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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:25:32 AM   
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How about the ones who get nasty when you say that you don't want to chat?  Makes you not want to answer anyone ever.

Even better...the ones who are married and when you say you don't play with married men, get pissed off and start berating you for not being "real".


I just got one of those....the guy's first email to me was a one liner "may I have your email address".  He responded with, "well I guess that's a no".....then basically I told him why would I want to talk to someone that won't even greet me with a simple "hello"   I then received the patented "fuck you bitch"  then he blocked me

This is usually the response I get when I try to be nice and respond.  I mean he didn't even bother to read even the first paragraph of my profile, so again...why am I supposed to be so "courteous"?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:26:49 AM   
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Next time lets have a hog roast instead....K?!?



mmmmmm pork chops.....yummmmmmm

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:27:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bandit25

How about the ones who get nasty when you say that you don't want to chat?  Makes you not want to answer anyone ever.

Even better...the ones who are married and when you say you don't play with married men, get pissed off and start berating you for not being "real".


Have had both of these occurences happen. It is why I do not respond anymore

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:28:22 AM   
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How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



Rude bitches like that need to be taught manners.  You pull it out, slap her across the face, make her answer you, then shove it back in.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:30:45 AM   
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How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



Ron Ron Ron.....LOL  you still kill me....LOL

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:31:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		ummmmmmmmmmm, while I appreciate the advice, I am afraid it is not big enough to do any real damage.......wanna come see? perhaps give an on-site opinion on the matter?

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:40:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



Ron Ron Ron.....LOL  you still kill me....LOL


Well it was all summed up quite some time ago in the words:  one  man's meat is another's poison...

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:40:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



I wonder what would happen if I tried this approach.........hmmmmmmmmmm


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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:42:07 AM   
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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:45:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		i got an e-mail from someone the other day who obviously had not read my profile as he was from the other side of the country which i state clearly in my profile is not something i am interested in.  Nevertheless i saved it with the full intention of responding with something along the lines of "Thanks, but no thanks". However, before i could get back to it, i received another from him telling me that the reason i hadn't found anyone was because i had bad manners and that not responding was bad form, blah, blah, blah. So i e-mailed him back and gently reminded him that he didn't know me from Adam and shouldn't presume to know my intentions or manner and that if i had not responded to him YET it was only because i had not had the time. He responded by telling me that everyone knew i was just a guy with fake pics who was only here to get my rocks off and that there had been posts regarding this. Then called me a douchebag and blocked me.  LMAO!
So in so far as feeling OBLIGATED to respond to anyone....please excuse us girls if our give a damn is just a bit broken at this point! i used to try to respond to everyone, but as has been stated previously the number of e-mails to respond to, at times, is completely overwhelming and 90% of them are from men who either have not read our profiles and/or are just plain jerks.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:47:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



It's probably because her mouth is too full. I thought you figured that one out already.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:48:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, as I have stated before, you are a devestatingly pretty douchebag.

But why drag our private emailing fights out here in public, hone?


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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:54:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		I guess I am in the minority here, looks like along with the OP.  ___IF___ I/we get an email in response to one of our profiles that reads as if the sender actually did read the profile I go look at theirs.  If it looks interesting as well, I will send a positive response.  If it is marginal or not very interesting to me/us I send a polite "no, but thank you for your interest" note.  So far I/we have actually never had a rude response to that and even have a couple of "thank you for at least sending a reply" notes back.  At times if the person emialing me/us is rude, shows no class, has a blank profile, or obvioulsy did not bother to read any of the profiles then I send a short, not terribly polite response.
As a person who does send "hello" notes to others with interesting profiles and tries hard to be polite in all of them, I agree that you wonder if the other person read the note you sent, if you offended them in some way, if they thought you were creepy, or whatever.  If you don't have the time to respond then set up one of the auto responses.  To me the exception would be the ones who say in their profiles they do not respond to unwanted emails, then  you should not expect a response.
If I am walking down the street and someone smiles and says "HI!"  - do I "owe" them a smile and a hi back? No.  It is polite to do so anyway?  Where I was raised it is.  Holding others up to "my" standards of courtesy is not the same as generally accepted politeness and good manners, which is something that is seriouly lacking in society in general today, IN MY OPINION ONLY!
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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 11:56:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



It's probably because her mouth is too full. I thought you figured that one out already.



Of what?  Mousepad?  Eclair?  I have said repeatedly it ain't gonna scare you, it ain't that big, even if we did a rape scene---well ok, my shrill and pleading voice could irritate you and frighten a little, I suppose....

Ron


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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 12:06:14 PM   
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A few dozen??? Clearly you've not been here long either!  Check the archives back to the beginning - if your system doesn't crash from the number of returns you'll get.


Sorry, wasn't counting.  If you've seen one bonepile, you've seen em all.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 12:12:58 PM   
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Well, as I have stated before, you are a devestatingly pretty douchebag.

But why drag our private emailing fights out here in public, hone?


LOLOLOL,
MinnesotaFats(that would be opposite side to you, you see)



LOL...Well, i guess if i gotta be a douchebag i may as well be a pretty one!

But seriously now Ron...me?  fight with You?  Come on!   lolol  Never! 

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 12:16:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



It's probably because her mouth is too full. I thought you figured that one out already.



....gonna scare you, it ain't that big, even if we did a rape scene---well ok, my shrill and pleading voice could irritate you and frighten a little, I suppose....



Did you know that standard-sized condoms are too big for most Indian men.

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 12:32:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep in fact yours truly argued this very point but i cannot find it so in summary.

As you can see this is split right down the middle.

You have the basically polite and courteous people on one side of the fence and assholes on the other.

The courteous people will try to answer some one with something if its obvious that the writer is reasonably genuine, profiles have been read, not a form letter, not a 1 liner, etc etc etc.

Of course there is a host of LEGITIMATE reasons NOT to respond to an email.   

These people have a very diffeent and often positive experience as compared to the other side of the fence with hey fuck you, "aint no law so i aint gotta do it" approach.

i think the key is to understand the difference between who is a troll and who is not and of course when a thread like this pops up albeit 3 times a week, many will ASSUME that you are sending out 1 liners, or otherwise not following the requests of the profile rather than ASKING, or giving you the benefit of a doubt, that just maybe you really are sending legitimate responses to the people who are truly being unjustly discourteous to you, and they chose not to respond because of a host of reasons ranging from the color of your tie to the background setting of your pic, and believe it or not quite often NOT respond as a result of their own fault for NOT giving proper information in their profile in the first place.  Welcome to the wonderful world of internet dating...

Granted there are many more out here who deserve to be ignored in triplicate than are remotely genuine, i wont dispute that, but there are also many who do not deserve it and discourtesy is being dished out unjustly.

BTW i send out tons of one liners, not as a pick up line or expecting a response back, but just remarking on something and i get responses back better then 50% i would guess,,,   

i applaud the courteous and those who make efforts to be!  


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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 12:37:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



Maybe it's just that their mouths are full?

Oh, that's so bad!!

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RE: What happen to courtesy? - 12/30/2006 1:11:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

How about women who; when I say on your knees bitch and start sucking----

Well, they don't even answer back?   How fuckin' rude is that, I ask you?

Ron



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