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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:31:11 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Ok in all seriousness... I to suck my thumb have since I was a baby my parents where on me to stop which never helped I to had that spikey thing attached to the roof of my mouth... it conveniently fell out at lunch one day and I accidently threw it out with the rest of the stuff on my lunch tray.. Then there where the band aids oh and that nasty stuff that gets painted on and tastes really nasty.. Oh yeah I also went to a hypnotist!!! none of it worked. It is something that just relaxes me and as a person that is always rather nervouse haveng something that relaxes me is importent. Its a security thing.. Master has asked me how attached I am to sucking my thumb... Is it something he would like me to stop yes but in the big picture it just isnt that importent.. It doesnt take away from me beeing his slave or beeing able to do the things he asks of me I dont do it while we are out so I dont embaress him. I guess it is something we will eventually tackle maybe if it ever becomes a real problem.. You should really talk to your Master if it something you dont feel you can give up or will be to hard at this point in the relationship.. If you dont want to stop or dont know if you can him asking you to may just be setting you up for failure. And if this is just the begining of your relationship I would question why he would be picking on this something that is really insegnificant as far as beeing a slave goes... I dont know just my opinion

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:38:27 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		i jsut don't think he realises how hard this will be...i think he might think it is just like a little thing i do.... i'm going to talk to him and see exactly what it is he wants....me o stop all together....just stop while i'm awake or just stop when he's around.....some good advice so far though.....

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:39:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear kate, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
As far as suggestions go, I wish I could send you my mother's cooking as it would be something for the thumb to host and would repell you most well indeed.
 
Cotton gloves may work better than rubber gloves but, I would make an effort to try all sorts of gloves.  Putting a splint on both thumbs, tape it off may be of some assistance.  PVC pipe, or place into a tube and tape it off.  Try anything that iscolate the thumbs.
 
Since there is something that needs to replace the mouth association, suck on some ice, suck on a carrot stick, apple--a straw.
 
Perhaps knitting or taking up the art of making lace, which requires the hands to remain busy--you can learn a much needed art craft.  The art of glove making is not exactly flowing with quality craftsman.
Perhaps something else rewarding may take the place of the old habit.
 
Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:43:16 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		right now...as i am writing here...i'm sucking on a magnet...i have eaten 4 chocolate bars today trying to kep my mouth busy, lol...i'm going to gain 50Lbs!...but yea, i'll go out tomorow and get a new crosstich or learn to knit or something.....i hope the magnet works so i don't blow up like a blimp, lol

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:44:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

i jsut don't think he realises how hard this will be...i think he might think it is just like a little thing i do.... i'm going to talk to him and see exactly what it is he wants....me o stop all together....just stop while i'm awake or just stop when he's around.....some good advice so far though.....


The biggest thing to talk to him about is that you may not be able to stop... I know I have tried and tried but I literaly cant stop.. I am more in controll of when I do it but isnt something I have ever been able to quite it is something ruited so deeply in me that emotionaly I need it. It doesnt hurt anyone or anything so why fuck with it.

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:44:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

does anyone have any more suggestions or stories about how they did something like this?...anyone else ever asked to stop a habbit like this be a Dom?....


I remember when I stopped.. I was 5 years old.  I just wanted to please my parents.
 
Life is going to get tougher.  When this infantile behavior starts affecting your jobs... maybe you will be motivated.  I'm sure it's embarassing as hell to your Dom.
 
 (I'm being intentionally rough here.. in hopes she gets an "ah-ha" moment and it triggers the cessation.  Unfortunately, it involves shame.  Don't MAKE me whip out the Jewish/Catholic quilt trip on you)

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 2/11/2007 7:45:48 PM >

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:47:41 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		i don't do it in public...nobody ever sees me do it aside from my friends.... his reason for wanting me to stop was   (not a direct quote)  "your mouth s for food, water and my cock...nothing else".....

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:48:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		when I was a kid I had a hard time stopping thumb sucking.  So my grandfather bought some kind of liquid (I have no idea what it was) and he covered my thumb with it every hour ... the stuff tasted horrid ... I quit sucking rather quickly ... maybe it's why I don't like b/j ... bad association ... hehe

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:49:47 PM   
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quote:

i have tried the taste bas stuff *no bite* and i actually aquired a taste for it, lol
quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

blushing....i do it all the time...watching tv...chatting online...all the time...i have tried the taste bas stuff  *no bite* and i actually aquired a taste for it, lol

I had the same problem!  I would switch to the other hand until it wore off, or I'd just deal with it until it went away.  Maybe it's the masochist in us...

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:50:55 PM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		Hey just a thought!!  But if my first suggestion cant work for what ever reason maybe try duct tape! 
Tape your best friend up to the hand she/he is attached to.  Has to taste bad, wont fit right and will be a
constant reminder you've got to quit! 

now if that only worked for smokes......... 
(it's always a trade off)  sigh.


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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:50:59 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		oh, blushing...you can switch hands?....only the right one worls for me....the right one tastes like strawberries and the left one tasts like spit, lol

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:52:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is a hard thing...I suck my little fingers...bite them a bit actually and now I have calicus <can't spell? on them........noone has asked me to stop so is not a big problem other than they hurt at times.  I have tried to stop myself.......what helps me is i chew on something else...usually a straw....or one of those plastic sticks you use to mix drinks......

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:54:07 PM   
MagiksSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

oh, blushing...you can switch hands?....only the right one worls for me....the right one tastes like strawberries and the left one tasts like spit, lol


LOL I have heard that some thumb suckers can only suck one thumb me I cant suck on the same thumb for to long befor I feel like I need to switch them...LOL like a magnetic forse or something!!

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:55:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can only switch hands when I have to.  I suck the right one, but when I was a kid and the right one was made unavailable and I really needed the fix, I'd switch.
I don't do it in public either, though I have been known to go hide in the bathroom or stairwell or elevator while at work and suck for a second if something really stressful happened, because there's that endorphin hit.
I think you do need to make it clear what emotional comfort you get from it, and that it is an unconscious action.

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:57:53 PM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: blushingflower

I can only switch hands when I have to.  I suck the right one, but when I was a kid and the right one was made unavailable and I really needed the fix, I'd switch.
I don't do it in public either, though I have been known to go hide in the bathroom or stairwell or elevator while at work and suck for a second if something really stressful happened, because there's that endorphin hit.
I think you do need to make it clear what emotional comfort you get from it, and that it is an unconscious action.




Ok now I feel a lot better.. I have been know to excuse myself to the bathroom if I really feel like I need to suck my tumb for a while.. I dont suck my thumb in public eather but sometimes I just need to so I go hide!!


(me waits for the thread to pop up now about "Why do all slaves suck their thumbs" LOL)


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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 7:58:57 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		OMG! i thaught i was the only person ever to go hide in a washroom or other small place to do that!....like in the middle of an exam at school or when something breaks at work......at least it's good to know that other people do the same thing

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 8:00:42 PM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: kate

OMG! i thaught i was the only person ever to go hide in a washroom or other small place to do that!....like in the middle of an exam at school or when something breaks at work......at least it's good to know that other people do the same thing


((hands out thumb suckers anonamus cards out to blushing and kate.. meeting place in the handycap stall in the public bathroom))

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 8:01:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am impressed!  Someone that can switch thumbs!!  I'm OLD, but I remember well that the other one just wasnt ever as good!  

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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 8:02:05 PM   
kate


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RE: hard habbit to break - 2/11/2007 8:03:16 PM   
MagiksSlave


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ORIGINAL: Quivver

I am impressed!  Someone that can switch thumbs!!  I'm OLD, but I remember well that the other one just wasnt ever as good!  


LOL Im ambidexterouse

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