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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:37:44 PM   
juliaoceania


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what about that Buckaroo Banzai!

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:39:23 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I demand the right to be demanding lol.

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:39:53 PM   
touchthesky


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Status: offline 		well hey there azzmaster! i gotta say i enjoy ur posts. Alot of the Doms that write to me start out actin all high minded but when the initial chat fades its all basically about the sex they want and questions about bra size. At least ur not fakin about what u like and i love it when you get peoples noses all twisted outa shape,your about my favorite poster

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:45:50 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: scottjk

I think his point was something along the lines of what I noticed.
One example I can provide off the top of my head is one sub insisted that her potential dom had to have a flat-top haircut, or it was a deal breaker. Normally, I would have shrugged, but when she stated an age range that was in the 20s, I was a bit... amused. :) Especially considering that in my area, a flat-top is as rare as hen's teeth. :)

A sub with critera is just fine with me. It sorts the intelligent from the vacuous. :)
Of course, I gravitate toward the intelligent. ;)


I have seen 50 year old doms that want 18 year old subs that are between 5 foot 1 and five foot 2, red headed and under 100 lbs... seriously I did see one such profile.. so there are people with unreasonable expectations.. they will grow old and bitter from lonliness.. who cares?

Find the one that is looking for someone like you and who cares about the rest, right?

I see nothing wrong in being demanding while one looks for someone to give their power to. If submission is something of value, then only those who merit it should have it, and one can only find someone of merit if one demands it.

I am glad I approached it the way I did, because my Daddy is a catch, and he would not have been attracted had I been willing to be submissive to him right off the bat..

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:48:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: BalletBob

Buckaroo Banzai? I thought I was the only one who seen that movie. I wish I was the girl, in the part where she is TIED to that machine......well, tied down anyway.

Sub BalletBob


My Daddy and I watched that together the first time I went to his place...it was a trippy movie


I figured since she did not have it listed as a hard limit on her profile, it was all good.

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:51:46 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: scottjk

I think his point was something along the lines of what I noticed.
One example I can provide off the top of my head is one sub insisted that her potential dom had to have a flat-top haircut, or it was a deal breaker. Normally, I would have shrugged, but when she stated an age range that was in the 20s, I was a bit... amused. :) Especially considering that in my area, a flat-top is as rare as hen's teeth. :)

A sub with critera is just fine with me. It sorts the intelligent from the vacuous. :)
Of course, I gravitate toward the intelligent. ;)


Are you serious?  There is a sub who feels her Dom should wear a mullet?

Ape Drape = hard limit for me. 

I suppose this means I will grow old and bitter and lonely.

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:53:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		i'm kinda pickey... but i don't think that is demanding...i like men and women between 22 and 30 who are over 5 foot 10 and have some post secondary education...it is not demanding...i am not telling everyone to get young, tall and educated...i am just saying that thay are things that are important to me.......i would not submit to someone i was not attracted to, that would be just silly of me.....as for the flat top hair cut *giggle* i wish her the best of luck

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:54:20 PM   
bastardandthewen


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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:55:27 PM   
juliaoceania


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Are you serious?  There is a sub who feels her Dom should wear a mullet?

Ape Drape = hard limit for me. 

I suppose this means I will grow old and bitter and lonely.

Sinergy


Doms have limits... color me so shocked I will fall over on the floor

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:56:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bastardandthewen

i think flat top is a buzzcut, like those sported by millitary men.


Whew.

I was about to turn in my DomCard in protest.

The unmitigated gall of suggesting that I am not a Dom because I refuse to sport a Norco Neckwarmer.

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 10:57:57 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		can we stop talking about the buiseness up front party in the back hair?.....it creeps me out

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:01:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kate

can we stop talking about the buiseness up front party in the back hair?.....it creeps me out


Boy, it sure is a good thing you ASKED and did not demand!

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:02:33 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: bastardandthewen

quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

can we stop talking about the buiseness up front party in the back hair?.....it creeps me out


Boy, it sure is a good thing you ASKED and did not demand!


Well we all know what they call demanding subs, and it rhymes with lake

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:02:42 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		lol, i *could* be demanding about it i suppose   "STOP TALKING ABOUT MULLETS!!!!!".... but that just woulden' be me *coy smile*

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:03:49 PM   
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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:04:50 PM   
duckykarma


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Status: offline 		i have had a few Dom's get snippity with me because I list what I absolutly WONT do..for example I put in there that i dont do blow jobs well i understand that its a deal breaker for some and if your a man that LOVES bj's dont bother emailing me...I also had one man suggest that I be a Domme because of my additute on my profile. I dont think I had an attitude I was just stating facts and know what i will not do...I know that it will take me longer to find a Dom but im willing to wait for the right person and get what I want then to lie to myself and settle..that isnt going to do anyone any good..hell its going to come out eventually why not be right up front about it?

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:10:17 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		you don't do blow jobs?....i didn't think tere were people who didn't do blow jobs.....i learn something new every day

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:15:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		well its the same reason i wont call anyone daddy....if you can put 2 and 2 together then you will understand......

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:17:21 PM   
touchthesky


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Status: offline 		life without doing blowjobs would indeed lack spice.
its one of my many hobbies, LOL
i think there is a difference between people being selective and insanely demanding. i think unreasonable people either end up alone or end up with very strange people, so it sorts itself out

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RE: Demanding Subs!!! - 2/22/2007 11:19:39 PM   
CrazyC


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Status: offline 		But i demand that my Dom be perfect! He should be able to know every thought, and finish my sentances. He should bring me breakfast in bed and provide everything for me....and if he can't. Then he shouldn't demand sex from me. hehehe

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