MaryT
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ORIGINAL: findmedaddy Mary? Some of us are looking online to find someone to be with r/t. It's kind of painful to read all these posts about how anyone who is online only (for the moment, anyway) just doesn't deserve any consideration from those of you who have found what we seek. I live in a very rural area, and don't have access to resources like munches and parties less than several hours away. Me too and I haven't attended a munch or party for many years. My only consideration when I read such a post is that it is not about flesh-on-flesh, and I cannot relate to that, let alone swallow being told how it all works based on that. Also my success in finding r/l people online that I want to meet has been 90% failure. A whole lot of work with a very limited chance of success, but the one success was a stellar experience - a local man whom I did not meet on this site. My current squeeze I did not meet online. We've known each other for years. Is it possible that there is someone locally who is in the closet too? I highly recommend finding a way to attend an event, even if you have to invest hours. Also, expanding your search beyond these boards, beyond free boards, was helpful for me. My initial fears were overwhelming, but once my feet were wet, I dove in head first. A little pluck and mettle can go a long way. Good luck! Your daddy is out there somewhere. MaryT
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