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Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 4:30:15 PM   
fusion


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    I write this as a mission statement for my purpose for being on collarme.  As I have explored this word I have come to see the hightest goal is the Master/slave relationship.  So I wil define my understanding of a Master a "Master/slave" relationship its quaities and qualifactions, the slaves nature, what I consider to be only"good" reason to desire to be a slave.
   Then the process of the slave surrendering her power of choice,being trained and condidtioned to serve.  Motivation, attitude rewards and punishment needed  to abtain the stated goals.
    Those who have read, Hegels dialectic on "Master/slave" know that conquered forced slavery will kill both master and slave in the end.  So we have to redefine Master/slavery in this world.  I say that is a a synergy of a naturally dominant man and a naturally submissive women.  Agreeing to let their natures expand and murge with each other.  He recieves the power and get the massive respocsibility of owning and totally controling anothers life.  She recieves the reward of her efforts being observed and apprecieated or of being nothing and unnoticed.  (One of the many things a master has to know of his slaves nature!?)   Accepts set goals and expectations set for her to achive in order to please and shape herself to her masters needs and desires.  This is done by forcing her to self exaimine her feeling and beliefs.  Set expectations, training ,rewards and punishment the safety of rules the freedom of no decisions.
     What does this mster require of himself? much, much indeed.  First experience, knowlege and skills necessary to re-eduacate and re-socialize someone.  Not  break them down, use them up, then put them to finding their replacement like so many have been put to on here.  Instead to hold them to higher standards to improve their value and worth to me and themselfs.   Second, keep her safe, to remove those things in life she is not ment or able to bear alone.. Accept the ownership of her, this is not a short term thing more likely a lifetime comittment.  I as master must of mastered my own life with years of stabiity and integrity. 
    What is required of the slave? Everything body, mind, spirit and the most precious of all her heart.   The most tender vulnerable of all hearts: a slaves heart.   When I  read a in a profile "I was born to be a slave " I know that is the best and only good reason to be a slave, from  a very precious rare unbroken slave spirit..  I will  soon own cherish and protect one of those precious few hearts   This is all she needs to serve and please, for her  to feel her Masters disappointment or disapproval the cruelest punishment of all to her.

So when this man seems to ask too many questions as he trys to bring you out slow and careful, know you are being paid the highest compliment he looking for his perfect match.  Fusion

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 4:44:08 PM   
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quote:

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I say that is a a synergy of a naturally dominant man and a naturally submissive women.  Agreeing to let their natures expand and murge with each other. 

How heterosexually gender stereotypic of you :)

I could go into details- but really, keep your unrealistic hindering fantasy, and I'll keep my real life.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 4:51:45 PM   
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Well.  Good luck with that.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 5:25:23 PM   
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That was an impressively long piece of drivel. Anything of worth you might have said was lost in the overwlming abundance of rash assumptions. You should consider your audience more carefully the next time!

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 5:33:23 PM   
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It does come across as overly fantasized and uber-romantisized.

Best wishes in your search.


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 5:35:43 PM   
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quote:

   I write this as a mission statement for my purpose for being on collarme.

Lemme guess -- the real mission is to impress some chicks with your domly wisdom. As stef said, good luck with that!


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 5:38:09 PM   
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I am so happy to know that my husband isn't the only one to occassionally suffer a god complex here and there ... LMAO

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 5:59:44 PM   
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I would have read this but I'm too busy enjoying my sub-standard "owner/kitten" relationship. Nice ego there buddy.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 6:05:50 PM   
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i think what we do is really the natural order of things, just in the modern world it got lost

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 6:06:10 PM   
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So if you are not a slave and you are not a master, you just suck... especially those confounding switches that keep cropping up annoyingly

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 6:16:21 PM   
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He dips His lid to all.

Well Fusion in the concept of Male Dom- s I thoroughly agree with your comment- ""  I as master must of mastered my own life with years of stabiity and integrity. "" if it was worded- I as Master must have mastered my own life with years of stability and integrity.  This I think you would do with actions rather than just words.  

I strongly suggest that you do your posts on 'Word'  to spell and grammar check first then copy n paste to here.  

I personally find it offensive/alarm ringing that a sub may contact me for some form of consideration yet she can't find the integrity/time to get her grammar/spelling correct.  Many subs consider likewise and I suggest that most Dominants of the integrity that you speak of would be amused!

Wam regards to all.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 6:17:15 PM   
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nice read though i subsituted "Master" and "slave" for "Daddy/Dom" and "daughter/submissive".

i get the same and more in my relationship with Daddy as His submissive however at least He doesn't have to force me examine my self beliefs and feelings. 

wishing you luck in your search




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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 6:42:13 PM   
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cute, but, well, ultimately very narrow, not to mention romanticized.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 6:52:31 PM   
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You lost me at "Highest of Relationships".  You won't get much support here for your superiority complex.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 7:34:54 PM   
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Many thanks.  I needed a good laugh tonight.
I can't wait to murge.


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 7:37:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

i think what we do is really the natural order of things, just in the modern world it got lost


Which order? Male dom/fem sub or vice versa?

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 8:06:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Many thanks.  I needed a good laugh tonight.
I can't wait to murge.



I'm hoping to be  re-eduacated soon!

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 8:12:39 PM   
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Fusion, you should have set this over in Gor.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 8:16:13 PM   
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To all my critics thank you for your imput.  I will read and consider each and everyone of them.  Yes,I am writing it to one person,  I have moved beyond hogties and dom struting.  I have moved beyond  just knowlege want to discover the metaphysical of this world.
As to sexual roles even the most gay or lesbian of relationships are shaped on the man/woman dynamic the the D/s power relationship.   I don't have to be politically correct nor will I be.  I am not interested in presenting my thoughts run through grammar and spell check.
I am a man with flaws one who is trying to rise above his fixed existing believes and feelings seeking higher levels, all this life can be.  I am seeking the woman who feels the same as I do.  I am certainly no "Atlas Shrugged"  yet I know that and "unexamined life is not worth living",  that we only pass this way once and with the magic that TPE can produce I want to go as far as I can take it.  Fusion




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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/23/2007 8:19:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Many thanks.  I needed a good laugh tonight.
I can't wait to murge.



I'm hoping to be  re-eduacated soon!


Oh dear. You girls are ruthless. 

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