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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:44:59 AM

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then there's the one's who respond to emails that list what fits them and they 'still' get ignored...what's up with that?

They've read your forum posts?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:45:06 AM

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ever notice, MissyRane, how there are some men out there that, when confronted with a lesbian, their arrogance takes over and they try to convince her how they would be alot better than her female partners and they try to convert them?

silly men...

LOL

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:46:47 AM

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They've read your forum posts?

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wasn't refering to myself on this matter stef...it was a general observation, not only from others i have talked to here, but from the many forums dealing with this subject.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:47:46 AM

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Of course.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:48:15 AM

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Perhaps your lack of return response, IS your response/answer from them.

I would suspect that the chances are, if you were so taken with the person's profile that you would expend the energy and time to write them an email expressing your interest, you are probably one of a long list of others who felt moved enough to email their interest too. However, no where is it written that someone must RSVP all email inquiries, wether it's 1 or a 101.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:49:22 AM

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try not to judge my responses so quickly, stef

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:50:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: Nosathro
greeting LuckyAlbatross

Let me qualify this. If someone put up a profile and in that profile states they are looking for someone. Those who do responded to it, outside of vulgar comments, the person placing the profile out of courtesy should respond to the email even if is to say "No Thank".

I wish you well

Nosathro

I'm sorry that you think I somehow forgot to qualify my response.

No. A random email from a stranger carries with it NO obligation of ANY response.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:53:48 AM

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When you give me a reason to believe your behavior has changed, perhaps I will. Fair enough?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 10:55:39 AM

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alrighty then

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:06:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: stef

As you've been here for some time, surely you've seen this dead horse dragged out and flogged so many times the carcass is just a skeleton by now. Do we really need to do it again?

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Next time lets have a hog roast instead....K?!?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:13:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Nosathro

greetings

I have been here for some time and recently I am experience as others here a lack of common politeness. Okay, someone post a profile and gets responses. Now, I can understand that if a message is vuglar and rude you do not want to reply. However, if a message is a simple introduction of a person who is responding to your profile and you are not interested, don't you think a simple "Thank you but No Thank you" reply would be approiate?

I wish you well

Nosathro

I think if the email is polite, it's nice to respond and say something like "Im looking for someone more local" or "Im looking for someone closer to my own age, but good luck to you" etc.
Yeah. I think it's nice and have found that people will even write back and say "thanks, and good luck to you too". I get this on aol alot too. If I go into a chatroom, and someone sends me an email, I will decline politely if Im not interested. Most people appreciate that. On the other hand, if the letter opens with "Looking for a master, slut?" I will not respond.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:17:01 AM

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How about the ones who get nasty when you say that you don't want to chat? Makes you not want to answer anyone ever.

Even better...the ones who are married and when you say you don't play with married men, get pissed off and start berating you for not being "real".

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:19:34 AM

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How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back? How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:20:34 AM

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Say it ain't so, Joe...you mean some slut has actually NOT answered a wonderful post like that? WTF?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:21:04 AM

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How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back? How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron

sounds rather presumptuous to me

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:21:40 AM

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Lighten up a bit Michael

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:22:06 AM

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OOOhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, YES!!!!!!! my dearest, happens alot more often than you might think.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:23:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back? How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron

sounds rather presumptuous to me

perhaps slightly presumptuous on my part, I warrant you that. But nevertheless---try to see the big picture here, buddy.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:24:30 AM

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How about the ones who get nasty when you say that you don't want to chat? Makes you not want to answer anyone ever.

Even better...the ones who are married and when you say you don't play with married men, get pissed off and start berating you for not being "real".

well, on this site, I can't just readily answer everyone, because of my probs getting email through. But Ive been in the chatrooms on this site and have rec'ved alot of IM's/PM's and I have found that the greater percentage of them are from married men. I just tell them right out that Im not interested because they are married. I have to admit that most will tell me upfront if asked. And then, yes, some do try to convince me that it doesn't matter and that Im 'lying to myself' if I think any single men are out here. lmao. I take it with a grain of salt, minimize the IM box and go on with my night. Rude strangers do not have the ability to come anywhere near my perception of my self. I know I'm
weal and twue regardless of what some creep tells me.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:24:39 AM

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I do try and respond to my mail out of simple courtesy, but I will not respond to those that say " i c ur a pain slut" lol that is currently in my inbox about to be deleted. If it is crude and unwanted why should I have to respond? I see it as similiar to ignoring some strange guy wolf whistling at me as I walk by. It can be overwhelming, weeding through 10+ emails a day especially when so many are assuming the opposite of what my profile indicates.
Courtesy given is returned, but it does have to begin with the original writer of an opening email.

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