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Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under 25? - 1/16/2007 11:44:26 AM   
DemonSadist


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Status: offline 		I'm 25 and have had this problem since I was 18 really. Websites are just totally full of fake pictures, it's a huge pain to trawl through scores of profiles to find one that's real let alone one your compatible with. I'm sure there's more under 25 women who like to submit than to dominate in general, but withtin the bdsm community there sure does seem to be a lack.

Any clues from people more experienced in the community?
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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:46:29 AM   
asassylilslave


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Status: offline 		Just a guess but perhaps...just perhaps it's your profile that is scaring them all away

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:51:36 AM   
DemonSadist


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Status: offline 		Yes yes hahaha. But this profile is brand new today. What I'm talking about is the lack of females even advertising or being interested. Yes my profile is extreme but I'm being honest and I've seen plenty of profiles from sub women that talk about liking it as hard as I do.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:53:13 AM   
innatedesire


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ORIGINAL: asassylilslave

Just a guess but perhaps...just perhaps it's your profile that is scaring them all away


I would agree with this.......Your profile is scary even for a masochist like me!!  If you are a sadist perhaps you should reword your profile and not use the word "domestic abuse"; that word conjures up a image of a a**hole that is out of control, at least for for me it  does; others may have thier own view.

edited cause i can't spell today



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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:56:15 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I think that what many say they dream of at that age; once they stare into the gaping maw of the abyss------well...........

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:56:24 AM   
DemonSadist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: innatedesire

quote:

ORIGINAL: asassylilslave

Just a guess but perhaps...just perhaps it's your profile that is scaring them all away


I would agree with this.......Your profile is scary even for a masochist like me!!  If you are a sadist perhaps you should reword your profile and not use the word "domestic abuse"; that word conjures up a image of a a**hole that is out of control for me; others may have thier own view.




Ok fair enough, I will reword, domestic abuse is meant as roleplay in the context of my profile but as I say this isn't something I've experienced after having a profile like that. This is the first time I've said all that much about the more extreme end of things. As I say I'm asking about it in general.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:58:19 AM   
drawntothedark


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Status: offline 		Is it just me or my computer......but I can barely read it due to the font and backdrop color.

I did read it with squinting my eyes.......and yeah the term domestic abuse does sound a bit...scary.

To answer your question. Some people come into the lifestyle early (EX: 18 or so) some come later like me. I didn't find it until I was 27. Maybe it has something to do with self exploration, and all that. I don't know why, but I have come across more subs or slaves who came here later in life than those who came here early. Of course.....girls under 25 are here. And this could just be my experience.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 11:59:47 AM   
DemonSadist


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I think that what many say they dream of at that age; once they stare into the gaping maw of the abyss------well...........

Ron


That's a depressing thought!
I've actually only met 2 submissive females under 25 in my life. The other problem is trying to get any respect from an older submissive woman if you are under 30.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:00:43 PM   
asassylilslave


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ORIGINAL: DemonSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I think that what many say they dream of at that age; once they stare into the gaping maw of the abyss------well...........

Ron


That's a depressing thought!
I've actually only met 2 submissive females under 25 in my life. The other problem is trying to get any respect from an older submissive woman if you are under 30.

~ grins ~
define respect please

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:01:04 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		you are going to have to have a rounder profile than you do, if that is in your hunting schedule. 

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:01:07 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I nice little picture of yourself might pique their interest also.

Edited cuz I knew it looked wrong but didn't take the time to figure out why.


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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:03:57 PM   
DemonSadist


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ORIGINAL: drawntothedark

Is it just me or my computer......but I can barely read it due to the font and backdrop color.

I did read it with squinting my eyes.......and yeah the term domestic abuse does sound a bit...scary.

To answer your question. Some people come into the lifestyle early (EX: 18 or so) some come later like me. I didn't find it until I was 27. Maybe it has something to do with self exploration, and all that. I don't know why, but I have come across more subs or slaves who came here later in life than those who came here early. Of course.....girls under 25 are here. And this could just be my experience.


Well, I changed my profile now anyway so hopefully it sounds less scary. And I can understand people only discovering those things about themselves later in life. But  if I discovered it 18 there has to be at least a few but from my experience (which is wide rangingish) it's either girls who are just playing about or girls wo need real help in regards to their self destructive side.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:04:15 PM   
SirDiscipliner69


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This is a thinking person's relationship with many nuances and subtlties.


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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:05:45 PM   
DemonSadist


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Status: offline 		Well in some cases just plain old common courtesy and in some cases they just blank you at the mere mention of the idea that they could be dominated by anyone younger than they. Some just think your messing about and some just think they are far too good for you.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:07:05 PM   
DemonSadist


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Status: offline 		It is brand new today, I plan on refining it a heck of a lot, I just found this place today so give me a little time. And I do keep saying I'm not talking about the lack of responses to my profile.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:08:05 PM   
asassylilslave


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ORIGINAL: DemonSadist

Well in some cases just plain old common courtesy and in some cases they just blank you at the mere mention of the idea that they could be dominated by anyone younger than they. Some just think your messing about and some just think they are far too good for you.

that has nothing to do with respect though. That is just manners and personal preference.
 
edited to add
 
have you bothered to try your local community yet?

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:08:08 PM   
DemonSadist


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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:09:09 PM   
drawntothedark


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DemonSadist

Well in some cases just plain old common courtesy and in some cases

Okay, but this happens in all age groups. All catorgorys, not just us "older woman". This is the internet.....

they just blank you at the mere mention of the idea that they could be dominated by anyone younger than they.


ummm if they do not go for younger men.....than yeah.....they probably can't be dominated by someone youger, because they don't want to be. This is a prefrence not a lack of respect


Some just think your messing about and some just think they are far too good for you.

Also, this goes for all age groups.



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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:10:19 PM   
DemonSadist


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Status: offline 		Well, I'd disagree. You can respectfully decline someone's advances and respect is a question of manners and how you treat someone. But I've been around some older sub women who just will not even entertain the idea that someone younger can have more experiences than them.

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RE: Why is it so hard to find genuine sub females under... - 1/16/2007 12:13:37 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: DemonSadist

Not with my looks   


Honey, sooner or later they are gonna hafta see ya unless your going to walk around with a hood on your head for life. I prefer to give them the scary real life stuff right up front. If they make it past that they are already ahead.


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