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boltaction -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 11:14:45 AM)

I already have darksdesire, and I agree with your advice most of all.




DiamondOrchid -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 11:20:42 AM)

Regarding the 'hazing' and cliques... I'm new, and I can't say I've experienced any of that. Mind you, I haven't started a thread yet. Perhaps that is why?
 
Generally, when joining a new group/forum/site/whatever, I find it best to lurk (or troll) the boards, get a feel for things, post replies (espcially in the humour section), and viola! People get to know you and unless it's a particularily inane question (why do I have to stop breathplay when the sub becomes unconscious????), no hazing ensues.
 
Just my thoughts & experience to date.
 
D.




SamKeithsslave -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 2:08:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: darksdesire

WHAT SAMKEITHSLAVE SAID!!!   I think the term your look for is fraternity?  Hazings that take place in a fraternity?  are intended to insult.    


YES!!!  Thanks, gee that ones been bugging me for days [:@]  [sm=biggrin.gif]




MistressYlwa -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 5:09:03 PM)

You seem surprised that she wanted to meet at a porn shop, then head to a hotel. Next time you might try following your instincts and chat a bit, have some coffee, go slow, then hit the sheets.
 
Nice story by the way.




Lady Alaria -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 5:13:50 PM)

Unfortunately Bolt, as has been said here, you've given us little to work with.

I think in many cases where people come here for more _specific_ advice on the physical aspects of bdsm, there are more folk who are willing to pop an answer. Particularly if you've lost that cone(sigh). I remember a thread on plastic wrap that got pretty interesting.

But since we know little about you, and less about jer, and little about the situation, and what each of you are looking for... It's a bit tricky answering the question of what next? A lot of good advice of a more mental/emotional relational level has been fired up here.

As for more ideas on what to do in the bedroom...well...I have to say the best source of that sort of info might be a good book. Screw the Roses is a perennial favorite, and there are many more. They will give you some great ideas on things to do, ways to savor the enjoyment, ways to make it hotter for her(female libido's tend to be different than males), and how to keep it safe.

Have fun, and congratulations on finding what seems an interesting match.




PsyVamp -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 5:48:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NINASHARP

I don’t think anyone here (including me) can throw stones at vanilla cones, if ya know what I mean.  


Now I don't feel so bad about my cone...since the more I learn the less I know, and I'm still learning and mostly just read and sit on my fingers, I'll have this cone for a while yet!

For the OP, that kind of first encounter would have had me checking her purse for meds!

Damn Vampyre




subfever -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 5:51:09 PM)

Hey Bolt... you're either a BS artist or one genius  of a personal ad writer! ... [;)]

Welcome to the boards.




jdtallfem -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 5:59:27 PM)

Well if he posted on Craigs list casual encounters, what do you people expect? He got just what he advertised for; a casual encounter.  Why is that so hard to believe? Especially among peeps in their 20s?  It's not like the sexual liberation movement died in the 70s; they just wear condoms nowadays -- at least we hope they do.




Sinergy -> RE: What else should we try? (12/2/2006 6:27:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

The Random Stupidity board is a wonderful way to rid oneself of an unwanted cone [:D]


I suppose I view the whole thing like Baldar Conehead.

There is no such thing as "unwanted cone."

But that is just me and I could be wrong.

Sinergy




subfever -> RE: What else should we try? (12/3/2006 12:27:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jdtallfem

Well if he posted on Craigs list casual encounters, what do you people expect? He got just what he advertised for; a casual encounter.  Why is that so hard to believe? ...


Well then adious! ...

I'm burning rubber over to Craig's! ... [sm=lol.gif]




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