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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 9:24:36 AM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: Noah

So I've been doing it wrong all these years?  Thanks for explaining the one twue absolute way


You would have thought that someone of your intelligence would have learned this by now.  tsk tsk

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 9:25:16 AM   
justheather


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ORIGINAL: mymasterssub69

*hugs*

private meetings alone with anyone (vanilla or lifestyler) for the 1st time is an absolute no-no


Ruh roh. I guess Im in for a Safety Police citation.

First time I met my Daddy, it was alone, at night, with my car packed with three days' worth of personal items. Not only did I live to tell about it, but we are still happily (dare I say blissfully?) together.

I think the "use your head" advice is the best Ive read so far.
To that, Id like to add: Listen to your gut. Keep your eyes open. Keep breathing.
All good ideas, whether you are meeting someone new in the KFC parking lot or not.


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And the table perfectly level
When you cut me out of my life
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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 9:34:53 AM   
hrnybutshy


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Status: offline 		my nickname and profile were done for me by the guy who showed me this site. As for my profile, I have since removed the questionable parts and when I have more time will put in more effort to see that it potrays the correct image I want to put out there. I didn't realize the way it looked to others and wil make the changes necessary. All I can say is that I am trying my best to learn as I go along. I thank everyone who posted responses as they were very helpful. I am glad I posted and will continue to do so in the future.

hrnybutshy

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 9:36:52 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you should pick your own nick...one that reflects how you view yourself.
Unless, of course, you're horny and shy and that's the first impression that you want to give.

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 10:21:37 AM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I don't know...To me, your profile comes across that you are only looking for quick, straightforward domination and sex.


Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't that the same thing you said after you read The Story of My Life by Helen Keller?

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 10:41:44 AM   
stateira


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Status: offline 		Thank goodness you changed your mind

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 10:55:22 AM   
Aileen68


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Noah

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I don't know...To me, your profile comes across that you are only looking for quick, straightforward domination and sex.


Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't that the same thing you said after you read The Story of My Life by Helen Keller?


No...I was looking for hours and hours of straightforward domination and sex.

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 10:56:48 AM   
KatyLied


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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 11:19:43 AM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I think you all need to quit picking on her and just give her a cookie.

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 11:22:02 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Picking on me or the OP?

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 11:25:47 AM   
mymasterssub69


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Status: offline 		i have a batch chocolate chip cookies fresh from the oven

enjoy


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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 11:28:10 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		They are best when warm and gooey.  I'm talking about chocolate chip cookies.

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 11:31:24 AM   
Reflectivesoul


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Status: offline 		*sniff* I knew I smelled chocolate chip cookies, but where's mine? *taps foot all impatiently like* heh

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ooooo..I bet THATS gonna leave a mark!!!!

Equal opportunity pisser on-er ... heh..

Gimme some crayons, I want color and I want it now DAMNIT!

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 2:18:07 PM   
Aileen68


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Aileen's new screen name:  hornybutnotshy





Laughing because I just saw this.
Bitch.  

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 2:34:59 PM   
mymasterssub69


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Status: offline 		there's plenty for all ;)

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there is something infinitely magical
about a Daddy Dom
...something only a little girl
can understand.

collared on 16th Jan 2007 by bigsambaman, my Daddy

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 2:41:29 PM   
Squeakers


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ORIGINAL: mymasterssub69

*hugs*

private meetings alone with anyone (vanilla or lifestyler) for the 1st time is an absolute no-no



   I can understand this logic but it's not always a no-no.   My first meeting was very private but we had spent a great deal of time getting to know each other via phone, IM and email.    Nothing is absolute.  

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 2:45:38 PM   
hereyesruponyou


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Status: offline 		I know this is probably a little off topic, kinda. But I have a subbie friend who after chatting online and by telephone with someone that she would become his registered slave. This was last spring. All the promises sounded so good, but here it is another year and they still haven't met in person, she still waits for him online all day to throw her a bone and just got her nipple pierced because he wanted them healed when they do meet. BTW she is in her 40's and has been in several d/s relationships in the past. I just don't get it!
 
I'm really glad you listened to the voices screaming inside your head. Mine seem to be alot smarter than I am, i know that!

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 2:47:14 PM   
BabyGirlOooh


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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

I think you all need to quit picking on her and just give her a cookie.


Hahahhhaahaha.......... I agree  totally.......
 
I think that an oreo  double stuff is in order....... since she didn't git double stuffed in person by that non-master..... Thank US..... and her red flags/,,,,,, (notice the LOWER case m heh heh- Ize learnin lol) 
 
And lickin THAT oreo  cream is yummyyyyy too.
 
Gotta tell y'all - I am totally impressed with the forums - and all of the support that y'all give us.................. and the humor makes it even bettah.......
 
 Geeeezuzzzzzzzz.... am I gonna hafta  read ALL of em???
 
I just logged on to em to play the word games and read the jokes lol................
 
Ize addicted - fuggedabodit lol.....................
 
"Leave the gun - Take the cannolli's "
 
xo

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 7:00:25 PM   
hrnybutshy


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Status: offline 		Thank you all. It is really nice to know there is support out there. This is my last post as hrnybutshy as I heeded yet more wonderful advice and really took a lok at my profile and the impression it was giving others. I have created a new profile and a new nic. Hopefully I will have better experiences now. I have most assuredly learned some very valuable lessonsinhere today. Thanks agian.

no longer hrnybutshy  

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RE: New and a little Scared - 1/31/2007 7:19:46 PM   
MaryT


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ORIGINAL: Noah

quote:

ORIGINAL: mymasterssub69

*hugs*

private meetings alone with anyone (vanilla or lifestyler) for the 1st time is an absolute no-no

*whew*


So I've been doing it wrong all these years?  Thanks for explaining the one twue absolute way!


My first time in the field involved a private home, lots of bondage, a blindford, numerous toys and spending the night in his bed.  We did meet for lunch in a public place before all that, but I wouldn't trade the private time of my 1st time for the world. 

I'm hoping for an even better experience this weekend, and it will be another first date. Sometimes it takes a little moxie (which I learned this week was actually a soft drink before it was a word) to make good things happen.  I can "safe" myself right into paralysis if that's my focus.  But I trust my BS detector.  The OP's suitor would likely have been sent to my recycle bin at the first letter, but I've learned a lot since I started, which was a remarkably short time ago.

MaryT 


< Message edited by MaryT -- 1/31/2007 7:26:01 PM >

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