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BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/12/2006 11:18:29 PM)
If I had to categorize it, it would come under reward. I can intimidate a boy with my approach to the deed, but don't ever want it to be something used as punishment. Since the area (o strap on play) is too sensitive (IMO) for excessively rough play, I would want him to learn to enjoy it, and to let me know if what is supposed to be pleasurable becomes too uncomfortable/unbearable. M

canupleaseme -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 1:53:47 AM)
its something ive done twice and its been an experimental thiing and more a reward i wouldnt dream of doing it as punishment i find it covers reward and slight humiliation well enough thankyou lol but it is something im not very confident with yet and am still searching for the best one to use the feeldoes look quite good. I wouldnt want to do that to someone becasue they had been misbehaved .

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 12:05:05 PM)
I recommend the realistic ones as I think they are less likely to hurt the intestinal mucosa (and they feel more natural), and at least one boy in the experiment (only used it on him thus far) has been able to tolerate better... And don't forget plentiful/good lube. M

sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 3:11:32 PM)
The soft jelly ones are nice...but you have to use a condom with those. Silicone is the absolute best. The feel and weight is intense and sanitises competely. Some even come with alifetime warrantee.

empresschaos -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 4:38:11 PM)
The men who would consider it a reward deserve the strapon just as play, and the men who would consider it punishment do not deserve to be subjected to it. Just my opinion, of course. Many men have severely negative emotions surrounding that part of their body, and I, personally, would never want to f*ck with that until he was really, really ready.

undergroundsea -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 5:02:37 PM)
I came across an amusing observation elsewhere; strap-on spelled backwards is no parts ;-) Cheers, Sea

sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 5:51:59 PM)
lol!!!!!! Far from it. More like.....extra parts. [:D] [:D][:D]

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 8:32:08 PM)
In answer to the specific question: Neither. I don't like it. In answer to the broader question: the intent behind the act is often enough to make it punishment or reward, no matter what the act is. Master Fire

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 8:51:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve The soft jelly ones are nice...but you have to use a condom with those. Silicone is the absolute best. The feel and weight is intense and sanitises competely. Some even come with alifetime warrantee. I no longer buy Jelly anything because they have a reputation for disintegrating and becomin harmful over time. I do agree that silicone is the best healthwise (for ease of cleaning/longevity), and didn't know about the lifetime warranty, though it's good to hear about because those muthahs are becoming damn expensive. Even with silicone though, the harder ones like feeldoe, etc. are more difficult for a boy who's unaccustomed to strap on play to take, than the realistic feeling ones, in my opinion. The only downside to silicone ones for me, is the fact that you cannot use silicone based lubes. quote: undergroundsea I came across an amusing observation elsewhere; strap-on spelled backwards is no parts ;-) Makes perfect sense to me, in that once we go there, a boy knows that no parts of him are left to his control any longer. [;)] M

sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 8:53:53 PM)
Great points madame. Thatis why I said that jelly items should be used with a condom. Never had the joys of a feeldoe yet (and hopefully her joy). Imsure it must be intense for the female wearer.

FourInchHeels -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/13/2006 10:55:15 PM)
Neither. For hubby and I it's just normal play. I did use Icy Hot as lube with it for a punishment once, but it backfired on Me. he loved it! he still sometimes asks for it. [sm=rolleyes.gif]

demistress -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/14/2006 7:09:54 AM)
Well, because it was a punishment, the sub felt like he wasn't entitled to use his safeword (which he didn't tell me until after), and things went too far, and not only was he physically injured but he felt completely broken, which was NOT part of what we had in mind for him. quote: ORIGINAL: leatherzack quote: ORIGINAL: demistress was more emotionally damaging to the sub than I would ever have expected. Could You please explain ?

leatherzack -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/14/2006 9:06:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: demistress Well, because it was a punishment, the sub felt like he wasn't entitled to use his safeword He did not wanted to use it or was not allowed to use it ? i hope that things went well afterwards. Another proof that shows how important communication is in BDSM.

demistress -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/14/2006 9:11:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leatherzack quote: ORIGINAL: demistress Well, because it was a punishment, the sub felt like he wasn't entitled to use his safeword He did not wanted to use it or was not allowed to use it ? i hope that things went well afterwards. Another proof that shows how important communication is in BDSM. He refused to use it within his head because he was being punished and "deserved" what he got. He was fairly new to me, so I did not know his body's signals yet, thus I rely on safewords. I was extremely mad at him for not using his safeword when he 'should' have and after that day we have had no further communication because I do not trust him to be honest and open with me.

leatherzack -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/16/2006 8:58:41 AM)
Other questions came to me about strapon play. Could You tell me why You like (or dislike) it ? And for the ones that expereinced it, how do You feel when doing it ? Thank You in advance.

subsue6 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/16/2006 7:04:34 PM)
It's a reward to me and many lesbian sub sluts I know. We crave it

pinksissyPA -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 4:44:57 PM)
6 to 16 inches??? Shudder

DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 5:25:17 PM)
With 11" being the norm!!!!

Mikal -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 5:50:36 PM)
11" the norm for what? Inducing panic??? [:-] And what about girth?

sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 5:58:34 PM)
If not the pure fear factor of it..i would be worried about having to go to the hospital to have my entrails shoved back in. Can your slave go to the bathroom the next day after that? Seriously.

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