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DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:05:58 PM)

Most guys can take 11" by the 3rd session

Girth is 6.5" around.




Mikal -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:08:20 PM)

*eeeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkk* [sm=hair.gif]
 
That's all I gotta say!!!




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:09:00 PM)

Go have a look at my new pics. (hehehe)




sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:11:58 PM)

Im sorry Diane....too big for this sissy.

Iknow..i'm awimp. Can't take more than 7"




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:15:55 PM)

If i were training you....you would be able to take at least 9" on the 2nd day.




sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:20:45 PM)

Nope..i wouldn't....Id put my corset, panties and bra back on, my heels and dress and ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun!!!!

Trust me.


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DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:24:17 PM)

Not if i put in chains buns up kneeling!




sissifytoserve -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 6:26:22 PM)

Under other circumstances..i'd like that...but not if i saw something THAT big coming at me!!!

Id want to be able to use the bathroom again.




Denny17 -> RE: Question about strapon play (11/18/2006 8:39:49 PM)

I consider it both pleasure and pain(pleasure) depending on where, when and how it is used on me. For instance if during a hot scene as part of the sensual aspect the strap-on were used on me I would consider it to be pleasurable. In the same instance if it were a hard scene and I was forced to suck and take that same strap-on in a VERY forceful manner, I would consider it less pleasurable. If in the privacy of our home I was forced to take the strap -on I would consider it pleasure. If I were forced to take the same strap-on at a public party it would be both painful and extremely humiliating.   It's all superfreaky fantastic both ways




canutakemenow -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/23/2006 2:23:18 AM)

I dont believe that. I am a relative newby. I think it would take more than 3 sessions for me to accomadate an 11" by 6" dildo. I'm willing to be proven wrong, but i dont see it




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/23/2006 4:43:47 AM)

I've done it many times....


Diane


quote:

ORIGINAL: canutakemenow

I dont believe that. I am a relative newby. I think it would take more than 3 sessions for me to accomadate an 11" by 6" dildo. I'm willing to be proven wrong, but i dont see it




pixelslave -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/23/2006 6:30:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Most guys can take 11" by the 3rd session

Girth is 6.5" around.



Hmmm...  Sounds more like fisting to me, in which case I must be totally missing the point (gladly I might add)! [8|]

To the OP, I would hate to see strapon play used for punishment.  Its one thing to stimulate an erogenous zone in a pleasurable way, which for some might be mentally or emotionally humiliating.  To forcefully enter them, causing physical and emotional damage which could affect their ability to enjoy what they otherwise could find sexually fulfilling if introduced to it in a more gentle manner, to me is quite another matter!  I personally don't believe its consistent with my idea of a loving D/s relationship to engage in activities that could be physically and emotionally damaging on the level that is possible from forced strapon play when used as a form of punishment.  For me, it would just be too close to rape as opposed to sharing an intimate pleasure.

- pixel




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 6:16:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pixelslave

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Most guys can take 11" by the 3rd session

Girth is 6.5" around.



Hmmm...  Sounds more like fisting to me, in which case I must be totally missing the point (gladly I might add)! [8|]

To the OP, I would hate to see strapon play used for punishment.  Its one thing to stimulate an erogenous zone in a pleasurable way, which for some might be mentally or emotionally humiliating.  To forcefully enter them, causing physical and emotional damage which could affect their ability to enjoy what they otherwise could find sexually fulfilling if introduced to it in a more gentle manner, to me is quite another matter!  I personally don't believe its consistent with my idea of a loving D/s relationship to engage in activities that could be physically and emotionally damaging on the level that is possible from forced strapon play when used as a form of punishment.  For me, it would just be too close to rape as opposed to sharing an intimate pleasure.

- pixel



Pixel

Have you ever  had any strapon training?


Diane




pixelslave -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 7:38:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Pixel

Have you ever  had any strapon training?

Diane


I don't know that I'd classify it as "training", but yes, I've engaged in strapon play and have always found it to be a pleasurable experience when done with an appropriate amount of time spent helping me to relax my sphincter and gently opening me to prepare myself for it. [:)]

- pixel




ElginSub -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 8:58:41 AM)

Ms. Diane,
i don't  doubt that  9 inches on day two could be done, but i would still say that  there would be pain.    My mother in law started training me with small strap ons and used butt plugs to train me.  i may be able to accept a large  dildo but as she explained to me that it was not about pain to me.  This was about learning to totally submit myself to her and my wife, a process that she took her time with.  The first few times she also used a process  of using a warm  water enema to partially fill me before enetring me.  The warm water sloshing was quite a feeling and  made it easier on me.  I have  not seen that process talked about in training before.  But she has used it for  years.  She has trained me so that my wife can now use the strap on now.  

My favorite and hers is a 7 inch  jelly or  semi hard.   I would not find pleasure in being stretched or pounded hard.  




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 9:12:00 AM)

It really depends on the guy in training. Some guys can take huge strapons in the first
few sessions and others can never take anything bigger then 7" or  8" ever.
It's all about how make you want it and how much pain you can take.



Diane






ElginSub -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 9:22:22 AM)

Ms. Diane,

Yes  i do understand that part.  And if it was something that she wanted to train me to accept i would.  I don't ask for it as she determines when.  She explained to me that painful sex is not enjoyable to a female  and she  would not want it to be painful to me. I will be much more receptive to training and her authority  if it is not painful and  understand that it is to be enjoyable for her and her daughter, and yet to remind me who is is complete control over me. 
She has better punishments that she and my wife would get more pleasure out of.




FelinePersuasion -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 9:25:02 AM)

Now, you can not apply things like painfull sex isn't enjoyable to ALL females. You nor she  can not possibly know wha every single female in the whole wide world would like.




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 9:32:07 AM)

I like to see and hear men whine, bitch and moan when I train them.


Diane




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 9:35:24 AM)

I train them for my pleasure not theirs.


Diane




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