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canupleaseme -> RE: Dominants submit to requests? (2/27/2007 12:19:25 PM)
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I hope ive understood the question [&:]
When i started getting to know my boy we talked a lot about each others fantasies and what we liked with regards to bdsm. So when we are together I know what makes him submissive and i use that to my advantage, I don't see that as servicing his desires or wants, I see it as using him in an effective way to get what I want.
People have fantasies, thats how we progress in all this isnt it? We get new ideas about things we would like to do becasue it makes you fell either dominant or submisive? Well I feel thats where reward comes into it in our relationship.
If he has been doing his best and achieved sometihng for me that he has worked hard to do for me, I will ask him to sit and worship my feet while he tells me about anything that he has been thinking about a lot, a scene he hasnt stopped thining about , and i learn all about it I ask him why it would make him feel submissive.
Then i will plan that scene to the finest detail and tease him with it for weeks, then i will give him the scene when he isnt quite suspecting it. And then I will be able to watch my boy be so completely submissive to me and get that great big massive dominant high , that those perfect mind blowing scenes give you.
Who cares if it was his idea? I'm not doing it for his benefit at all. I'm doing it because while normal everyday D/s is great, those random perfect scenes I love to play, show me my boy at his finest . They make my heart soar and I feel so proud watching him submit to me.
Becasue he know knows being good gets this reward and what doing it all means to mean he loves to please me so any of his ideas are for my own benefit anyway. He is submitting himself to me.[:)]
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