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Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:00:56 PM   
makemeDaddy


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Status: offline 		i am interested in hearing about collar ceremonies ~ thoughts, opinions, experiences.
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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:11:13 PM   
cagedpassion


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i found this one of the most beautiful collaring ceremonies i have ever read. Like the perfect wedding, a dream.

passion
His caged slave

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:14:50 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		When he first put the collar on me it went something like this...

I flew in that afternoon.  He and alandra picked me up.  She drove while we had sex in the back of the van.  We stopped for pizza on the way home.  Then we went to a movie.  When we got home from the movie about midnight, he told alandra and I to strip and come down to the dungeon.

When we got into the dungeon, he had me kneel before him.  Alandra handed me the collar that he made for me to wear.  I presented it to him and he locked it around my neck.  Then we went to bed.

Not all that flashy or formal.  It was fun though.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:18:14 PM   
makemeDaddy


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ORIGINAL: cagedpassion

http://www.castlerealm.com/library/roseritual.shtml

i found this one of the most beautiful collaring ceremonies i have ever read. Like the perfect wedding, a dream.

passion
His caged slave


Thank you much for the link.  i enjoyed the story very much.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:18:54 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Hotel room at a leather conference one year after we met at a different event. she was on her knees as I took a pair of pliers and permanently wired on her necklace/collar. No big fancy ta-do, no proclamations of commitment. Just a "Do you accept?" followed by her, "Ma'am yes Ma'am!"

Of course, as it often goes, that collar didn't work out. she didn't know that wearing silver 24/7 would bother her skin so much. We had to change it for white gold...and I haven't had a chance to hardwire that one on. Don't really feel the need to now. she's mine.

It took almost a year before she was comfortable enough to petition me. I accepted her petition after about a week of thinking on it. she was collared the next month (Jan of 2006). Once she was collared, it took another year to hammer out the contract (if you read my book...that's our contract). We signed that completely in Jan 2007.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:23:02 PM   
makemeDaddy


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Status: offline 		i don't believe it needs to be flashy if it's 'right'. 

i have not yet received my collar, however Daddy told me that i was ready and i would receive it soon.    i of course am very excited about this.  Which got me thinking and wanted to hear about others experiences, thoughts and opions.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:27:36 PM   
Eve69


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Status: offline 		daddy??????????? ur Dom is called ur daddy???, i too am to recieve my collar soon..  1 st level

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:29:25 PM   
makemeDaddy


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Status: offline 		Congrats on your book Master Fire!


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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:31:27 PM   
makemeDaddy


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ORIGINAL: Eve69

daddy??????????? ur Dom is called ur daddy???, i too am to recieve my collar soon..  1 st level


Yes, i refer to my Dom as Daddy.  Here on this site he is known as TheManInCharge, but i refer to him as Daddy.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:32:47 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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ORIGINAL: Eve69

daddy??????????? ur Dom is called ur daddy???, i too am to recieve my collar soon..  1 st level


Daddy/girl and Daddy/boy relationships are a unique dynamic that exists in all kink communities, gay, lesbian, bi and het. If you want more info, just do a search using the search function at the top right of the page.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:34:10 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		after having a private dinner, Daddy ask me "do you accept this collar as my daughter and wear it as my submissive?" while sitting in the chair. He explained that this was the next phase of our relationship and that this ring will symbolize my eternal committment. i was nervous the entire evening especially when i heard the *clink* of my collar joining together.  in a matter of seconds i was collared once the cold metal rested around my neck. my wedding ring doesn't feel heavy now than it did nearly 2 months ago.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:34:19 PM   
Eve69


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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:37:06 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Okay kyra, why did I have this image in my head that your 'collaring' somehow had to include that evil BBQ brush that makes ownedgirlie all squicky?  hehe

I'm not yet collared and have no idea when or if that will happen.  He asked me one day if I craved the collar and I told Him I craved the committment and meaning behind the collar.  He could give me a dirty sock if it meant love and committment, although I would prefer something more in the line of metallic and shiny.

I have often wondered about sub/slaves begging for a collar.  I'm not sure I could ever do this (could be wrong though!) as I would see it as presumptuous on my part that He was ready and/or willing to make that committment.  Am I the only one that struggles with that thought?   Sorry makeme, didn't mean to hijack with that question.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:41:44 PM   
barefootgal


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Hotel room at a leather conference one year after we met at a different event. she was on her knees as I took a pair of pliers and permanently wired on her necklace/collar. No big fancy ta-do, no proclamations of commitment. Just a "Do you accept?" followed by her, "Ma'am yes Ma'am!"

Of course, as it often goes, that collar didn't work out. she didn't know that wearing silver 24/7 would bother her skin so much. We had to change it for white gold...and I haven't had a chance to hardwire that one on. Don't really feel the need to now. she's mine.

It took almost a year before she was comfortable enough to petition me. I accepted her petition after about a week of thinking on it. she was collared the next month (Jan of 2006). Once she was collared, it took another year to hammer out the contract (if you read my book...that's our contract). We signed that completely in Jan 2007.

Master Fire



Could you explain what you mean by "petition"? Is that the same as when someone says "begging" a collar?

Thanks, in advance.


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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:44:59 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Okay kyra, why did I have this image in my head that your 'collaring' somehow had to include that evil BBQ brush that makes ownedgirlie all squicky?  hehe



No, there was no SM during that.  I actually can't remember when the first time he used the BBQ brush on me.  I think it was over thanksgiving, around the same time he cut the swords into my thigh.  But then he was only testing it on me, to see how I liked it.  Since I got all glassy-eyed right away it was a good toy.

Thanks for bringing it up and helping me squick owned  *eg*

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:47:06 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

Thanks for bringing it up and helping me squick owned  *eg*

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Glad I could help!!

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 4:53:00 PM   
makemeDaddy


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Sorry makeme, didn't mean to hijack with that question.



No worries, i'm such a newbie i don't even know what you mean by hijack. lol

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 5:01:21 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: makemeDaddy

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Sorry makeme, didn't mean to hijack with that question.



No worries, i'm such a newbie i don't even know what you mean by hijack. lol



Ahahahaha well it's when you start discussing something different than the original topic.  Or in some cases, just going off into total silliness.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 5:04:19 PM   
makemeDaddy


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Status: offline 		Silly is good!  i must say i am quite curious about the BBQ story now though.

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RE: Collar Ceremony - 3/5/2007 5:30:34 PM   
valeca


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Status: offline 		Our collaring ceremony was a version of the Six Cord Ceremony associated with some Handfasting ceremonies. 

It was outside under a huge maple tree late at night with a single candle.  We spoke a few words about the commitment we were making, then joined hands.  Each of us had three cords (His-black, blue, purple.  Mine--white, red, green), and as we spoke each vow, we'd wrap one cord around our hands (alternating between His and mine).  With all six cords wrapped around our hands, He claimed me as His own. 

After the cords, we burried two coins under the roots of the tree together. 

There was no formal placing of a collar around my neck, but the lovely cords and small spade we used are 'on display' in our home. 

Six months after the collaring, we formalized things with 'nilla friends and family with a legal wedding.  He carried His cords in His suit pocket, and I had my cords wrapped in my bouquet.  No one really knew why they were there, but we did. 

We have the whole thing on video, but it's dark, and the light from the single candle we used kinda overpowers the details.

Edited to add:  After the collaring, we went inside and fucked like rabbits.  Sorry, I hadda get that out because the whole post seemed kinda heavy.

< Message edited by valeca -- 3/5/2007 5:33:16 PM >

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