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SusanofO -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/27/2007 7:47:29 PM)
Not yet. Could be interesting.. - Susan.

GoddessGreed -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 12:00:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain You did say you felt the need to rant and thanked us for listening. I’m not sure what you expected to hear, but maybe you got exactly what you wanted and you feel better? Are you searching for approval or maybe disapproval? I mean what is the story behind you posting here instead of talking it over with a friend if you expected a totally sympathetic ear? Maybe you just wanted the banter? In any case, good luck. I wanted interesting opinions, which i got ..i wasnt looking for approval or disapproval, it doesnt make any difference to me, I still enjoy doing it, I still make a little money, and I will still continue to do it, and call myself what i choose to :) No matter what anyone says, or chooses to call what I do, I am catering for a fetish that many men have...they know the deal, and it's what they want, nobody loses, nobody is harmed. There are many women that do this, and they call themselves financial doms, if we all start calling ourselves something different it would confuse the hell out of men and they wouldnt know where to look! its just a label, does it really matter?

GoddessGreed -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 12:36:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azzmaster if u can find suckas who want to send u money hey, cool. but its a hustle. just call it what it is. I may be wrong but I thought a hustler was someone who tries to decieve people into giving them money, if so, how can you say what i do is hustling? Just the fact I call myself a financial dom is telling people what Im about, men search especially for a financial dom if that is there fetish, they know what its about, know what is expected, and it is their thing. NOBODY is deceived.

Isaidnow -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 1:14:23 AM)
I require £10,000 by the end of May, any offers lol lol Ok if someone is going to be a financial Dom/me and a sub/slave wants to do it fair enough, their choice. Doesn't sit right with me at the moment, maybe thats because I get enjoyment out of being Domme. But as I say to my kids, never say you don't enjoy it until you've tried it.

Tristan -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 3:27:26 AM)
It's interesting that there are no posts from men who are into this fetish. I suspect the reason there are no posts is that the male side of this fetish is simply paying for a service, but I could be wrong. This may be much more of a female fetish than a male fetish, but I'm not going to claim to be an expert. I would still like to know how much you're pulling down on an hourly basis.

izzybella -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 3:50:21 AM)
Sorry this is just someone who wishes to blow her own trumpet. The only person I see here who really has the problem with what she does is the OP. Why else would she feel the need to defend herself?? I dont see millions of people around the world complaining about her doing her thing, that is until she brings the subject up herself...

Jasmyn -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 4:15:22 AM)
Oh trust me ... it's common as muck in these parts to knock the pro dominant ... so yeah... not quite millions but a quick search would bring up at least 300 threads from people bemoaning the subject ...

rascallymisty -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 6:49:51 AM)
I am a business owner so I am paid for what I do. I also have to pay taxes on the money I recieve. It has been asked several time if you do pay and you have yet to answer...I was wondering the same thing. Also a few have stated that these men offer you these gifts of money....and yet you have stated more than once and I only pulled a few where you have made it very clear that you are asking for the money up front. "I wouldnt consider my 'slaves' to be in control just because they are the ones paying, I specify how much I require, and they either pay or they get blocked, its not like i give in to any whining and let them skip a tribute or 2, or pay less than I ask for.......GoddessGreed" and then again..."If someone contacts me and offers money for abusive emails etc...like you said you had, i would decline, they are then, as many say, the ones that are controlling me. I do not do as im asked for payment. ....GoddessGreed" I like many others see nothing wrong if the money is offered as it is someones fetish, but what you state you are doing seems to be illegal, unless you are claiming your income. My question to you is..... if you are claiming it what do you claim it as being...what sort of income? An if you are not claiming it then it is illegal what you are doing yes? ~ misty~ PS ...sorry for any misspellings as I am writing this as I am heading out the door to go to work. I am also not trying to flame you just asking some questions since you brought this to an open forum for all to talk about.

GoddessGreed -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 9:29:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: izzybella Sorry this is just someone who wishes to blow her own trumpet. The only person I see here who really has the problem with what she does is the OP. Why else would she feel the need to defend herself?? I dont see millions of people around the world complaining about her doing her thing, that is until she brings the subject up herself... I feel no need to defend myself, and I have no problem with what I do, I was looking for opinions, which is, after all, what the forum is for

GoddessGreed -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 9:33:29 AM)
[I could say yes I do pay taxes, and nobody would believe me, or I could say no i dont, and be jumped upon! So instead Ill just say, whether I pay tax or not is my business, and nothing to do with the OP :)

crouchingtigress -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 9:46:25 AM)
hi domiguy...i am gonna jump in here if you dont mind...you ask the question who controls if the sub is paying, and you make a fair point...my thought on that is there is no difference weather money or power or both is exchanged...power exchange is really an illusion....even in a situation where a sub is not paying he or she can still decide or not decide to do something...the power is lent to the dom, but ultimately resides with the sub...and it is vise versa as well....i am not sure money changes that equation at all.

WhiplashSmile -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 10:32:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tristan It's interesting that there are no posts from men who are into this fetish. I suspect the reason there are no posts is that the male side of this fetish is simply paying for a service, but I could be wrong. This may be much more of a female fetish than a male fetish, but I'm not going to claim to be an expert. Financial domination All depends upon how you look at it. You can dominate somebody not only by taking their money but by providing them with money or gifts in exchange for control. Some have mastered a balance using both techniques. Whereas, the slave gives all there money to the Dom/me... and the Dom/me will keep all of it. The Dom/me will from time to time provide the sub/slave with gifts, money or rewards. This amount always being lesser than what the Sub gave. Hence finacial gain or profit. Some Dom/mes encourage their sub/slaves to work and contribute towards household upkeep. Thus the Dom/me is not paying for everything, which can be a savings. Some refuse to let a sub/slave work, they pay for everything and the sub/slave becomes financially dependent upon the Dom/me for everything.. Food, Shelter, Clothing... you name it. Some Dom/mes will make have their sub/slaves perform work for them, which they make money from. If the Dom/me owns a business or is into an Enterprising Endevor. This could be range from running a home based business to sexual prostition. In the end the Dom/me makes a buck off from the sub/slaves work. There are many shades of Finanical Domination.

Tristan -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 5:38:03 PM)
Ok, I still would like to know how much you are pulling in on an hourly basis. lol. After reading the posts, it sure sounds like you are exchanging your services for money. There is nothing wrong with this as we are all doing it. I get paid to do my job. If my employer refuses to pay, pays less than I demand, or skips a payment or two, I simply don't show up. This seems to be exactly what you are doing when you block someone. Am I dominanting my employer? We have an arrangement. Both of us understand this to be an arrangement...not domination. We are both free to end the relationship when ever we want. Because I've not seen any posts from male subs into financial domination, I'm guessing this is mainly a female fetish. I see financial domination listed on quite a few female dominant profiles, but none of the male submissive profiles I've seen. I'm guessing that males use this female fetish to have their needs met. I would really be interested in hearing from the male sub side of the equation.

WhiplashSmile -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 6:15:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tristan Because I've not seen any posts from male subs into financial domination, I'm guessing this is mainly a female fetish. I see financial domination listed on quite a few female dominant profiles, but none of the male submissive profiles I've seen..... Tristan, I think this applies to subs as well, some will be your slave as long as the money is flowing their way! Be she a Domme or Sub... end of the day... they just want your fucking money. Ummmmm... Funny how all those Vanilla guys talk about handing their paychecks over to women at the end of the week... How, even the Vanilla women make jokes about this as well... Mmmmmmm.... Don't think this is a BDSM exclusive activity

AAkasha -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 6:45:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rascallymisty I am a business owner so I am paid for what I do. I also have to pay taxes on the money I recieve. It has been asked several time if you do pay and you have yet to answer...I was wondering the same thing. Also a few have stated that these men offer you these gifts of money....and yet you have stated more than once and I only pulled a few where you have made it very clear that you are asking for the money up front. "I wouldnt consider my 'slaves' to be in control just because they are the ones paying, I specify how much I require, and they either pay or they get blocked, its not like i give in to any whining and let them skip a tribute or 2, or pay less than I ask for.......GoddessGreed" and then again..."If someone contacts me and offers money for abusive emails etc...like you said you had, i would decline, they are then, as many say, the ones that are controlling me. I do not do as im asked for payment. ....GoddessGreed" I like many others see nothing wrong if the money is offered as it is someones fetish, but what you state you are doing seems to be illegal, unless you are claiming your income. My question to you is..... if you are claiming it what do you claim it as being...what sort of income? An if you are not claiming it then it is illegal what you are doing yes? ~ misty~ PS ...sorry for any misspellings as I am writing this as I am heading out the door to go to work. I am also not trying to flame you just asking some questions since you brought this to an open forum for all to talk about. How it should be claimed on taxes is "Gifts for Consideration" (that's the term, I believe). I do everything by the book, so even gifts I don't solicit get claimed. Financial femdoms, better watch out for the tax man! Akasha

Tristan -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 7:00:06 PM)
Whiplashsmile, I agree, many people are looking for a money in exchange for a "relationship". I think you are right in that money exchange occurs in both the vanilla and bdsm world. However, based on what I've read on this post, "financial domination" appears to be a female based fetish. It appears to be something that many women really get off on, and men go along with in order to have their needs met. I could be wrong this. As I said before, I would love to hear from male financial dominantion submissives. Tristan

azzmaster -> RE: 'Real doms' (2/28/2007 8:40:32 PM)
well tristan, funny u should say that... i was once a male financial domination submissive, begging online dommes to send them my paycheck. then one day a fine young thing begged me fuck n fist her in the ass and poof! my fascination with being financially dominated online was gone and my fascination with dominating ass began...it costs less and i nut more

GoddessGreed -> RE: 'Real doms' (3/1/2007 12:13:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azzmaster well tristan, funny u should say that... i was once a male financial domination submissive, begging online dommes to send them my paycheck. then one day a fine young thing begged me fuck n fist her in the ass and poof! my fascination with being financially dominated online was gone and my fascination with dominating ass began...it costs less and i nut more you see, I personally, find fisting in the ass repulsive! but Im not going to flame you for it...each to there own wouldnt you say?

Tristan -> RE: 'Real doms' (3/1/2007 3:33:38 AM)
Hey Azzmaster, I'd love to hear more about your financial domination desires. Just curious, what was it that you got out of financial domination? Did you have to beg very much to get online dommes to take your paycheck? lol. I'd still love to know what a financial domme pulls in on an hourly basis. Tristan

azzmaster -> RE: 'Real doms' (3/1/2007 4:42:07 AM)
fortunately for me after about the 20th ass i reamed i got over my desire 2 be exploited by lazy cows, oh i m sorry i mean financial dommes. oh of course they resisted at 1st but i would beg n beg and they let me give them " tribute". oh yes those were the days

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