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FancySeatCover -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/24/2006 9:55:50 AM)

That depends on the slave.

For most slaves I would say it is a reward, because of the sexual gratification.





ElginSub -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/25/2006 7:53:37 PM)

i do get stimulation of the  prostate.  i would already be in an excited state prior to being mounted,  but i would not dare cum with out permission.  i guess i ndon't look at it as a reward for myself.  i know that  my mother in law gets more enjoyment than  my  wife does. 




pixelslave -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/26/2006 6:27:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I train them for my pleasure not theirs.


Diane



And that's the problem I personally have with your approach.  My concern is that it could be emotionally and physically damaging to an inexperienced sub.  Granted, some people like "rough sex", but any tearing of the of the sphincter, rectum or the colon has severe consequences for a sub that would require medical intervention. [8|]  If a sub is left feeling as though he has been raped, that damages him emotionally [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m13.gif[/image] which could have other long term affects as well which could take years to recover from.  Its my opinion that your approach is what I'd refer to as "edge play" and could have serious consequences for the sub. [&o]

A sub who has been damaged in such a manner is not likely to be coming back for more of your kind of play.  Instead, it will most likely become a hard limit for him in the future.   What he could potentially enjoy as part of his normal sexuality that is inherent as a natural pleasure center in his body once his mind has been opened to it, is fragile and could easily be destroyed [&:], which I personally think would be a shame. [sm=m23.gif]

- pixel




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/26/2006 11:31:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave
And that's the problem I personally have with your approach.  My concern is that it could be emotionally and physically damaging to an inexperienced sub.  Granted, some people like "rough sex", but any tearing of the of the sphincter, rectum or the colon has severe consequences for a sub that would require medical intervention. [8|]  If a sub is left feeling as though he has been raped, that damages him emotionally [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m13.gif[/image] which could have other long term affects as well which could take years to recover from.  Its my opinion that your approach is what I'd refer to as "edge play" and could have serious consequences for the sub. [&o]

A sub who has been damaged in such a manner is not likely to be coming back for more of your kind of play.  Instead, it will most likely become a hard limit for him in the future.   What he could potentially enjoy as part of his normal sexuality that is inherent as a natural pleasure center in his body once his mind has been opened to it, is fragile and could easily be destroyed [&:], which I personally think would be a shame. [sm=m23.gif]
- pixel
[sm=applause.gif][sm=applause.gif] Very well done Pixel.    While I don't consider myself an extreme player by any stretch of the imagination, and am a subscriber to the school of risk aware consensual kink, I am a little disturbed by the assertion that everyone can be trained to do a mega dildo in such a short time...  The idea I'm sure will sound massively appealing to the boys who seek forced strap on play/rape play, but I hope all of them read and heed your advice as it might save their lives one day.  [&:]   M




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/26/2006 3:24:30 PM)

I'm not gonna get into it with you online.....Everyone is different and I've had no complaints
so far.


Diane




canutakemenow -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/26/2006 10:29:09 PM)

I think I'm falling for You




CuteIrishM4F -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/27/2006 2:45:27 AM)

Diane B269,
pLEASE TELL ME yOU ARE KIDDING!!!
[My new strapon is only 11" long and 6.5" around]

A.




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/27/2006 2:52:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F

Diane B269,
pLEASE TELL ME yOU ARE KIDDING!!!
[My new strapon is only 11" long and 6.5" around]

A.



hahahaha




PsyVamp -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/29/2006 1:44:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Now, you can not apply things like painfull sex isn't enjoyable to ALL females. You nor she  can not possibly know wha every single female in the whole wide world would like.


I'll second this opinion....pain can be quite a motivator
Damn Vampyre




fender2398 -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/31/2006 2:26:55 AM)

quote:

law
quote:

ORIGINAL: ElginSub

Ms. Diane,
i don't  doubt that  9 inches on day two could be done, but i would still say that  there would be pain.    My mother in law started training me with small strap ons and used butt plugs to train me.  i may be able to accept a large  dildo but as she explained to me that it was not about pain to me.  This was about learning to totally submit myself to her and my wife, a process that she took her time with.  The first few times she also used a process  of using a warm  water enema to partially fill me before enetring me.  The warm water sloshing was quite a feeling and  made it easier on me.  I have  not seen that process talked about in training before.  But she has used it for  years.  She has trained me so that my wife can now use the strap on now.  

My favorite and hers is a 7 inch  jelly or  semi hard.   I would not find pleasure in being stretched or pounded hard.  


You are so lucky, I have looked forever for this type of relationshp without any prevail up to this date.  Have tried almost everything, even considered relocating.




DiamondDiva -> RE: Question about strapon play (12/31/2006 10:54:39 PM)

I have used it for both, pleasure and punishment.  It really depends on the individual.




ElginSub -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/26/2007 4:51:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: fender2398



Ms. Diane,
i don't  doubt that  9 inches on day two could be done, but i would still say that  there would be pain.    My mother in law started training me with small strap ons and used butt plugs to train me.  i may be able to accept a large  dildo but as she explained to me that it was not about pain to me.  This was about learning to totally submit myself to her and my wife, a process that she took her time with.  The first few times she also used a process  of using a warm  water enema to partially fill me before entering me.  The warm water sloshing was quite a feeling and  made it easier on me.  I have  not seen that process talked about in training before.  But she has used it for  years.  She has trained me so that my wife can now use the strap on now.  

My favorite and hers is a 7 inch  jelly or  semi hard.   I would not find pleasure in being stretched or pounded hard.  


You are so lucky, I have looked forever for this type of relationshp without any prevail up to this date.  Have tried almost everything, even considered relocating.



fender  i do consider myself lucky. However the strap on training is a small part.  i also have the household and domestic duties for both houses. My mother in law has used me several times to demonstrate strap on training  for her friends and to a couple of close friends of my wife.  Needless to they all have had  practice on me.   i have also  bee loaned out for cleaning (maid) duty.   

just besure that you really want what you wish  for. 




LadyOunce -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/26/2007 5:35:19 PM)

It truly depends on the circumstances and the submissive. I've used it as both, depending on the viewpoint of the sub. A lot of play, of humiliation and pleasure, is based on the mental state of the submissive one is playing with.




Nick19WV -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/26/2007 8:09:05 PM)

I have a question for any of you Mistress's. I have good experience with strapon's for five months, but my question is. Is it possible for a guy to get double penetration by two Mistress's with two strapon's?




demistress -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/26/2007 8:32:00 PM)

Of course it's possible, especially with jelly dongs which are more flexible and pliable.




Tslaveboy -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/26/2007 9:33:09 PM)

I've already been fisted and would be more concerned with the length than the thickness.




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/26/2007 9:55:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nick19WV

I have a question for any of you Mistress's. I have good experience with strapon's for five months, but my question is. Is it possible for a guy to get double penetration by two Mistress's with two strapon's?




Don't know but, I'll let you know very soon. I think it's time to invite one of my
girl friends over.

Diane




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/27/2007 6:39:31 AM)

Let me know if any of you wanna start a F2m strapon chat here in the collarme chatrooms.


Diane




KaramelGoddess -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/27/2007 7:05:22 AM)

I use penetration for pleasure and humiliation, never for punishment.
 
With kind regard,
~Kara




DianeB269 -> RE: Question about strapon play (1/27/2007 7:09:25 AM)

Me too.....

Diane




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