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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/20/2007 7:40:59 PM   
mya75


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Status: offline 		Leads by example,caring and has the patience to spend the time it takes to train the sub/slave

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/20/2007 10:22:09 PM   
Kellendra


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ORIGINAL: nella

i would say he or she would be:

Honest
Self Asured
Good at Comunication.
Inteligent
Strict but also have a tender side
Have a good sense of humor.


May I place an order for one of them please?

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 1:16:52 AM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Place an order? Go to Dom Depot... i wish it was that easy...LOL

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 9:21:29 AM   
amayos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me?


A Women who has Her life in order shows promise upon a cursory glance. Upon a closer look: does She lead well? Does She inspire? Does She continue to evolve and grow? Is She trustworthy? Does She balance empathy and the whip with good measure? Are Her visions beautiful and imaginative—even if dark? Though admittedly relative to each person, all these things and so may more are required, but always is the reaching, reaching toward the divine—the inherent responsibility to embody Her state of Goddess.



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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 12:25:11 PM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		I had been under consideration of a Master for all of 8 days. It is over. I am too insecure and impatient. he says he was going to be coming to town in november . he said he would get me iternerary later. I asked for a rough idea of the days. he said I would have to wait. I admitted I would be insecure until I got this info so I knew he was sincere. All hell broke loose. Was it too soon to be asking for contact info? was it so wrong of me to seek veriafiable proof that he was going to do what he said? Am I too insecure and too impatient? He said I should be more honest about what I needed from the beginning as he was not a mind reader, but he has ended it based on this. how would you have handled this?

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 12:40:45 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		Because every Dom/Domme is different and unique in their own ways, i'll take my Dom as an example. He willing to listen, willing to lend his opinion (even if i don't agree with him), there to talk, strict but caring, knowing what my hard limits are and won't press them, know's how to work with me to make me a good sub. Being a gentleman when we go out for lunch, and being a Dom inside. He has a great personality and we both enjoy each other's company. Those are also traits that i look for in everyday life when meeting new people. Not neccessarily all of them, but mostly a good personality, someone that i can talk to, a person that i can as well listen and give my opinion.

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 4:20:59 PM   
MDTopCouple


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quote:

ORIGINAL: happypervert

quote:

Anything else to be added?

Don't forget the red cape with the big "S" on it


Shouldn't that be a big "D"? 

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 6:39:23 PM   
MRandme


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Status: offline 		i can't add to the list of general traits, but can give examples firsthand.

Meeting someone you've met online is a risky business, we all know that. When i started communicating with the man who came to be my Master, there were several things He did that let me know He was genuine -- not as a Dom but as a person, since He is my first. Among those things: His insistance on my having a safe call and meeting in public; His patience in answering soooo many questions without ever making me feel stupid for asking; His statement that i would never pay for anything when we met (i'm a struggling single mom) and that it was non-negotiable; He insisted that my kids be my priority.

Since becoming my Master, He has continued to show a concern for my well-being in His orders to me, showing His respect for me and what i offer Him. As i have said before, i was very lucky to have found Him as my first because a bad experience would have had me running from the lifestyle in a heartbeat.

While it is easy to say that a bad Dom would do this thing or that, a good one is easy to spot by the way they act as well.

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Sweet be your dreams, may your happiness swell,
I'll leave you here, for my journey begins
i've gone to be with Him again...

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RE: What are the signs/traits of a good Dom/me? - 10/21/2007 9:01:02 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		~~FR~~ At least if a thread is going to be resurected make it a good one like this...I saw my dear friend from earlier days, Lady Angelika, and it reminded me of how much I miss her and how much sense she made......**thinks back to the days of the "4 dommes" on the boards and starts to reminisce***

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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