomorrow...

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 9:46:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

There I am, shopping, cleaning, paying bills, rescuing cats from trees, freeing the world from Aliens, defeating Al Qaeda, working to bring about world peace (whirled peas), etc., while she is locked in a cage to masturbate all day and watch Jerry Springer.

Who is really the Dominant in this picture?

Sinergy


well yanow...

if YOU were the one putting her in the cage and deciding when she could come out.. you would still be the dominant...

you might also be the dominant of a whole harem of willing females at that <wink>

think about it LOL


That is why I am making him an army of Zombie Sex Slaves, so he can have help when he slays the bad guys, who needs a harem when you can have a Zombie Sex Slave Army(ZSSA). Life to to busy in the volcano lair for slackers in cages!


Are you making sure they have kung-fu action grip?

Sinergy

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 9:50:56 PM   
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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 10:14:07 PM   
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Are you making sure they have kung-fu action grip?

Sinergy


But of course Daddy, and the option of silver jumpsuits and glitter makeup, or cheerleader with pom poms.

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 10:33:14 PM   
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Sorry, if I got two days off I want it to be in a hotel with room service. Someone else gets to do the cleaning, cook, change light bulbs etc. Being at home means I'm reminded of undone errands.

Play lots. Catch up on missing sleep. Hug and kiss with no phones ringing or other interruptions.


We have done this Celeste,  however I am actually looking forward to spending it at home.  With that in mind the house will be taken care of before the start of the weekend.  I do think a  blindfold for the weekend as suggested by gypsygrl could be a bonus though, then I would not see the undone things around the house and my mind could focus even more so on whatever He has me doing.

I will pass on this suggestion to the Domly Dude

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 10:40:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee

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if you knew you had 2 days to spend escaping from that reality how would you envision your 2 days/nights.

I would envision them to be no differently. The two days would be spent doing exactly what I do normally.
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  Master and I rarely have uninterrupted time alone in the house.  To achieve that more often than not we need to go away to be 100% overtly who we are to each other. 

What a terrible shame that you have to hide your true selves on a normal daily basis.


Perhaps you misunderstood Tikkiee,  when I suggested being 100% I also said overtly.  This is the significant portion of my statement.  As I further explained to expand on who we are through the perhaps romatisized or fantasy version many think a M/s relationship is 24/7.

We are M/s 24/7 however with a normal hectic full life I am unable to focus 100% of me on him 100% of the time.  I am not able to greet him kneeling naked at the door in one of a thousand slave positions. (unlikely that this will happen anyway~well the slave position part anyway).

I suppose I view this as not unlike a vacation where I do not do what I do on a daily basis either.  If I were to do the same thing everyday for years and years that would feel more like a prision sentence.  I love variety, I love anticipation, I love the unknown.

But then thats just me, perhaps it is not you.

Thanks for your comments

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 10:42:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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I suggested to Master he may want to chain me to the bed for a length of time and leave me alone to ponder my behaviour up to this weekend.  Dang it though he saw right through me and said there is no way you are sleeping all day saturday.

Dominants what can you do with them?!?!?

<smiles>

Owned


This is why I am generally opposed to 24x7 caging.

There I am, shopping, cleaning, paying bills, rescuing cats from trees, freeing the world from Aliens, defeating Al Qaeda, working to bring about world peace (whirled peas), etc., while she is locked in a cage to masturbate all day and watch Jerry Springer.

Who is really the Dominant in this picture?

Sinergy


Yanno Sinergy I had not thought about the cage,  that is something I will offer as a suggestion to Master as well.  I will just need to offer it better than I did the chain me to the bed suggestion.  Thanks I will let him know another Master has offered that suggestion I am sure it will hold much more weight.....

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RE: What if? - 11/1/2006 10:44:54 PM   
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I would light candles in a pathway to the hot tub, be waiting there in his favorite outfit with a silver bow tied around me and two glasses of wine in my hands, towels would be warming in the warmer and the rest would be up to him. 

Knowing him, it would be a wild 2 days.

dawn


deltadawn ( I love that name btw)  this sounds like it would be wonderful beginning to a wild couple of days.  Of course the entire weekend is up to him and the anticipation is almost as good as the weekend. 

One needs to enjoy not just the destination but the journey

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RE: What if? - 11/2/2006 1:02:49 AM   
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i think we'd be asking ourselves over and over..."gee, i wonder why the kids aren't knocking on the door"

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RE: What if? - 11/2/2006 4:03:57 AM   
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As we are M/s 24/7 however one does not kneel naked at the feet of thier owner with kids in the house. 

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  We are M/s 24/7 however with a normal hectic full life I am unable to focus 100% of me on him 100% of the time.  I am not able to greet him kneeling naked at the door in one of a thousand slave positions

Hmm, you seem to have this fixed idea that the rest of us live this fantasy life of being naked 24/7. That's twice now that you have made reference to it.

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RE: What if? - 11/2/2006 4:32:51 AM   
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RE: What if? - 11/2/2006 12:00:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kalira

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As we are M/s 24/7 however one does not kneel naked at the feet of thier owner with kids in the house. 

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  We are M/s 24/7 however with a normal hectic full life I am unable to focus 100% of me on him 100% of the time.  I am not able to greet him kneeling naked at the door in one of a thousand slave positions

Hmm, you seem to have this fixed idea that the rest of us live this fantasy life of being naked 24/7. That's twice now that you have made reference to it.


I have made reference to that ideal twice as some do not seem to be understanding the intent of my post.  It is the most far fetched out of reality example I can give.

I do not believe anyone truly lives the fantasy, there are some I am sure that live that fantasy in thier minds, or perhaps think that the fantasy is real. 

kalira, if you are looking for an argument I would suggest you perhaps look at another post, I am not looking to argue the lifestyle, how you or anyone else lives it.  I was simply offering up a topic for discussion for those who have a M/s relationship (or any other version of the power exchange) and what they would love to do if they could have 2 days of uninterrupted time entirely focused on each other.

Seems rather simple to me, not to you?

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RE: What if? - 11/2/2006 12:02:00 PM   
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Last July we stayed in a cabin in the Smokies. It was just us, a hot tub, a very nice back porch for being tied to and flogged, and some good wine. I would soooooo love to do that again.


That sounds lovely,  we have a summer place but it is not as private as a cabin in the Smokies,  I suppose it would be private in perhaps December or January, however in Ontario it would not be SSC play to be played with outside at that time...

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RE: What if? - 11/2/2006 12:06:12 PM   
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two days uninterupted?

i think we'd be asking ourselves over and over..."gee, i wonder why the kids aren't knocking on the door"


I know exactly what you are saying,  yanno you would think as they get older they would understand a closed door,  nope not happening.  LOL Even if Master and I are simply talking~and I mean talking in the bedroom they are there, "whatcha doing~whats happening". 

Its almost like being a teenager and sneaking around except you are hiding from your kids not your parents or other adults.

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RE: What if? - 11/3/2006 1:49:10 AM   
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i would love to paint my dollhouses and wallpaper each one that would be my two days of fun now you are speaking to dommes too right?
 
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RE: What if? - 11/3/2006 1:53:55 AM   
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I have made reference to that ideal twice as some do not seem to be understanding the intent of my post.  It is the most far fetched out of reality example I can give.

I do not believe anyone truly lives the fantasy, there are some I am sure that live that fantasy in thier minds, or perhaps think that the fantasy is real. 

kalira, if you are looking for an argument I would suggest you perhaps look at another post, I am not looking to argue the lifestyle, how you or anyone else lives it.  I was simply offering up a topic for discussion for those who have a M/s relationship (or any other version of the power exchange) and what they would love to do if they could have 2 days of uninterrupted time entirely focused on each other.

Seems rather simple to me, not to you?

Owned

No, not looking for an argument. For those of us who responded that we did not need to take 'uninterrupted' time, you seemed to come across as superior in your attitude that 'you' don't live a slave's fantasy. Perhaps I read more into your words than what you intended, and if I did, then I apologize.

I don't live a perfect life; I have bills that have to be paid; I have a teenager who has just entered into the difficult stages ; I have my bad days, I have my good days. And yet, if given 2 days to do exactly what I WANTED, I still would not do anything different than what I do on a daily basis now. I enjoy what I have been blessed with; a happy healthy family; with the bonus of a Master who accepts and understands my needs and limitations. What time I am able to spend with him is perfect for me; there is nothing that we do when we are together that can be done in an extra 2 days.

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RE: What if? - 11/3/2006 7:08:28 AM   
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Or they set up that you have your "vanilla life" and your "kink life."

I think if people learned how to simply integrate things and realize it's all just a flowing dynamic which is present at all times, they'd be able to relax more and not be so worried.

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RE: What if? - 11/3/2006 8:55:26 AM   
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I don't live a perfect life; I have bills that have to be paid; I have a teenager who has just entered into the difficult stages ; I have my bad days, I have my good days. And yet, if given 2 days to do exactly what I WANTED, I still would not do anything different than what I do on a daily basis now. I enjoy what I have been blessed with; a happy healthy family; with the bonus of a Master who accepts and understands my needs and limitations. What time I am able to spend with him is perfect for me; there is nothing that we do when we are together that can be done in an extra 2 days.



I understand this sentiment, and agree, when you are really satisfied in life that is they way you feel. Thanks for sharing that.

Since I do not live with my Daddy yet there are plenty of things I can think of to do for two days, but when I have been with him I am happy to lay in bed and watch Fight Club for the 100th time, wear his shirt with no bra or underwear, unless I am gettng the pizza at the door. Then there is all the spankings and objectifying sex I love so much. Im a simple woman, and the other things we like to do, such as going to the mountains, Disneyland, a day at the beach... our teenage unmentionables can join us... I just like staying in bed with him.

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