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second chances? - 3/15/2007 5:44:49 PM   
bowandserve


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Status: offline 		There's been some subs in the past that had potential and it ended. Perhaps I dismissed too easily or was too demanding up front and they got overwhelmed.

I'm still in touch with a couple and think about trying them again. Goes against my dom side to ever forgive and forget.

Have you taken back a sub? Was it worth it? Did work out in the end?
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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 5:47:47 PM   
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in a word no.  When it comes to that-- send lawyers, guns and money....

Sure, they can turn your head--what drew them to you in the first place?
But if you are fundamentally incompatable, why try to fuck it up again by further investment?

Ron


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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 5:57:16 PM   
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send lawyers, guns and money....


I like your use of this phrase.  But wish you'd have kept it for a train wreck of a thread.  It'd really be funny there.


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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:04:47 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I can forsee the future, Katy---

He may ride forever 'neath the streets of Boston-------
Ol' Charlie held the handle, and the train it won't stop goin'
Casey Jones, a-steamin' and a-rollin'
And the sons of pullman porters and the sons of engineers;
ride their father's magic carpet made of steel---------------


train wreck,
Ol' number 9

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:31:16 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: bowandserve

Have you taken back a sub? Was it worth it? Did work out in the end?


yes yes, and the end hasn't arrived yet.  I'll get back to you if and when it does. :)

tbc

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:40:17 PM   
fergus


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I can forsee the future, Katy---

He may ride forever 'neath the streets of Boston-------
Ol' Charlie held the handle, and the train it won't stop goin'
Casey Jones, a-steamin' and a-rollin'
And the sons of pullman porters and the sons of engineers;
ride their father's magic carpet made of steel---------------


train wreck,
Ol' number 9


"You're a CRUEL fireman, low down engineer - I'm tryin' to hobo my way and you leave me standing here."

fergus

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:44:21 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: fergus

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I can forsee the future, Katy---

He may ride forever 'neath the streets of Boston-------
Ol' Charlie held the handle, and the train it won't stop goin'
Casey Jones, a-steamin' and a-rollin'
And the sons of pullman porters and the sons of engineers;
ride their father's magic carpet made of steel---------------


train wreck,
Ol' number 9


"You're a CRUEL fireman, low down engineer - I'm tryin' to hobo my way and you leave me standing here."

fergus


That's right.  Now take it like a good lil sissy BItch.

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:46:00 PM   
mnottertail


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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:49:19 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		The same goes for potential dom's.  I used to make excuses, forgive and forget, give second, third, fourth chances.  Now I just listen to my gut when it tells me that something ain't right, and not to waste anymore time with it.

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:53:05 PM   
fergus


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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: fergus

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I can forsee the future, Katy---

He may ride forever 'neath the streets of Boston-------
Ol' Charlie held the handle, and the train it won't stop goin'
Casey Jones, a-steamin' and a-rollin'
And the sons of pullman porters and the sons of engineers;
ride their father's magic carpet made of steel---------------


train wreck,
Ol' number 9


"You're a CRUEL fireman, low down engineer - I'm tryin' to hobo my way and you leave me standing here."

fergus


That's right.  Now take it like a good lil sissy BItch.


For you Mistress Dolly?  Gladly ;)

For Ron, not so much - but he's good people anyway :)

fergus

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:56:55 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: fergus

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I can forsee the future, Katy---

He may ride forever 'neath the streets of Boston-------
Ol' Charlie held the handle, and the train it won't stop goin'
Casey Jones, a-steamin' and a-rollin'
And the sons of pullman porters and the sons of engineers;
ride their father's magic carpet made of steel---------------


train wreck,
Ol' number 9


"You're a CRUEL fireman, low down engineer - I'm tryin' to hobo my way and you leave me standing here."

fergus


That's right.  Now take it like a good lil sissy BItch.


For you Mistress Dolly?  Gladly ;)

For Ron, not so much - but he's good people anyway :)

fergus


you always this so obedient?  ;)

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 6:58:22 PM   
fergus


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fergus

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:00:44 PM   
mnottertail


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you lookin' to take him out of action?

He speaks for himself, but I am sure he could be spanked..

what do you offer the boy?
He is not as big on railroad as he is on rubber meeting the road or metaphor.

He's a metaphysical genius----can you live with that?

MotherHenedly,
Ron


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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:01:28 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: fergus

woof.

fergus


Ah, there's my good lil boy.  *****pat pat*****

Hungry?
:)

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:02:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are one or two that I would give a second chance to - mostly based on the fact that they were unrelocatable at the time we decided that it wasn't going to work.  If they become relocatable, then I'd be happy to consider them again and see where things go.

However, if they were no longer in consideration for other reasons, I'd have to think really hard about it.

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:03:41 PM   
fergus


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

fergus?

you lookin' to take him out of action?

He speaks for himself, but I am sure he could be spanked..

what do you offer the boy?
He is not as big on railroad as he is on rubber meeting the road or metaphor.

He's a metaphysical genius----can you live with that?

MotherHenedly,
Ron



Did I say 'good people'?  I meant 'real sweetheart'.  Ron's a real sweetheart ;)

fergus

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:05:02 PM   
fergus


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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: fergus

woof.

fergus


Ah, there's my good lil boy.  *****pat pat*****

Hungry?
:)


starving.  Famished in fact.

fergus

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:06:12 PM   
SilverShadows


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Status: offline 		I have never had any luck with second chances and have had bad experiences. If the error was significant enough to drop them in the first place they probably should have know better.  $0.02

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:14:06 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: fergus

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: fergus

woof.

fergus


Ah, there's my good lil boy.  *****pat pat*****

Hungry?
:)


starving.  Famished in fact.

fergus


what meal do you fancy the most, hungryslutpuppy?

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RE: second chances? - 3/15/2007 7:15:46 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		No offense intended, but I have a feeling that the OP would like some input that is on topic, rather than watching the two of you converse.

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