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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 6:49:54 PM   
Aileen68


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jauque

Taking that into consideration is it the actual burn that you desire, or the risk of being burned?

~J


I wanted to answer this too. 
It started out as just wanting the risk of the burn, but it's beginning to change to wanting the actual burn.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 6:56:18 PM   
darksdesire


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Status: offline 		could you clairify what you mean about "wanting the actual burn?" 

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 7:11:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: darksdesire

could you clairify what you mean about "wanting the actual burn?" 


I'm not the OP, but I might posit this as saying that she, at least once, would like for something bad to happen, and yet still come out of it on the other side.

Jeff

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 7:16:07 PM   
Aileen68


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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 7:23:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am gonna snatch your ass up and make you drive me around manhattan in rush hour and it's ALL gonna be left handed turns---I know you---- But if you are a good girl, you will come out the other side.

Stand and deliver!!!!

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 7:42:02 PM   
adaddysgirl


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Status: offline 		Aileen,
 
i'm going to talk about something non-D/s for a moment.  As a kid, it seemed i was always fighting.  i'm not sure why that was but i often blame in on the fact that i had 4 (relentless) brothers.  In any event, even as i got older, i loved to fight.  i don't know....there was something very 'edgy' about it.
 
At 26 years old, with 2 kids (3 & 8), i ran my mouth just one too many times.  i was jumped by 10 girls who promised to 'take out my eyes'.  i ended up badly beaten, with deep gouges on my face and body and 2 black eyes.  The police thought some type of weapon was used but that was never proved.  Hell, i didn't even know who was involved until someone came forward. Yes, i 'touched the flame' and am lucky to live to tell about it.
 
When i came home from the hospital (where the police sent me)...i had to face my kids AND my father.  Gawd!  They all cried when they saw me.  But i was a stubborn person back then and my first thought was 'i'm going back there and i'm going to find out what this was all about'.  In reality, all that probably would have done was cause more problems.
 
i had to make a choice.  Either go on doing what i really wanted to do, with no regard to my life nor those i loved....or give that shit up for those that mattered to me.  Reluctantly, i chose the latter.
 
i tried it one too many times and yes, i did survive, but at the expense of those who meant the most to me. 
 
You are an adult.  Perhaps you will never feel fulfilled unless you experience it...i don't know.  And maybe a lot of us feel we have to 'give something up' for other reasons.  Hey, if you are single, no kids, no parents, and you make a bad decsion....you are the only one who has to live with it (or die by it).  Otherwise, your actions might have an effect on more than you can imagine.
 
i am not judging you here.  Just hoping that if something does go bad, you will be able to deal with what's left.
 
DG

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/15/2007 8:38:31 PM   
Sinergy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DeepWaters

either you're an erotic adreline junkee,



I have a job which involves being keyed up on adrenalin doing simulated rape scenarios.

Guess what I dont want in my home life?

Sinergy

p.s.  well, if she needs to be tied to something and banged cross-eyed, I can work with that.   But play rape is not high on my list.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 12:14:05 AM   
RTSlave4Master


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Status: offline 		I can relate to all of these dark desires.. as i have them as well.  I have done alot , i have had alot done to me, there are still things i need, and will get before my time is done in our lifetime...   Just be as careful as  you can and still get those things you need.   be well be safe...

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 12:36:11 AM   
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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 6:06:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I get a thrill from knowingly putting myself out there...

< Message edited by mrocknj -- 1/16/2007 6:08:46 AM >

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 6:16:38 AM   
mrocknj


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Status: offline 		It's the same reason that Amusement Parks suck....  The outcome of the activity is predetermined....The most fun, most exhilirating times in one's life are when you are engaged in an activity where the outcome is uncertain....Most everything else is just following a script.


I still haven't figured out the copy/paste select quotes feature......

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 6:45:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		i can relate, Aileen.

i love thrill and sense of adventure my dangerous excursions give me despite knowing later i shall be punished by Daddy after telling him what i did. i too have gone to seedy hotel rooms with men i just met to screw and blow not caring that i might not be seen alive the next day.

i angered Daddy one day for becoming a public pain slut at a well known bar in Chicago after reviewing a band i was fortunate enough to hang out with - all for the glory of getting the exclusive interview. don't know if anyone took pics of me being spanked, paddled, flogged for 30 minutes (i have a very high tolerance for pain and usually participants are given 15mins) by the 3 Dommes. however He didn't take too kindly to my wild behavior severely punishing and lecturing me for hours. Daddy was right once the novelity wore off i realized what a terrible mistake i made that night. i admit i did have fun but i didn't want the reputation which would attract someone with evil desires.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 7:13:45 AM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		Aileen,

Perhaps an idea - have a pre-screener? Someone you trust to talk to the person, run a criminal background check on the person, etc. The prescreener wouldn't tell you anything that they found out, but could veto the meeting? I'm sure you won't like the idea but ...

Even though you want to get burned - lots of folks can't help hoping it never happens.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 7:15:32 AM   
Aileen68


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You've all reminded me to look at things in my life from all different perspectives.  This is something that lately I've not been doing.  I definitely need to figure out why I am making such poor decisions in my life and I need to find a way to have a nice and comfortable middle ground.  Thanks.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 7:32:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh that blasted, illusive middle ground.  I have a hard time finding it too Aileen, just in different areas.  It you find it, could you send me the map?

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 7:57:44 AM   
Dissappearance


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Status: offline 		Civilization and it's Discontents... welcome to the darkness at the edge of dawn. We sleep to dream of death, wake to hunger, a regret for the excesses we have always and already done. Constantly filling and emptying... Our ultimate karma unfolds with others, because without this temple of pleasure we call the Universe, we would be ONE  and... Perfect.
 
Therefore we seek the thrill... Thanatos is our urge to both live and die gloriously!

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 8:30:45 AM   
mrocknj


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Status: offline 		Middle Ground?!

I guess a blow job in the bathroom of the Dunkin Donuts of Hackettstown at 12:30 today is out of the question?........

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 8:53:42 AM   
Aileen68


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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 8:55:26 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Ummmmmmmm, is 12:45 more convenient for you?

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 8:56:06 AM   
Aileen68


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