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RE: Is It Master Or Master, Sir? - 2/1/2007 9:09:51 AM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

the answer to this is simple,

All Doms are refered to as Sir, only the one that you recognize as your one true Master is refered to as Master.

CP

I assume this is the rule you put on your submissive...but it is not the rule my Master has on me.

I did call my Master "Sir" when we first began conversing...and "Master" when it was clear he was my Master. I used to call other Doms "Sir" but my rules changed as he trained me away from behaving submissively to others. I might call certain men I respect "Sir" or certain women "Ma'am" for fun - but not as a sign of submission. I am not to submit to anyone but my Master, and to view myself as an equal human being to others. He has his reasons for this.

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RE: Is It Master Or Master, Sir? - 2/1/2007 9:22:55 AM

heartfeltsub

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That makes a lot of sense OG, especially given what you have said about your own sense of self-worth when your Master found you.

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RE: Is It Master Or Master, Sir? - 2/1/2007 10:06:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Amayos - I like the new pic!

Thank you, Katy. It's a little too gratuitously pensive for my tastes, though the least worst of my latest mug shots.

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RE: Is It Master Or Master, Sir? - 2/2/2007 9:08:53 PM

michaels4evr

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I don't usually call my Master, "Master," rather I call Him Daddy, no matter who is around. When speaking of Him to others, I tend to call Him Michael. This is just what is most comfortable for us.

However, I do have leather roots, and in leather, submissive-types are expected to give respect to Dominant-types by addressing them as they wish to be addressed, whether it is "Daddy Bob", "Master Roy" or
"Mistress Mine". I would never dream of addressing these folks by their first names unless they specifically asked me to. To think of it, most of the Leatherfolk I know address each other as "Master so and so"
or "boy so and so" regardless of station. Dominant-types whom I do not know well, but am introduced to by another leatherperson I respect are usually addressed as Sir or Ma'am unless they request I address them differently.. The best way to know, is to ask the person how they wish to be addressed. I have never been offended by anyone who wished to address me as Ma'am or Mistress, I simply tell them "my name is michael's or if you prefer to use an honorific, Miss will do. Thank you."

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