CreativeDominant
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ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline To LA and CD: I (personally) do not see a comparison in the association of "slashy speak" and someone who is "fat". Someone who is obese to the point of being moribund is not at all pleasant to look at for myself ; but, their obesity is not interfering with communicating with me, my ability to think about what they are saying, or affecting my life (as a letter or communiqué would that was either addressed to me or otherwise was important - in whatever amount)... Besides... whether my beliefs on this issue are affecting someone else negatively is not a concern to me - ...after all, there is always an option to "not" do "slashy speak"... (and, let's not say "well, the master ordered them to"... then he has to logically expect people to ignore (or, ridicule?<--I would not do this directly) that submissive for their follow through. ...and, someone who is "fat" may not be capable of losing weight (although there are options available) Besides - when "slashy speak" is labeled a "disease" by the AMA - I will make sure to poke fun directly at the people who labeled it so (and, more so at those who are using it) ~J There've been several argumentgs against the use of fat people in my argument (won't speak for LA...she can do so quite well herself) re: they do not act as an active annoyance with an intrusion into a person's activities in the way that someone posting on the forum or to you directly does. I concede that point to a certain extent, though I will say this: next time you are seated on an airplane and they sit someone morbidly obese in the seat next to you and their size is crowding in on your body, ask yourself if that is active annoyance or passive. Also...the American Medical Association has labeled many things a disease...alcoholism, obesity, homosexuality, an affinity for BDSM. I don't happen to agree with their broad sweep. Not every alcoholic has a genetic predisposition to it. I don't happen to think that all grossly overweight people got there due strictly to genetics. I don't think homosexuals are "sick". I don't think that those of us who like BDSM necessarily have something "wrong" with us mentally. Of course, it is the A.M.A. who once labelled chiropractic as "cultism" and accupuncturists as "quacks".
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