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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 4:57:15 PM

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snuggle time. hehehe pretty "undomly" but makes for a happy slave! and we all know what happy slaves make!!!!

good dick suckers rofl

~teasing grin~...how about rimmers, mixie? Do they become good rimmers?

That's right...we are still waiting for the rest of that story, aren't we?!!

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 5:03:42 PM

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snuggle time. hehehe pretty "undomly" but makes for a happy slave! and we all know what happy slaves make!!!!

good dick suckers rofl

~teasing grin~...how about rimmers, mixie? Do they become good rimmers?

i will never live it down

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 5:29:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

snuggle time. hehehe pretty "undomly" but makes for a happy slave! and we all know what happy slaves make!!!!

good dick suckers rofl

~teasing grin~...how about rimmers, mixie? Do they become good rimmers?

i will never live it down

Don't you have to get "down" there to ....live it?

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 5:32:37 PM

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LMAO!!!!

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 5:38:46 PM

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I was ordered to top him. And not just once, but on a regular basis from that point on. I felt it was then time to reconsider the dynamics of the realtionship as I walked out of the door.

I would like to ask about this further, if I may. I completely understand not wanting to top your dom, it could mess with your head perhaps, but at the same time (as a dom who enjoys bottoming sometimes) what's so wrong with it? I enjoy x being done to me so I tell the sub to do it. Doesn't matter if x is performing a sexual act on me or flogging me, I enjoy it either way. Now of course, springing this on someone mid-relationship if it's not what you had going from the start and had agreed upon might be troubling. On the other hand, I just see doing what the dom wants as submitting despite what the order may be.

I'm curious, was it only the fact that he wanted to be topped by you that made you reconsider the dynamic or was that just one of many issues? Open to hearing others' thoughts as well but maybe it needs its own thread.

He decided that he preferred to be the sub in a relationship. It was something that I had suspected based on little things he said. I have no problem topping a bit every now and then in order to please, but not every single time which is what he wanted. Just not my nature.

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 6:01:47 PM

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So tops and bottoms, doms and subs, and god knows what others, post away about your undomly orders!

[tongue in cheek]

I responded to your demand that I respond to this thread.

[/tongue in cheek]

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 6:03:26 PM

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You are truly evil.

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 6:05:47 PM

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I guess to be truly honest, I dont really spend much time viewing my actions to determine whether they are Dominant or not.

I told somebody I was with I was not in the mood for sex, a blow job, or anything one night. She was shocked. But I was working my ass off at 2 extremely physical jobs and I really didnt want to do anything but collapse in a heap.

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/15/2007 6:46:45 PM

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He dips His lid to all,

SimpleMichael; you stated "I am curious to hear what "undomly" orders other have given or have been given. I want to make a point, or at least think I can, that not all orders come out of the "uberdominant" coloring book.....So tops and bottoms, doms and subs, and god knows what others, post away about your undomly orders!"

Hence my; Umm, very subjective and to most I do not appear Domly cos I'm me and my Precious knows my expectations.- so I'll pass on that. (this answers your UberDominant)
and now our funniest comment outside of the 'book'
BUT the most Domly words from my sub was when I was poly and my two Precious both wanted my immediate sexual attention after we'd taken a breather with a couple of shots. The loud voice to begin recommence was 'Hey Dom' like calling a dog. The shock on both the faces as it was said, and my laughter immediately afterwards.

then you whip it out and beat me with; Wow, you are SUCH a stud, two women at once eh? What's next you going to post a cock picture?

I don't think there are many of the regular dom posters who haven't had lots of threesomes, foursomes, or more so can you explain to me what the hell you added to this thread but a pile of oversized ego droppings?

SimpleMichael; 'Perhaps you can explain to me where your Post to me is not a pile of insecure ego droppings?

Failure to explain yourself will not suprise me SimpleMichael! I will simply move my play equipment to a more ethical dungeon where the sun is not directed to shine only on puerile CrappyDoms

Warm smuggy smiles to all. Driver.

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/16/2007 4:14:46 PM

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Oh i finally remembered one....

I was completely in subspace, but sort of falling out of it. I know the Dom was trying to enter the backdoor, but wasn't possitionedme the wrong to get there. I guess he didn't realize the diffrence, because his next comment was something like how he is going to take over my ass. I had to politely tell him that isn't where he was.

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/16/2007 6:21:47 PM

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Sir had taken some medication that He turned out to be allergic to. I was graocery shopping and came home to find Him scratching His back against the door jam. Upon walking in He immediately hollars "scratch my back NOW" I say it was undomly because it did not come from a place of control but rather desperartion. I scratched His back got Him some benedryl, rubbed Him down with Lotion. He finally got back to Himself with an off hand comment about" you are good for something slut" LOLOL

ROFLMFBAO I think this shows that Doms are people too. But, uh..ROFLMBAO

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/16/2007 6:36:11 PM

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/16/2007 7:25:40 PM

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LOL MFM- this was very surprising to me as it happened at EVERY southern household I've been to. They would specifically tell me "OK this first time I'm doing it for you, but after that you fend for yourself" and acted as if this was the height of polite hostessing!

Everywhere I've been in the North, the host was expected to provide and deal with those things directly every single time and it would take quite awhile for someone to become socially close enough to start rummaging in another kitchen and "help themselves."

Culture clash there.

I am a Northern gal and did not know that the South had a diff way of performing the social act of getting a drink for a guest. But you are right here we get the drinks for others until that person has become a close friend. I get upset in fact if others even open my cabinet doors. I feel they are being nosey. It is just a culture thing of no one gets into someone elses cabinets unless they are family or a close friend.

Sorry to get off the thread i was just surprised over the difference.

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RE: Most undominant order you give or got? - 3/17/2007 6:54:40 AM

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