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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I just question why Collarme was recommended to me as a BDSM site that would be of interest to me.

Between Collarme and Max Fisch, I find Max Fisch more in tune with who I am. Collarme is very mild and not as open. I'm not criticizing the people who are comfortable here, everyone needs a place where like minds can meet. Collarme just isn't for me.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Nah, wishing you were dead is kinda edgy.... once the neck is snapped the goodtimes are over, know whadda mean, Vern?

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I'd say a higher kink level would mean something along the lines of "one person likes missionary style with the lights off would be less kinky than someone who likes oral sex with the lights on"

Vanilla would be the operative standard. How far from vanilla is someone? Anal penetration and oral sex could both be kinkier than missionary with the lights off."

Or if someone says "Ewwww, that's sick."  The person saying "Ewwww" would be less kinkier than the person doing the thing that got the reaction.

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji
Essentially, anytime someone wants to make themselves feel better, they decide to assign a value to things they do, and assign a lower value to things other people do.  This makes them feel good about themselves.

BUT I R AT TEH HIGHEST KINK LEVEL BECAUSE I AM DOMINATE MASTER LORD EMPEROR BLACK CASTE NINJA ASSASSIN OF GOR.  & MY KINK IS BETTER THAN URS.  BECAUSE I AM KINKIER THAN U.  I LIKE GERBILS.  AND DUCT TAPE.  WITH RAW SPAM AND MAYONAISE SAMMWICHES.  THAT MAKES ME BETTER THAN U. 

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer



BECAUSE I AM KINKIER THAN U. I LIKE GERBILS. AND DUCT TAPE. WITH RAW SPAM AND MAYONAISE SAMMWICHES. THAT MAKES ME BETTER THAN U.

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ORIGINAL: QuietDom
So, why, then, do you feel the need to stick around and ensure that we all know that we're on an inferior site, where the kink level is simply not high enough for someone as advanced as yourself???  If this other site is more to your tastes, then go there!!!

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Which makes me kinkier than you, and you kinkier than me. 

An excel spreadsheet could work this out with the following formula: 
=IF(A1>A2>A1,"Good","Bad")

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

It is not a badge of honor. I just question why Collarme was recommended to me as a BDSM site that would be of interest to me.

Between Collarme and Max Fisch, I find Max Fisch more in tune with who I am. Collarme is very mild and not as open. I'm not criticizing the people who are comfortable here, everyone needs a place where like minds can meet. Collarme just isn't for me.

It's like if someone mentions a gaming discussion board and I'm expecting chess or video games and everyone prefers talking about tic-tac-toe.

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     I think that we attain higher kink levels over time.  I give my small leather flogger as illustration.  (Free plug to the manufacturer: http://www.mgleatherworks.com/)  When I first purchased the flogger, it had flat, smooth tails.  I have a bad habit, however, of just leaving it in the toybag instead of hanging it up.  Over time, more and more kinks formed in the tails, and today the same flogger that was once completely unkinky now has a very high kink level indeed.

(Does anyone know if it's possible to iron leather?)         

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy
It's like if someone mentions a gaming discussion board and I'm expecting chess or video games and everyone prefers talking about tic-tac-toe.

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I'd say a higher kink level would mean something along the lines of "one person likes missionary style with the lights off would be less kinky than someone who likes oral sex with the lights on"

Vanilla would be the operative standard. How far from vanilla is someone? Anal penetration and oral sex could both be kinkier than missionary with the lights off."

Or if someone says "Ewwww, that's sick."  The person saying "Ewwww" would be less kinkier than the person doing the thing that got the reaction.

Just a quick reply to this, not sure if someone has said it already.

You like roman showers.  I say ew.  You are kinkier than I.

I like putting my balls in a blender and having my Mistress flip a coin.  Heads, leave it off, tails, turn it on.  You say ew.  I am kinkier.

Which makes me kinkier than you, and you kinkier than me. 

An excel spreadsheet could work this out with the following formula: 
=IF(A1>A2>A1,"Good","Bad")

This means that if that statement is true, it will say "Good."  Otherwise, it will say "Bad."  In the end, Excel would come back with a "Ginormous What the fuck?"

See what I mean?  Even Excel agrees with me.

Yours,


benji

Edited because the original formula would have only given me a minor what the fuck.

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ORIGINAL: philosophy

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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy
It's like if someone mentions a gaming discussion board and I'm expecting chess or video games and everyone prefers talking about tic-tac-toe.

.......which could well mean people on that mythical gaming board have surpassed the whistles and bells of complexity and have gone back to pure game theory......and a study of tic-tac-toe will make you a much better Counterstrike player........