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BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Spotting a Fake Dom (2/28/2007 2:11:19 PM)

Thats a good tip off and "what is a typical day in the life of your slaves" expecially if its one of the first things on the page throws up the red flags...bounty




subsidize -> RE: Spotting a Fake Dom (2/28/2007 7:42:07 PM)

welcome to the club,...




boigirl -> RE: Spotting a Fake Dom (2/28/2007 8:45:03 PM)

It sounds like you want someone who will play with you mentally AND physically both in and out of the bed. Not all doms are like that. But many are.




sugarcandy -> RE: Spotting a Fake Dom (3/4/2007 3:21:21 PM)

 Thoughts and questions :

Is a dom always a master?  Can one be a superior showman and scene man, yet inferior as a master?
Are play skills the same as relationship skills?
Are both the words dom and master synonymous?
Same goes for sub and slave, of course.

Something to think about.
And, yes, all have various likes and dislikes. Milage many vary.




allofmee -> RE: Spotting a Fake Dom (3/5/2007 7:01:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

You haven't found a fake dom- you've found a man who identifies himself as a dominant who can't keep dates or is too scared to progress in a relationship right now.

In order to identify a fake dom, you'll first have to identify a dom.  I'm afraid a person can be a total asshole loser and still be a dominant.  I can be a dom and only want to ever have horny hot kinky sex and never expressly show any other signs of traditional dominance...and I'd still be a dom.

This really isn't any different than any vanilla situation- would you go out with a guy if he'd blown off a date with you that easily?  Forget the labeling- you'll only paint yourself into a corner.


TY LuckyAlbatross.

Yeah, we need to use our heads.

Whats worse some times we hear of "doms" who are even afraid of hot kinky sex!
They are called... <looking in kinkionary dictionary>  "WANKERS"





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