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FelinePersuasion -> RE: To Cyber or Not (1/14/2007 11:51:32 AM)
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You can not accuratly discern limits by cyber sex or cyber bdsm. Real life experince is the best way. Floggings sound nice and cozy right, or they can sound downright awfull, but untill you KNOw in person in REAL life, not on a computer screen you will never know that a leather flogger is not as nice to touch as a sued one. you might THINK it is, but you don't know for sure. You w*ould not think sued could hurt right? WRONG, have some delicate area like your pussy hit way to hard and on accident, like mine was then you'll know that sued and soft butter leather CAN and DOES HURT! Bullwhips might seem scary, or they might seem easy peasy, but untill ya have been whiped or have whiped someone IN PERSON face to face, and not by some cyber sex scene you do NOT know how difficult a bull whip is or is not.
Cyber is a nice time filling fantasy. It's not an accurate way to set limits.
I would not take any one on as a partner who had all their limits from cyber bdsm, and none founded in real life face to face.
I can see the disaster now, the sub has years of cybersex anal fucking experince and none in real life, He tells the dominant women yes Maa'm I love anal sex, I want you raping my ass, please use me and fuck my ass.
The person with the strap on says ok trusting the subs word* yes trust but verify but in this scenario she did not verify* sub bend over, ass fucks them, and then the sub says ow you hurt me, that didn't feel good, it wasn't painfull when I did it in cyber.
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ORIGINAL: kamasutraking
I fully agrre. Cyber is the best way to set limits and likings. So when meet, knows exactly what to do and that inspires confidence in slave's mind
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