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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 9:18:10 AM   
TreasurePet


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Status: offline 		In case this looks out of place, I want to let you know that I am replying to the first post and have not read the intervening pages ...

I do get off on the fear ... I LIKE being scared. However, combined with some of my other likes and things I enjoy ... I've found this scares people that care about me ... and not in a fun way.
I can get off without the fear and/or danger but it is oh so much more fun with it!

My Mistress keeps me safe and finds way to substitute the surprise for the fear.
It may not have been an edgy thing that was done but when you don't expect it ... the adrenalin speeds through your system just the same!

::SMILE::

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 9:26:51 AM   
GentlehandSTL


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68
Can anyone relate to this or am I just crazy?


I can relate

Yes, you are 'crazy'

...doesn't mean that I don't love you for it

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 11:13:04 AM   
marieToo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Only for you Ron.


Talk about Dangerous Desires! 

Be careful;  he could choke you to death with that fucking thing.  <Trust me>

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 3:26:46 PM   
SlaveSubtoserve


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Status: offline 		i can definitely understand your desire and have done some similar things-- but as a guy there is more margin for my safety me-thinks so.....

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 3:29:19 PM   
SlaveSubtoserve


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Status: offline 		......was curious what someone posted being a Gemini might have to do with it, being one myself????

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 4:08:54 PM   
NINASHARP


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Status: offline 		Ever hear the term, Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it?

Aileen, You might already know this, but you risk more than you know just by revealing so much personal information about yourself here in these forums, even I could find your whereabouts pretty easily. Not too far from me actually.  You are way too pretty to find yourself fighting off some freak that wants to mess up your face. I'd suggest you carry some pepper spray, just in case.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 5:09:16 PM   
texancutie


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Status: offline 		Wow!  Great post LaTigresse! 

I understand the struggle when it comes to desiring edge play.  But on the other hand, I know the risks involved in it too.  Since I started out in this real time I have come to know myself better, and I know that I would have a hard time dealing with the emotional fallout if it goes horribly wrong.  Let alone even think of the worse possibilities of me being permanently damaged, or have to go to the hospital or being killed.  Meeting a stranger in a hotel room, even if I have been talking to him for a while, is really, really risky.  But you know that, and I also know that first hand.  My thoughts on this are that you can meet a lot of people and still be lucky, and nothing bad ever happens, and everyone has a great time.  But there is also that one person that gets past your psycho radar.  Some bad people can be very charming, and can do and say all the right things, up until a point.  The key thing is that you don't want to meet that one person that is smart enough, to stay under your radar.  Sadly, there are people out there like that.  I know we all think we are great at gut feelings and weeding the wrong people out, but it just takes one bad experience to change your mind.  If someone can deal with the possibilities and understand what  those risks could really be, then there is nothing one can do about it.  They will go out and keep doing what it is they love.  It is not my place to even tell anyone what they should or should not do in this.   We all have our dark and dangerous desires.

With me being in a relationship with a local Master, I am now more safe about things.  And some of those dangerous, dark desires I have, can actually happen, though of course he will be screening and taking care of the arrangements.  And he will be there to insure all is well.  I no longer have to go out and find it alone thankfully.

So all I can say is.....please be careful.  It's a difficult struggle.

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/16/2007 6:05:24 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		Well i've always been risky, well since i was 14.  Ended up in alot of not so pleasant situations too.  My favorite activity is to just grab my stuff and go.  Especially in a city.  No driving.. just going.. and meeting up with who ever.. doing whatever.. and having a blast.  Usually it happens at night.  Met alot of interesting people that way. 

i've also been cured of most of my risky behavoir.  Before i got knocked up, i still enjoyed walking through the marsh land in search of gators.. and by the lake here i enjoyed tossing rocks at the gators heads to instigate them.  Still havent seen the 12 footer that supposed to be in the lake.  Bah.  Yet i'm being cured of that too.......

So being on the other side of things, i wish i could help you figure out away out of doing it.  I was thinking if you ran into alot of bad situations that might stop you, but it never stopped me. 

But if you keep doing it, one of these days you'll ended up with a freak - hooded and bound with no escape.  I say, if you're risky - to atleast keep some amount of safety.  Always make sure you have the ability to respond to any situation.


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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/17/2007 8:51:22 AM   
TequilaMocknbird


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Status: offline 		Just as a quick thought.  The issues you speak of, so deeply entrenched within your mind, has this eery feeling of pre-Stockholm syndrome with a slight twist.  Quite interesting actually, having this feeling of knowing you're gettting involved in a dangerous situation, possibly fighting the physical/emotional dimension at first, then acceptance of the consequences and finally revelling and feeling quite comfortable in the entire situation.  Extreme emotional issues to follow?... probably... but that's the price you pay for flying first class. 

Just my thoughts..... your mileage may vary....

Be well....      

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/17/2007 9:10:49 AM   
scuffedknees


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Status: offline 		Aieleen, Hmmm, Your Beautiful,, 
I imagine Your a handful ,  
a very nice handful though , ~smile~
Your quote :  You can't have monkeys in the house.
scuffed :       "I think its way more dangerous to allow them in "ones" mind"....

peace,  ***scuffed.***

< Message edited by scuffedknees -- 1/17/2007 9:30:04 AM >

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RE: Dangerous Desires - 1/20/2007 7:36:07 PM   
lucreziaborgia


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Status: offline 		It makes sense. Could: you feel quilty for some resaon? You say you are a wife and mother? Are you happy? Is your husband and dom proud of you?  are you proud of you?

Do you love the risky sex and kink?
Have been lucky - so far?

But deep  inside you know what comes around goes around. And since you are a masochist - ? who knows

or it could be you are totally clueless and living in a barbie world. (just kidding)


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